[quote]Fiction wrote:
Don’t make assumptions about me just because you have 100x more posts than I do.[/quote]
He’s not making assumptions based on the quantity of your posts, but on their lack of intelligence…
And you didn’t answer as to whether you’re in high school…
[quote]Fiction wrote:
Professor X wrote:
What, are you in high school? You expect an upset woman to act…rationally?
No. Men are frequently irrational as well when upset. However, people are startlingly intelligent when it comes to protecting their own self-interest. Not all the time, but often.
Don’t make assumptions about me just because you have 100x more posts than I do.[/quote]
I’ll tell you what. Why don’t you do whatever you want, since you’re going to do it anyway? Keep us posted on the outcome, especially the fallout.
[quote]Fiction wrote:
Professor X wrote:
What, are you in high school? You expect an upset woman to act…rationally?
No. Men are frequently irrational as well when upset. However, people are startlingly intelligent when it comes to protecting their own self-interest. Not all the time, but often.
Don’t make assumptions about me just because you have 100x more posts than I do.[/quote]
He could have 100 time fewer posts than you and that would not change how utterly stupid your scheme is.
How about you get a fucking job and stop leaching off people?
You are the poster child for the fucking morons who should be banned from this site without a second thought.
[quote]Fiction wrote:
Professor X wrote:
What, are you in high school? You expect an upset woman to act…rationally?
No. Men are frequently irrational as well when upset. However, people are startlingly intelligent when it comes to protecting their own self-interest. Not all the time, but often.
Don’t make assumptions about me just because you have 100x more posts than I do.[/quote]
Yes, clearly I just can’t figure you out.
[quote]rainjack wrote:
You are the poster child for the fucking morons who should be banned from this site without a second thought. [/quote]
LiverFromThe781 has been taken down from the cross !
BoS …analog_kid redirect the cell phone triangulators…
Dude everyone on here in the military is telling you not to do it.I worked with the base law enforcement for quite some time and we actually had a guy in jail for cheating on his wife.Grant it his wife was an officer.I had a fellow soldier cheat with my wife and he was taken off of orders and sent back to his national guard unit.
I’m dealing with an ex gf right now who is very vindictive and has threatened on numerous occasions to report me to the military for certain supplement use.You can’t trust anyone.It doesn’t matter how much a woman tells you that she will keep her mouth shut.If she gets mad enough at you she will tell everything she knows.The risks far outweigh the benifits.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
HotCarl28 wrote:
Professor X wrote:
HotCarl28 wrote:
Uhm, sleeping around with married people in the military can mean a court martial or a reduction in rank…which will cause far more financial problems than simply not being married.
The stories are rampant. Captains busted down to first Lt. or worse because they slept with another soldier’s wife while they were deployed. This shit is not taken lightly. Not to mention the fact that gossip on military bases is WORSE than high school.
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Im still not sure if im understanding the whole situation correctly.
-OP is married to wife
-OP has sex with someone else in military
-OP gets court martialed
- because this has proved his marriage to be illegimate?
- or because adultery in general is punished via court martial?
if its the latter then it doesn’t address my point which was simply that it is weird that people get “caught” not that a false marriage will cause fringe problems
however upon reflection ur point that ppl will almost certainly talk is true… i forget what little gossipy pussies most ppl are… and how most of them snap like toothpicks with even the slightest bit of pressure from an “authority” figure (can u tell im bitter from experience?)
[quote]sen say wrote:
He’s not making assumptions based on the quantity of your posts, but on the lack of intelligence…
And you didn’t answer as to whether you’re in high school…[/quote]
No I’m not in high school.
As to my posts, I fail to see what was so unintelligent about them. Probably because I am so stupid…
[quote]rainjack wrote:
He could have 100 time fewer posts than you and that would not change how utterly stupid your scheme is.[/quote]
I don’t think that my “scheme” is obviously stupid on the face of it. I think I asked legitimate questions. Part of my question was whether it was a good idea or not, and I’m getting some good information. What’s the problem?
[quote]How about you get a fucking job and stop leaching off people?
You are the poster child for the fucking morons who should be banned from this site without a second thought. [/quote]
Ah, good to see a healthy openness to differing opinions and perspectives as well as healthy debate. By the way, Professor X–here is a fine example of how men can get irrational when upset as well.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Yes, clearly I just can’t figure you out. [/quote]
Did you try or did you just feel the direction of the mob and feel that this is a great opportunity to try and pwn a n00b.
It’s good to see I’m the only one attempting to have a rational discussion without resorting to insults. Real testament to the site.
[quote]BIG_SEXY wrote:
Dude everyone on here in the military is telling you not to do it.I worked with the base law enforcement for quite some time and we actually had a guy in jail for cheating on his wife.Grant it his wife was an officer.I had a fellow soldier cheat with my wife and he was taken off of orders and sent back to his national guard unit.
I’m dealing with an ex gf right now who is very vindictive and has threatened on numerous occasions to report me to the military for certain supplement use.You can’t trust anyone.It doesn’t matter how much a woman tells you that she will keep her mouth shut.If she gets mad enough at you she will tell everything she knows.The risks far outweigh the benifits.[/quote]
jesus christ ppl in the military must be fucking like rabbits
[quote]HotCarl28 wrote:
Professor X wrote:
HotCarl28 wrote:
Professor X wrote:
HotCarl28 wrote:
Uhm, sleeping around with married people in the military can mean a court martial or a reduction in rank…which will cause far more financial problems than simply not being married.
The stories are rampant. Captains busted down to first Lt. or worse because they slept with another soldier’s wife while they were deployed. This shit is not taken lightly. Not to mention the fact that gossip on military bases is WORSE than high school.
Im still not sure if im understanding the whole situation correctly.
-OP is married to wife
-OP has sex with someone else in military
-OP gets court martialed
- because this has proved his marriage to be illegimate?
- or because adultery in general is punished via court martial?
if its the latter then it doesn’t address my point which was simply that it is weird that people get “caught” not that a false marriage will cause fringe problems
however upon reflection ur point that ppl will almost certainly talk is true… i forget what little gossipy pussies most ppl are… and how most of them snap like toothpicks with even the slightest bit of pressure from an “authority” figure (can u tell im bitter from experience?)[/quote]
No, military gossip is worse than anything I have ever experienced. You almost have to give people something to talk about so they quit digging for info. In an environment like that, good luck with keeping a HUGE FUCKING SECRET.
I am also laughing at you guys hearing soldiers tell you that it is a bad idea only to brush it off and act like we have it all wrong.
fiction, id say in complex situations like these experience nearly always trumps logical contemplation
several ppl who are in the military have told you that it is extremely risky, so much so that it seems to be a cliche
i would say you have your answer
[quote]HotCarl28 wrote:
jesus christ ppl in the military must be fucking like rabbits[/quote]
Rabbis can fuck, but not eat pork. Priests can eat pork, but not fuck. Lutheran Pastors can do both. Studies have shown the consumption of bacon as well as God’s blessing on fucking makes Lutheran Pastors the horniest clergy in town. You might want to use them in your analogies in the future rather than Rabbis.
[quote]sen say wrote:
This isn’t a law…this is a benefit…a benefit that you and the woman would not be entitled to…so…you’re not a patriot/rebel…you’re lawbreaker…and not a lawbreaker like Thomas Jefferson or Robin Hood.
Thomas Jefferson voted to overthrow English rule because the Colonists were being penalized…they were being taxed unfairly…the English were taking their money…that is what not bowing to authority and occasionally breaking inane laws means…
What it doesn’t mean is screwing the system for your own personal gain…[/quote]
I see your point, and I think it is something that would merit some consideration. That said, it is foolish to think that that simply because you benefit from civil disobedience makes it less important. Thomas Jefferson and the other Founding Fathers may have been doing what they thought was right, but were it not for certain economic factors it is unlikely that they would have garnered the support needed within the colonies.
Anyway, I do see your point. I’ll think about it.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
HotCarl28 wrote:
Professor X wrote:
HotCarl28 wrote:
Professor X wrote:
HotCarl28 wrote:
Uhm, sleeping around with married people in the military can mean a court martial or a reduction in rank…which will cause far more financial problems than simply not being married.
The stories are rampant. Captains busted down to first Lt. or worse because they slept with another soldier’s wife while they were deployed. This shit is not taken lightly. Not to mention the fact that gossip on military bases is WORSE than high school.
Im still not sure if im understanding the whole situation correctly.
-OP is married to wife
-OP has sex with someone else in military
-OP gets court martialed
- because this has proved his marriage to be illegimate?
- or because adultery in general is punished via court martial?
if its the latter then it doesn’t address my point which was simply that it is weird that people get “caught” not that a false marriage will cause fringe problems
however upon reflection ur point that ppl will almost certainly talk is true… i forget what little gossipy pussies most ppl are… and how most of them snap like toothpicks with even the slightest bit of pressure from an “authority” figure (can u tell im bitter from experience?)
No, military gossip is worse than anything I have ever experienced. You almost have to give people something to talk about so they quit digging for info. In an environment like that, good luck with keeping a HUGE FUCKING SECRET.
I am also laughing at you guys hearing soldiers tell you that it is a bad idea only to brush it off and act like we have it all wrong.[/quote]
Yes, the rumor mill is very, very quick. But let the OP find out. Be sure to not wear a condom when you sleep with her, OP! Believe her when she tells you she’s on birth control!
[quote]PRCalDude wrote:
Yes, the rumor mill is very, very quick. But let the OP find out. Be sure to not wear a condom when you sleep with her, OP! Believe her when she tells you she’s on birth control![/quote]
OMG! LOL!
I figured this thread was going to be about the many benefits of marriage…live longer, more sex…etc…
[quote]Professor X wrote:
I am also laughing at you guys hearing soldiers tell you that it is a bad idea only to brush it off and act like we have it all wrong.[/quote]
Who is doing that?
[quote]Professor X wrote:
I am also laughing at you guys hearing soldiers tell you that it is a bad idea only to brush it off and act like we have it all wrong.[/quote]
i never questioned that ppl were getting caught… merely said i found it weird
How fucking stupid do you have to be? For an extra 250 USD a month plus benefits?!?!?! Damn son, if you’re gonna be a whore, why not sin big? Pimp your damn self out to a stupid rich woman for the big bucks! There’s plenty of them around, as long as you don’t mind ugly, old and/or fat, why not live the life? As long as you’re willing to put up with her shit, you might as well put up with big money shit. Just makes your bitch life easier to rationalize with lots of green involved.
[quote]Yo Momma wrote:
How fucking stupid do you have to be? For an extra 250 USD a month plus benefits?!?!?! Damn son, if you’re gonna be a whore, why not sin big? Pimp your damn self out to a stupid rich woman for the big bucks! There’s plenty of them around, as long as you don’t mind ugly, old and/or fat, why not live the life? As long as you’re willing to put up with her shit, you might as well put up with big money shit. Just makes your bitch life easier to rationalize with lots of green involved.[/quote]
Now THAT was funny.