[quote]Melvin Smiley wrote:
I went to a private liberal arts college…I’ve got a LOT of gay friends haha[/quote]
Hendrix?
lol hendrix is full of gays. nice to see some arkansas members here
My best friend growing up eventually came out as gay. His family is strongly Catholic and he was always very pious as well, even seriously musing on taking vows and joining the priesthood.
Anyway when he finally decided to tell his parents, he sat them down, mustered up his courage and told them. They fell apart laughing with relief. Seems they were terrified he was going to run off an become a Jesuit…
Just proves you just never know!
– jj
I’ve never really viewed gay people any differently than straight folks. Most of the people I choose to associate with are simply cool. If another man tries to flirt with me, I laugh, but let him know that I love the kitty-kat. It’s still a stroke (no pun intended AT ALL) of the ego…kinda like Stifler in American Wedding (Gay people want to fuck me!!) LMAO. Also brings to mind an almost helpless feeling I’ve had on two occasions. One was when my gf and I hopped on the train in DC, and a bunch of dudes (gay would be an understatement) got quiet and were just sizing me up like a piece of meat. That was a scary, but funny experience. A couple of years later, I returned home from training (MMA) and walked to the bathroom. While cutting through the living room, I noticed around a dozen ladies grinning and leering at me. One of them was holding a dildo, while another was staring at me all slack-jawed, while the vibrator in her hand was going. Again, felt like a piece of meat. It didn’t help that they were participating in a “slumber” party, and I walked in with no shirt on.
[quote]Makavali wrote:
Petermus wrote:
I dont care if people are gay but when they start talking about…or come on to you its very uncomfortable.
Why? You just tell them you don’t swing that way and they’ll stop coming onto you.
And giving out blow jobs sends the wrong impression.[/quote]
I had this creepy old guy stalk me for awhile. It was pretty cool. He always wanted to telk to me about Oldsmobile motors and working at the library. (I don’t work at the library).
[quote]Beast27195 wrote:
A couple of years later, I returned home from training (MMA) and walked to the bathroom. While cutting through the living room, I noticed around a dozen ladies grinning and leering at me. One of them was holding a dildo, while another was staring at me all slack-jawed, while the vibrator in her hand was going. Again, felt like a piece of meat. It didn’t help that they were participating in a “slumber” party, and I walked in with no shirt on. [/quote]
What a second, you just got home one day and women were having a dildo slumber party in your house? Need a roomate?
I think it’s funny when a guy finds out a friend is gay and then get worried that he’s going to get slipped a dick mickey at any time.
Look at it this way, if you walk around the mall how many women do you actually want to sleep with? Well it’s the same for gay guys…just because they want men doesn’t mean they want YOU.
[quote]medevac wrote:
I think it’s funny when a guy finds out a friend is gay and then get worried that he’s going to get slipped a dick mickey at any time.
Look at it this way, if you walk around the mall how many women do you actually want to sleep with? Well it’s the same for gay guys…just because they want men doesn’t mean they want YOU.
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OH NO, so it’s worse than I thought? Seriously, I want to bang probably 98.62% of the women I see at any given venue. Jk, but the point remains, it’s not like I just jump them right there in public.
I told my folks the doctor I was going to was gayer than a tangerine and they seemed concerned. My mom joked that at least I would be bigger than him. I was offended and I said “Yeah, because all gay people are sexual predators” and my dad said “Pretty much.” Now, I don’t think they’re really that bigoted, but the point remains that that’s really how people think.
I believe the ostracizing of homosexuality just forces homosexuals to more strongly identify themselves with their sexual behavior and creates a culture of sexual “deviancy” which further justifies their ostracizing, and the cycle goes on and on…
[quote]Melvin Smiley wrote:
I went to a private liberal arts college…I’ve got a LOT of gay friends haha[/quote]
ROFLMAO!!!
Only gay folks I know are bartenders…damn they’re good too. They make the best martinis 
my gf’s bisexual…does that count??
I would only get an ego boost because the hot girl wants to fuck me lol…ok if anyone did XD
I wont like a large group of girls sizing me up… I could get raped… that would be terrible =) lol…lol
then again…could a guy really get raped by anyone except rosie o donald
[quote]Zap Branigan wrote:
One of my good friends and former college roommates is gay. We have known each other almost 25 years and he has been out of the closet ~ 19 years. No big deal.[/quote]
Admit it, you’re jealous.
I have a few good friends that are gay and I used to go clubbing with them to various “gay clubs.”
Yes, it is a little uncomfortable to have a guy hit on you, but once they found out I was straight, they just pretty much left me alone.
But I’ll tell you what… some of the hottest straight women hang out at gay clubs and when they find out you’re a straight male who is comfortable enough with his sexuality to hang out with gay friends… well let’s just say I like shooting fish in a barrel.
[quote]Petermus wrote:
then again…could a straight guy really get raped by anyone except rosie o donald[/quote]
Fixed.
[quote]Smartmartguy wrote:
Melvin Smiley wrote:
I went to a private liberal arts college…I’ve got a LOT of gay friends haha
ROFLMAO!!!
Only gay folks I know are bartenders…damn they’re good too. They make the best martinis
my gf’s bisexual…does that count??[/quote]
I sling drinks for a living and I’m not gay. No matter what certain folks might say…
[quote]medevac wrote:
I think it’s funny when a guy finds out a friend is gay and then get worried that he’s going to get slipped a dick mickey at any time.
Look at it this way, if you walk around the mall how many women do you actually want to sleep with?
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All of them.
[quote]conorh wrote:
gayer than a tangerine [/quote]
Now there’s an interesting expression.
[quote]GumsMagoo wrote:
But I’ll tell you what… some of the hottest straight women hang out at gay clubs and when they find out you’re a straight male who is comfortable enough with his sexuality to hang out with gay friends… well let’s just say I like shooting fish in a barrel.[/quote]
Amen to that.
lots of gay friends, lots of straight friends. lots of friends.
Never any close friends. Some guys that ran in the same circles in college, and one of my fraternity brothers, as well as one guy who was in the same circles in law school. I can really only think of one example that was really a surprise though, and I probably know him the least well.
I’ve heard some rumors about a couple of guys from back in high school, but those would be equally unsurprising.
Oh, and definitely some people at work too.
[quote]kelleyb wrote:
Melvin Smiley wrote:
I went to a private liberal arts college…I’ve got a LOT of gay friends haha
Hendrix? [/quote]
I went to Lyon up in Batesville, which is the next gayest thing I suppose.
The idea of boning another guy is pretty gross to me, but I’ve kinda got a thing for chubby girls and I like being pushed around and talked down to, so who am I to judge someone based on what they like sexually?