I’ll be honest, I’m hoping this dialog between Brick and orion continues. I want to see how this develops.
I have to admit though, I didn’t expect “Meanwhile, build up your empire and get a decent girl to start a family.” I think it’s the first time I’ve heard mention of an end game.
[quote]LoRez wrote:
I’ll be honest, I’m hoping this dialog between Brick and orion continues. I want to see how this develops.
I have to admit though, I didn’t expect “Meanwhile, build up your empire and get a decent girl to start a family.” I think it’s the first time I’ve heard mention of an end game.[/quote]
Well, its unlikely, but you gotta have dreams you know.
Alas, I would not cast pearls before swine.
I am a one man “show me state”.
[quote]BrickHead wrote:
My fiance fawns over me, pampers me, and spoils me. [/quote]
So you’re doing it right.
Meanwhile, much of my crew from undergrad (ie. those who went 1-and-done) would absolutely benefit from a mentality adjustment.
[quote]LoRez wrote:
I’ll be honest, I’m hoping this dialog between Brick and orion continues. I want to see how this develops.[/quote]
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[quote]LoRez wrote:
I’ll be honest, I’m hoping this dialog between Brick and orion continues. I want to see how this develops.
I have to admit though, I didn’t expect “Meanwhile, build up your empire and get a decent girl to start a family.” I think it’s the first time I’ve heard mention of an end game.[/quote]
As for the end game.
My end game is not necessarily yours.
I am 40, and yes I would like to have children.
Alas, I have ditched the whole “The ONE!!” nonsense because I had to.
I learned how women operate because I had to.
I learned of the advantages women have in our society, by way of selective egalitarian magic, because I had to.
You have a luxury I do not have, you have time.
You can whore around and try to find a semi unicorn that is bearable for a few decades.
Me, I would have to get very, very lucky.
Alas, my dick shall get sucked, so there is a certain degree of certainty there.
Also, prenub.
[quote]MaximusB wrote:
Women can determine within a few seconds if she will give you the time of day. Women will never admit to being this physically/visually critical, but they are. Most of the time, it’s the guy who opens his mouth and talks himself out of getting in her vag. I look back now being older, at how utterly fucking stupid I was with really hot women in my 20’s, only to realize that I could have taxed more ass than the government. But I opened my mouth and stuck my both feet in.
Looking good and having confidence will get her clothes off, but not sounding like a tool will get your cock in her brain. [/quote]
This reminded me something I meant to say before regarding the “fat guy game skills.” I think the difference between me and most of the other guys in the bars back in the day is that I am a man. I was in my late teens/earl 20’s when the whole metrosexual femization of the American male caught fire. I rebelled against all of that. I don’t even consider myself an alpha, but I am a fucking man. Those weepy mousse caked bitches (guys) who’s only goals in life were finding the perfect appletini and highlights in their hair made me want to puke. I had no part in it. I drank things on the rocks or an actual martini. I only watched Sex and the City once because I thought there would be more tits. When I got dumped I worked it out in a strip bar and moved the fuck on. I did not let one women wreck my life. I had/have self respect. I have confidence that comes from myself, not putting down someone else.
so…my “game” was, “if you ready for a man that will treat you like a woman, lets go.”
http://youtu.be/4FM1LLO3L2M
Uh, metrosexuals get women, oftentimes quite a few.
[quote]BrickHead wrote:
Uh, metrosexuals get women, oftentimes quite a few. [/quote]
Everyone who wants to get laid will, sooner or later. For every doormat there is someone to wipe their feet on it. I have yet to meet a woman who was happy that her man was prettier than her.
I’m not recommending being a slob, just be a man.
[quote]TheKraken wrote:
[quote]BrickHead wrote:
Uh, metrosexuals get women, oftentimes quite a few. [/quote]
Everyone who wants to get laid will, sooner or later. For every doormat there is someone to wipe their feet on it. I have yet to meet a woman who was happy that her man was prettier than her.
I’m not recommending being a slob, just be a man. [/quote]
It’s more due to the fat that metrosexual are vain, fashion conscious, and usually hugely concerned with income, status, recreation, FUN, and getting women!
[quote]orion wrote:
Thats not ballsy at all, that is a logical deduction if my premises regarding the female mind are correct.
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Of course it’s ballsy. Go ahead and tell that to some women who love their men, or even better tell men that line of shit and see how it works out: at best, you’ll have them insult you, and at worst, get physically assaulted.
Speaking of a masculine era versus the era we have today: 100 years ago, if a woman were groped or verbally insulted, the offender might have been in a fight for his life, and the townspeople would sympathize with the insulted man if he caved the other one’s head in.
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Then it would be true. [/quote]
What is true, that ALL women, even normal and steady ones don’t love the man their married to unless he is on par with Brad Pitt or Bill Gates or Tom Brady?
I’m going to lead a normal, ordinary middle class life with a normal women and hopefully have kids. How does that sound? Oh, I know, certainly not on par with the PUA devotee’s dream of having a harem of women ready at his disposable for sexual romps on yachts and exotic locations while he sips an iced beverage with rum.
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You are not saying that I am wrong because I hurt the feelz, I am not on jezebel.com am I? [/quote]
You didn’t hurt my feelings but you have some brass saying that stuff. As above, see if that line works with men in person, especially wit their women around.
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PS: The somewhat good news is women, apparently, can love![/quote]
Yeah, normal ones do, like those in my family–you know, my mother, cousins, grandmothers, etc.–and likely in yours.
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Ja![/quote]
Yes to what?
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MRIs have apparently shown that the same regions light up like when a man loves. They just can unlove you pretty quickly if the reasons for their “love” no longer exists. [/quote]
Yeah, this goes for what one calls SHALLOW people.
To everyone who has no problem referring to women in highly negative ways, I’d like to remind you that you have sisters and mothers and so on.
Yeah, I know it hurts when the chickens come home to roost and someone might refer to YOUR female relatives as “sloars”. Better to call others that I see.
[quote]TheKraken wrote:
Back in the day I was a smooth, suave muthafucka. I was a fat guy, but I could talk the panties off of a few woman way out of my league. I didn’t use some bro-psychology, or any pick up artist BS, I just enjoyed making conversation and making that conversation continue in bed, car, bathroom or once in a park.
I didn’t always win, but I always had fun. I once got laid by ending the conversation with , “Listen, I know its late and I know you’re weary–I know your plans…don’t include me. But still here we are, both of us lonely…” It only worked once, and I am sure haters gonna hate, but I had a great night that didn’t include
These days, I am happily married to woman who is still out of my league and I still hit on my wife for the fun of it, but on a quiet Saturday night like this I remember the thrill of victory and the agony of another drink. So, a simple request and let those who flame go right ahead, but there is a young player out there somewhere…at the end of the night, have her call you “Kraken,” just once, just for me.
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don’t you get depressed sometimes thinking about back in the day?
when i settled down i was at top of my game. i was good. i could get a different woman every week. i liked to throw a little variety.
i still have so many opportunities. just today at the dealership, secretary. the other week, i had lunch with a friend (girl) who asks me how’s my sex life. i remember a girlfriend who told me she likes to watch german p… i think i still have her number.
it’s really really hard and so depressing. but settling down is the right thing to do, i think. man i miss being single.