Flame Free Confession III: Even More Flame Free (Part 1)

I dunno. I’m not on social media. But I’ve encountered these types IRL .

As long as you stand your ground and don’t allow them to divert from from the real subject in dispute no matter how much they try to goad you into it trailing away into another topic - this is their attempt to take control of the narrative - they’ll paint themselves into a corner eventually.

Once this happens, you can then spin any fucking thing you want about them and the audience will buy it. But don’t do it or you’re now the asshole. Just let them run.

Unless there’s money to be made, of course. Then anything goes lol.

AND I’M NOT TALKING ABOUT @hardartery.

I DIDN’T DRIVE HIM AWAY, NOR DID I EVEN KNOW HE WAS GONE.

I don’t even know him well but from what I can tell he’s too dignified and old school to do shit like this, I only do it because I’ve done this shit so much IRL it’s become second nature even in a non-work situation. And I’m not proud of it. It’s disgusting.

Fucking hell, I come here to gain some knowledge, get into some stimulating exchanges, criticize political shit I can’t do IRL, impart a bit of knowledge when I can, make stupid jokes I can’t make IRL, rant about movies and shit, get some deeper insights into stuff like religion, express some feelings I can’t display IRL etc.

I don’t want to do stuff like real thinking and shit that people actually fucking PAY ME to do.

EDIT:

And from our few short exchanges, I have a pretty good impression of @hardartery . Not sure why he’s leaving but I hope he changes his mind cos he’s certainly an asset to this forum.

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I can’t talk for him… but it deals with taboo subject matter I believe.

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Wow. Then that makes it 2 of us in one day. Only I’m not leaving. I’m gonna buy a lottery ticket.

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That’s a bummer, I liked that dude.

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Not to cancel-culture you, but I believe that in the purest sense of the term I am probably a SJW, though only moderately so. I don’t think of myself as closed minded, nor am I looking to win arguments at the expense of my integrity or anyone else’s.

I feel like you paint people who believe in…well, social justice…with too broad a brush when you group them and then assume lack of reason. Republicans are not Trumpian, unless of course they are. Liberals are not communists, unless of course they are. Libertarian’s are not violent white supremacists, unless of course they are. SJW are not assholes, unless of course they are.

I’m dying to know who it was.

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As a moderate and a independent… I just shake my head at extremes you see on both sides of the spectrum.

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Wait. He’s gone?

Yep… for the reason I mentioned above.

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Sorry, missed your post

Well

I wasn’t sure about the reason at the time. But I later got confirmation.

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I confess Y’all should take this trash back to the political section of the forum.

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I’m not discussing politics here, just confessing that I’m an “SJW” but not an SJW.

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@wanna_be suppresses discussion of the battles faced by the most vulnerable of us. This is no accident, it is straight out of the white supremacist playbook. It would be wrong to throw the word Nazi around but he sure is making it hard not to.

@EmilyQ I do not believe you have the “warrior” characteristics of an SJW that require broken logic, aggression and zero ability to compromise. I have you closer to a Social Justice Ghandi SJG

@wanna_be apologies for using your post as an example and basically ignoring your very reasonable request :joy:

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I see you read the thread, You should then know I’m actually DOWNPLAYING what actually transpired. I literally couldn’t believe what I was reading.

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Learning that I could mute entire subforums was pretty game-changing for me. If this thread was still in BSL I’d have muted off topic too, I think.

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Too many lunatics here, I’ve spent the last 2 days deleting posts until my delete quotas expired,

Confession: At my request, my wife hides all* the sweets in the house. When I want some, I ask her to get it for me.
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*Except nasty stuff I’d sooner starve than eat, eg, the Mint Oreos my daughter likes.

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Girlfriend bought me a pack of white chocolate covered Oreos today to try for the first time. At the whole box.

Confession: no regrets

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I love these.

Also the carrot cake oreos. They don’t taste like carrot cake though. I’m kinda glad for that.

Confession:

Just read the label of a caramello. 5 g. of protein per king sized package!

That means I only have to eat 6 of them as a good post work out! :grin:

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