If you really want to learn practical aspects of fighting, and how to make the most of your potential, look into something called JEET KUNE DO. JKD is not a martial art by itself, but it is Bruce Lee’s philosophy on how to use martial arts. The three main tenents are:
- Throw out what’s useless
- Take what’s useful
- Make it your own
The idea is that no one martial system can do everything the best, but every system does have something to offer. I’ve seen Brazilian Jiujitsu players take down Kung Fu experts, Muay Thai boxers take down TKD master, and lots of other crazy stuff.
The point is, you have to have a little bit of everything, and that was Bruce’s idea when he was training and streetfighting. You need to know how to punch, so learn some boxing and muay thai. You need to know how to kick, so learn some Hapkido, TKD, or teng su do. You need to know how to grapple, so learn jujitsu, wrestling and sambo.
You need to know how to fight empty hands, with weapons, and against multiple opponents, so learn some Filipino martial arts and Kali. No art can do everything, but every art can do something, and that’s the idea of JKD.
With regard to the situations leading up to fighting, it’s definitely better not to fight. My main teacher has been streetfighting since he was a kid and has spent years as a full contact fighter all over the world, but if somebody tries to pick an ego-based fight with him, his first plan is to beg not to fight, and run away if he can, even if he knows that he can easily take the other person out.
When a guy with a knife who is on PCP decides he doesn’t like your face and wants to fix it for you, you don’t have much of a choice. It’s not about being a badass and flaunting an ego, but about doing what’s best with regard to the situation.
What’s best may actually be throwing a person who is trying to attack you and choking them to unconsciousness (classic jujitsu, and is not really that painful), as opposed to repeatedly kicking and elbowing them in the head until they are incapacitated (like muay thai).
In my opinion, as has been strongly effected by some of my teachers and mentors, reading the situation is where it all starts, and talking things out, reasoning, and running should all happen before a fight happens.
Basically, JKD is about doing what’s necessary to win. Part of this is not being dogmatic about specifically using one or another art for the purpose of self preservation. In fact, dogmatism to adhering to specific arts was what motivated Bruce to combine different arts. In his lifetime, he analyzed and took from 26 different martial arts to form his style of fighting, and he even died young.
Even in some of his movies, you can see some of his attitudes about who ought to learn what arts and why. Todyay, there are about 56 martial arts that are included in most JKD training.
Sorry to write so much or to sound like a commercial or something, but JKD is some that I myself have become passionate about, and it has definitely changed my outlook on self-defense as well as other areas of my life.