[quote]ActivitiesGuy wrote:
[quote]rubberducky7o3 wrote:
As far as the people around me, I’ve just gotten in the habit of saying “I don’t eat that,” instead of saying “No thanks, I’m on a diet.” I find that people will generally disregard “diet comments” as, idk, maybe it makes them feel bad about their own eating habits and want to force you to eat junk so they feel better. I can’t tell you the amount of freaking cake I have been offered in the last month. It’s like a freaking cake parade everywhere I go.
I don’t really like cake anyways, so it’s not hard for me to stay away, but what is with all the freaking cake?! I have actually had several people try to force feed me junk food because they think I am “depriving myself.” It is really quite frustrating. When I went out for drinks, several people tried shoving fries in my mouth and I got kind of mad about it. Temptation is a real thing and without self-discipline you will fail. There will never be a time when junk food isn’t around. Free junk food. I get offered pizza, or tater tots, or freaking cake, or candy on a daily basis. I’ve also been called a “hippie” in a derogatory way at work for eating a salad for lunch.
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I think many of us can relate. There was a good short piece on here awhile back called “Action Offends The Inactive” which you might search for.
I’m not a Paleo zealot, but the basic principles of eating Paleo appealed to me, and that just sort of became the way I eat. I don’t feel deprived at all; as you said, there’s really no cravings on my part for cake or junk food. I love eating all different kinds of meat, fruits, vegetables. I think most people have a very narrow view and don’t realize that within those three constructs there are thousands and thousands of meal possibilities. “Chicken and spinach” isn’t the only thing available to me, and yet that’s how some people perceive it. I can eat beef - but even within that there are steaks, ground beef, short ribs, flanken ribs, etc. I can eat poultry - but that includes chicken, duck, goose, turkey, and within each of those there is a breast, thigh, legs, wings, etc. There’s lamb - leg, shoulder, ribs, chops. You get the point. And yet people act like cutting out “wheat” is depriving myself because I can “only” eat meat, fruit, veg, etc.
I used to talk about this in social settings, but now I dread the subject coming up because of the kind of emotion you expressed above. It is much easier to just politely decline an item and say you’re not hungry, or you’re “Not in the mood for (X)” than it is to relate that you’re eating a specific way for a specific reason.
I, too, chuckle a bit at the traditional “office birthday cake” that seems to pop in every week or so, whenever someone has a birthday. I mean, it’s one thing to savor a really fantastic dessert from a good restaurant for your birthday - I’ll never scoff at someone for that - but do we really all need to crowd into a conference room and have a crappy, dried-out store-bought flour-and-sugar bomb (that really isn’t even that good) just because it’s someone else’s birthday?
You sound like you have a really good head on your shoulders. Please feel free to come here with your vents.[/quote]
I’m just amazed at the lack of food education out there. The other day, I was offered dried fruit at work because it was “healthy.” So I had a few pieces, then read the back of the bag. What part of sugar, dried cane sugar, high fructose corn syrup, and maltodextrin is healthy? They think that anything from a natural food store is healthy. It’s just astonishing. So I stopped eating them and had to explain why they were not healthy. These are grown adults raising children mind you.
And once I start explaining why things like this are not healthy, I get called a “hippie tree hugger” because they are all a bunch of ignorant assholes too lazy to actually learn something new.