I think way too much, huh?
[quote]WormwoodTheory wrote:
Just read through the “Dickheads at the Gym” thread. what a clusterfuck.[/quote]
It’s funny, I see where X is coming from with the loading and unloading thing.
Fuck all, if I’m going to work in, or let someone work in that is more than 2 plates different than me. I get a back pump loading and unloading as it is…
One plate or 1 plate and a 25 fine, but once someone is 2 plates behind (or ahead) I’ll either wait till they are done, or expect them to wait too.
Also gym bag by the rack = perfectly acceptable.
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
Happy late birthday, Toots. You freak.[/quote]
Thanks! I scored some Lip Fusion from Sephora and I’m in love. I will have perfect blow job lips in no time! Muhahahaha!
[quote]pch2 wrote:
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
The vegetarian thing makes eating out difficult, for sure. When I go out with friends, I can always have a steak or a chicken breast and have it be reasonable, but I see where you’re having trouble.
I am frequently the odd girl who eats weird, it’s okay.[/quote]
It just makes the prospect of dating weird too. I think I have a date on Thursday. How long until I tell him about BJJ? Lifting? That I eat like a freak? You know, that’s why it’s easy to stay w/in my friends, but dating them doesn’t actually work.
Your husband doesn’t train does he? Does he think you’re weird? I’m reading RBlue log, and her BF thinks she’s getting too big. How are you supposed to achieve that balance? [/quote]
As an old married lady, he needs to know your passions early on. The things you won’t compromise over. For me, the shitty thing is I didn’t find lifting until we’d been married a couple years. He will lift with me but he doesn’t train. It’s really a huge source of stress in our relationship.
He thinks I am obsessive and crazy with my lifting. He likes how it makes my body look, but hates seeing me hurt myself (equipment, water cutting, etc.). It’s really hard to convey to someone that doesn’t share a weird passion like this, how the pain doesn’t really hurt.
You can’t “achieve that balance.” You have to be with someone who says “She’s different, I don’t get it, but I love her for it.” Or else, with someone who shares the same passions.
Also, as for eating like a freak - I would just have it be “yes I will have a green salad” rather than “Hi, my name is pch2 and I eat like a freak.” Talking too much about eating weird will raise red flags.
[quote]tootles27 wrote:
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
Happy late birthday, Toots. You freak.[/quote]
Thanks! I scored some Lip Fusion from Sephora and I’m in love. I will have perfect blow job lips in no time! Muhahahaha! [/quote]
I’ve always loved Lip Venom.
[quote]tootles27 wrote:
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
Happy late birthday, Toots. You freak.[/quote]
Thanks! I scored some Lip Fusion from Sephora and I’m in love. I will have perfect blow job lips in no time! Muhahahaha! [/quote]
Freak!
[quote]pch2 wrote:
It just makes the prospect of dating weird too. I think I have a date on Thursday. How long until I tell him about BJJ? Lifting? That I eat like a freak? You know, that’s why it’s easy to stay w/in my friends, but dating them doesn’t actually work. [/quote]
I say tell him right away. I’m not the only dude in the world who wouldn’t freak out about it. But expect the whole “ohhh you can beat me up?” bullshit. As we (men) typically aren’t that creative, and most of the creative ones are gay or married.
So as your talking about it, explain that is a turn off. If he still doesn’t get it, fuck em’ he is a retard and needs to not get any.
My wife thinks I’m a freak, and really doesn’t get the “I have to be 280 soft to be 230 cut up in a few years” thing. Right now she is fine with it, because I’m starting to show some separation and have some sort of semblance of ab shadows. Getting her was a huge issue tho.
Now she just picks on me for drinking 4 gallons of milk a week and 5 dozen eggs, and 7-10lbs of red meat. Just like she picks on me when she catches me flexing in the mirror. She always makes a funny face, flexes and kisses her biceps.
She loves me though, and i assume she finds me attractive do to the fact I still get laid now and again. Thing is, part of being someone’s significant other is being supportive of their good habits, and nagging the fuck out of the bad ones until they go away. (Or at least that is what she does for me.)
[quote]pch2 wrote:
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
The vegetarian thing makes eating out difficult, for sure. When I go out with friends, I can always have a steak or a chicken breast and have it be reasonable, but I see where you’re having trouble.
I am frequently the odd girl who eats weird, it’s okay.[/quote]
It just makes the prospect of dating weird too. I think I have a date on Thursday. How long until I tell him about BJJ? Lifting? That I eat like a freak? You know, that’s why it’s easy to stay w/in my friends, but dating them doesn’t actually work.
Your husband doesn’t train does he? Does he think you’re weird? I’m reading RBlue log, and her BF thinks she’s getting too big. How are you supposed to achieve that balance? [/quote]
Holy shit.
I always thought of “weird” as being a good thing and it annoys me when someone wishes they were more “normal”. I prefer “unique” anyway.
Any guy who sees these quirks as a bad thing, is more than likely a boring fuck to begin with.
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
[quote]tootles27 wrote:
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
Happy late birthday, Toots. You freak.[/quote]
Thanks! I scored some Lip Fusion from Sephora and I’m in love. I will have perfect blow job lips in no time! Muhahahaha! [/quote]
I’ve always loved Lip Venom.[/quote]
I don’t know if they sell that there…going into that store makes my head spin. Of course I could only find the lip plumper that cost close to forty smackers. I got that and some dry shampoo for when I go to the gym after work.
The things girls have to do.
I love BareMinerals makeup, I’m slightly obesessed with it. Their lip glosses are decent but they don’t tingle like Lip Venom.
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
Also, as for eating like a freak - I would just have it be “yes I will have a green salad” rather than “Hi, my name is pch2 and I eat like a freak.” Talking too much about eating weird will raise red flags.[/quote]
Be upfront about not eating meat, but don’t be obsessive about it. Don’t talk about beyond the initial conversation and any questions he has. Particularly if he likes steak and you still want to bone him.
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
Also, as for eating like a freak - I would just have it be “yes I will have a green salad” rather than “Hi, my name is pch2 and I eat like a freak.” Talking too much about eating weird will raise red flags.[/quote]
Be upfront about not eating meat, but don’t be obsessive about it. Don’t talk about beyond the initial conversation and any questions he has. Particularly if he likes steak and you still want to bone him.[/quote]
And this. There are just too many girls who have food issues, so I think it’s best to just not make an issue out of things.
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P51803&categoryId=C10477
$16! Cheap![/quote]
I did see it but not the original, only the twilight edition gloss. I refuse to go there!
Count would be proud that I’m not a sellout.
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
As an old married lady, he needs to know your passions early on. The things you won’t compromise over. For me, the shitty thing is I didn’t find lifting until we’d been married a couple years. He will lift with me but he doesn’t train. It’s really a huge source of stress in our relationship.
He thinks I am obsessive and crazy with my lifting. He likes how it makes my body look, but hates seeing me hurt myself (equipment, water cutting, etc.). It’s really hard to convey to someone that doesn’t share a weird passion like this, how the pain doesn’t really hurt.
You can’t “achieve that balance.” You have to be with someone who says “She’s different, I don’t get it, but I love her for it.” Or else, with someone who shares the same passions.
Also, as for eating like a freak - I would just have it be “yes I will have a green salad” rather than “Hi, my name is pch2 and I eat like a freak.” Talking too much about eating weird will raise red flags.[/quote]
Yeah, I can’t even convey to my female friends that the pain doesn’t hurt. Even Dallas got weird watching people roll really hard with me. I get where it comes from, it’s weird to want a boyfriend to be there for you, but then be okay with some guy smashing your ribs out of place. I guess it is something to get out of the way quickly.
Oh, I know not to be odd about food with normal people initially, I guess after long enough the food just works itself out.
Beans and PMPM pretty much killed it…
Perfect advice right ther.
Oh, Toots is super-freaky, YOW!
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
[quote]tootles27 wrote:
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
Happy late birthday, Toots. You freak.[/quote]
Thanks! I scored some Lip Fusion from Sephora and I’m in love. I will have perfect blow job lips in no time! Muhahahaha! [/quote]
I’ve always loved Lip Venom.[/quote]
I can’t deal with the stingy sensation, just bite them a bunch, same effect, much cheaper.