[quote]countingbeans wrote:
Be submissive in bed, but challenge me in life.
How does that sound?[/quote]
There you go, now where are your clones?
I know clones don’t have the same personalities, but you know what I mean. [/quote]
Most men suck. I will be blunt. It is hard to find someone who is willing to not be a total doucher.
Compromise and sharing is hard, and most men say fuck that and look for the picture perfect penthouse letter girl that will take it in the pooper, let you bust one in her mouth after and go ake you a sammich while you nap. Clean the house, do your laundry and be your mom figure that you get to violate in bed…
There are plenty of dudes who are willing to live in the real world, but most want [1]
That is not a happy note to end the night on. Most men suck? Aren’t you supposed to be standing up for your gender? ATM is gross by the way. [/quote]
Beans, stop selling us out. We’re supposed to keep up the illusion of being caring and deep individuals.
okay, I get it. And I really like that you guys feel that way. It is pretty cool.
So why are so many chicks afraid of the free weight section?
You know, if there is a lady on the DB benches next to me, and I know the next set is going to be a grunting, spit flying out of my mouth, tough set, I’ll wait till she leaves.
Then again, I’ve had one MILF move from one bench to the one next to me, in order to get away from the teenagers at the other end, while spit was flying up in the air and landing back on my face.[/quote]
Maybe you shouldn’t wait until she leaves. Ever consider that she wants to see your hot ass doing all that heavy stuff??? (I’m assuming your ass is hot, haven’t actually seen it.) There are enough guys in the gym doing stuff wrong, loving themselves in the mirror, etc. I always take in the guy with great form doing anything heavy. I LOVE it.
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
Be submissive in bed, but challenge me in life.
How does that sound?[/quote]
There you go, now where are your clones?
I know clones don’t have the same personalities, but you know what I mean. [/quote]
Most men suck. I will be blunt. It is hard to find someone who is willing to not be a total doucher.
Compromise and sharing is hard, and most men say fuck that and look for the picture perfect penthouse letter girl that will take it in the pooper, let you bust one in her mouth after and go ake you a sammich while you nap. Clean the house, do your laundry and be your mom figure that you get to violate in bed…
There are plenty of dudes who are willing to live in the real world, but most want [1]
That is not a happy note to end the night on. Most men suck? Aren’t you supposed to be standing up for your gender? ATM is gross by the way. [/quote]
There are some shitty girls out there too.
What I guess I’ trying to say is, there are plenty of shitty people in the 6 billion. SO when you do find one that doesn’t suck, don’t fuck it up because some loser hurt you in the past.
Be strong, be yourself, but also be someone that real people want to be with. Not that I think you have a problem with that. Just keep in mind that you have to be vulnerable to find someone who isn’t going to shit on you.
[quote]Court wrote:
So I just found out a guy I’ve been on a few dates with is married. He never told me. I was catching up with a good guy friend of mine and told him I’d been out with this dude. His response was “You know he’s married right?”
I’m seeing married guy tomorrow (he’s in our part-time masters program). What do I say?[/quote]
You sure your good guy friend isn’t just cock blocking and saving you for himself.
Maybe the guy is divorced or getting a divorce?
Maybe he’s married, but he just wants to have fun with someone who isn’t his wife?
I have no suggestions. All of mine will end terribly for you.
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
Be submissive in bed, but challenge me in life.
How does that sound?[/quote]
There you go, now where are your clones?
I know clones don’t have the same personalities, but you know what I mean. [/quote]
Most men suck. I will be blunt. It is hard to find someone who is willing to not be a total doucher.
Compromise and sharing is hard, and most men say fuck that and look for the picture perfect penthouse letter girl that will take it in the pooper, let you bust one in her mouth after and go ake you a sammich while you nap. Clean the house, do your laundry and be your mom figure that you get to violate in bed…
There are plenty of dudes who are willing to live in the real world, but most want [1]
Nothing, walk the fuck away from that shit storm[/quote]
Wol - I know with certainty that my friend isn’t just cockblocking.
Beans - that’s what I thought… but just wasn’t sure if I say anything to him. I expect I’ll hear from him at some point… I mean we see each other a few times a week at school. What then? I am not impressed with this guy right now…
Nothing, walk the fuck away from that shit storm[/quote]
Wol - I know with certainty that my friend isn’t just cockblocking.
Beans - that’s what I thought… but just wasn’t sure if I say anything to him. I expect I’ll hear from him at some point… I mean we see each other a few times a week at school. What then? I am not impressed with this guy right now… [/quote]
I KNOW I KNOW I KNOW!
Have him take you to Red Lobster, order as much Lobster as you can, and when he pays for the check, you say:
“You think this cost you a lot, wait until your divorce”
Nothing, walk the fuck away from that shit storm[/quote]
Wol - I know with certainty that my friend isn’t just cockblocking.
Beans - that’s what I thought… but just wasn’t sure if I say anything to him. I expect I’ll hear from him at some point… I mean we see each other a few times a week at school. What then? I am not impressed with this guy right now… [/quote]
I KNOW I KNOW I KNOW!
Have him take you to Red Lobster, order as much Lobster as you can, and when he pays for the check, you say:
“You think this cost you a lot, wait until your divorce”
Court storms out of Red Lobster[/quote]
Red Lobster?? Fast-food seafood… UGH.
Court: I’d confront him and make it REALLY uncomfortable for him.
Nothing, walk the fuck away from that shit storm[/quote]
Wol - I know with certainty that my friend isn’t just cockblocking.
Beans - that’s what I thought… but just wasn’t sure if I say anything to him. I expect I’ll hear from him at some point… I mean we see each other a few times a week at school. What then? I am not impressed with this guy right now… [/quote]
Thumb your nose at him and move on.
Don’t mess with a married man, it will ONLY end badly. (Unless his wife is hot for it and wants to watch, then have a good time. But the chance of that is slim)
Nothing, walk the fuck away from that shit storm[/quote]
Wol - I know with certainty that my friend isn’t just cockblocking.
Beans - that’s what I thought… but just wasn’t sure if I say anything to him. I expect I’ll hear from him at some point… I mean we see each other a few times a week at school. What then? I am not impressed with this guy right now… [/quote]
I KNOW I KNOW I KNOW!
Have him take you to Red Lobster, order as much Lobster as you can, and when he pays for the check, you say:
“You think this cost you a lot, wait until your divorce”
Court storms out of Red Lobster[/quote]
Red Lobster?? Fast-food seafood… UGH.
Court: I’d confront him and make it REALLY uncomfortable for him.[/quote]
I have some sort of married guy magnet, ugh. So you say ‘Even though you don’t respect your relationship, I do and I would appreciate it if you respect my opinion’ and you walk away. It really is a situation where you just walk away and you protect you.
[quote]pch2 wrote:
Court, for you I log in w my phone…
I have some sort of married guy magnet, ugh. So you say ‘Even though you don’t respect your relationship, I do and I would appreciate it if you respect my opinion’ and you walk away. It really is a situation where you just walk away and you protect you.
[/quote]
I have zero desire to be involved in something that has 0% chance of ending well for anyone involved and 100% of ending badly for me.
Pch, thanks for putting in the iphone login effort for me, and thank you for the “what to say”. That’s pretty much exactly what I was looking for. Says what I feel and what I want to say/do. I’m definitely walking away but felt it was necessary to say ‘something’ to him as far as why I’m walking the fuck away.
Nothing, walk the fuck away from that shit storm[/quote]
Wol - I know with certainty that my friend isn’t just cockblocking.
Beans - that’s what I thought… but just wasn’t sure if I say anything to him. I expect I’ll hear from him at some point… I mean we see each other a few times a week at school. What then? I am not impressed with this guy right now… [/quote]
I KNOW I KNOW I KNOW!
Have him take you to Red Lobster, order as much Lobster as you can, and when he pays for the check, you say:
“You think this cost you a lot, wait until your divorce”
Court storms out of Red Lobster[/quote]
Red Lobster?? Fast-food seafood… UGH.
Court: I’d confront him and make it REALLY uncomfortable for him.[/quote]
I guess my issue with confrontation with this guy in particular - because we are in the same program at school, we know a lot of the same people. The first person I’d told about even going out with him was my friend today. I’m assuming since he’s married he wasn’t exactly telling his classmates about it (my idea too…keeping things under wraps at the beginning. FML). Anything confrontational with him in front of people has the potential to make me look bad too because ‘how didn’t I know he was married?’
No problem. I’d do it as soon as you can then he doesn’t get to interfere with your life anymore, and there’s none of that waiting for the right moment shit. There is no right moment. I also wouldn’t be worried about public or not, he made his bed.
No keeping it private makes it seem like you have something to hide, its his secret, he should have hid it better. When you go out with somene the default assumption is that they are single.