My intitial reaction was to want to yell at him and actually have a fight. There’s really no point in that is there? He’s not going to ahve anything to say to make it better. It’s best to just never talk to him again?
I’m not really a drinker, and while going through a sluttly phase holds appeal I don’t actually think I could go through with it. I’m going to cut. Let’s see how long it takes to lose 35lbs. I was 168 this morning.
Yea, it was a good match, they won 7-5, I took out 3 monster games, I was tiger fist pumping and all. But in the end, they just had too good a night. I’m just glad the season is over to be honest. 31 weeks is a bit too long, it was starting to wear on me having every wednesaday locked up like that.
I feel a sense of freedom. I’m not doing a golf league this summer either which will be a first for me in a long time also. Just me, the wife, the weights and some projects around the house. It’s going to be a good summer.
[quote]pch2 wrote:
Yeah, it drove home that we aren’t friends.
My intitial reaction was to want to yell at him and actually have a fight. There’s really no point in that is there? He’s not going to ahve anything to say to make it better. It’s best to just never talk to him again?
I’m not really a drinker, and while going through a sluttly phase holds appeal I don’t actually think I could go through with it. I’m going to cut. Let’s see how long it takes to lose 35lbs. I was 168 this morning.
Thanks for listening to my rants.[/quote]
Anytime you gotta vent, we’ll listen.
And yeah, stop talking to him.
Because if you don’t he will eventually just see you as a possible booty call and someone he keeps around for comfort/lonely sex if the need arises.
Honestly, men fucking suck like that, we really can turn off all emotion and act purely based on a “get my dick wet” basis.
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
Beans, how is bundy doing?[/quote]
Why? Where is he stalking me now?[/quote]
I’m just curious, man. I havent seen you going crazy in a while and assumed you two are roommates now.[/quote]
LOL, I ignore ignorance, and am apathetic towards such a pathetic human being.
Plus I would go broke on all the peanut butter he masturbates with.[/quote]
wtf is with you and masturbating with peanut butter? It’s been messing with my head since the first time I saw you say it like 2 years ago. I’ve been close to doing it ever since then too.
[quote]pch2 wrote:
Yeah, it drove home that we aren’t friends.
My intitial reaction was to want to yell at him and actually have a fight. There’s really no point in that is there? He’s not going to ahve anything to say to make it better. It’s best to just never talk to him again?
I’m not really a drinker, and while going through a sluttly phase holds appeal I don’t actually think I could go through with it. I’m going to cut. Let’s see how long it takes to lose 35lbs. I was 168 this morning.
Thanks for listening to my rants.[/quote]
Girl, the only reason you might want to go off on him is for your own sense of “closure” or satisfaction… if it will help. If not, don’t waste your time or energy on the douche. Good decision (in my humble opinion) on the cutting, and improving yourself.
While drinking and sluttiness is fun lol, it doesn’t sound like your style, and it might make you feel worse about yourself. This is a great opportunity to work on your self esteem and growing stronger in body and mind
Don’t let yourself take the blame for what he did… just focus on YOU and what you can do to make yourself happy… get to it, and take it one day at a time. Having a goal for self improvement is going to help you move forward and you will find someone so much better!!!
[quote]pch2 wrote:
Yeah, it drove home that we aren’t friends.
My intitial reaction was to want to yell at him and actually have a fight. There’s really no point in that is there? He’s not going to ahve anything to say to make it better. It’s best to just never talk to him again?
I’m not really a drinker, and while going through a sluttly phase holds appeal I don’t actually think I could go through with it. I’m going to cut. Let’s see how long it takes to lose 35lbs. I was 168 this morning.
Thanks for listening to my rants.[/quote]
I never understand why people would want to go through a self-destructive phase after a break-up. It’s counter-intuitive. Why not focus on improving yourself every way you can? Learn a new skill, get in better shape, work towards a positive goal. This way you become a stronger/smarter person and become more comfortable in yourself.
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
Beans, how is bundy doing?[/quote]
Why? Where is he stalking me now?[/quote]
I’m just curious, man. I havent seen you going crazy in a while and assumed you two are roommates now.[/quote]
LOL, I ignore ignorance, and am apathetic towards such a pathetic human being.
Plus I would go broke on all the peanut butter he masturbates with.[/quote]
wtf is with you and masturbating with peanut butter? It’s been messing with my head since the first time I saw you say it like 2 years ago. I’ve been close to doing it ever since then too.
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omg I’m getting a visual… pics or it didn’t happen
wtf is with you and masturbating with peanut butter?
[/quote]
I believe it is referred to as “forcing a meme” in certain circles.
I don’t know, how else wou;d you describe someone that get pleasure from trolling? I mean a peanutbutter masturbating loon sounds about right to me.[/quote]
Peanut butter masturbating does sound like something someone completely off in left field would do.
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
Beans, how is bundy doing?[/quote]
Why? Where is he stalking me now?[/quote]
I’m just curious, man. I havent seen you going crazy in a while and assumed you two are roommates now.[/quote]
LOL, I ignore ignorance, and am apathetic towards such a pathetic human being.
Plus I would go broke on all the peanut butter he masturbates with.[/quote]
wtf is with you and masturbating with peanut butter? It’s been messing with my head since the first time I saw you say it like 2 years ago. I’ve been close to doing it ever since then too.
[/quote]
omg I’m getting a visual… pics or it didn’t happen[/quote]
of course you would want my PB dipped chocolate bar. I’ll give you some if you can finish it all in one bite.
Going through a ‘self destructive phase’ leads to comfort down the road. After a breakup, or death, drinking and sex helps to fill the void in your life. It keeps you company and helps you to heal.
Been through a few breakups, and having a few deaths in the family, I know what helps me.
My $.02.
Pch - hang in there, it will all get better, and the more you get it out of your system, the less it will poison your soul.
[quote]Edgy wrote:
Going through a ‘self destructive phase’ leads to comfort down the road. After a breakup, or death, drinking and sex helps to fill the void in your life. It keeps you company and helps you to heal.
Been through a few breakups, and having a few deaths in the family, I know what helps me.
My $.02.
Pch - hang in there, it will all get better, and the more you get it out of your system, the less it will poison your soul.[/quote]
I disagree. It might feel like it’s helping at the time but you’re still being destructive to yourself. Being productive will also lead to comfort down the road, and you won’t have to deal with the whole “shit I really let myself go” revelation after the pain stops.
In other words, it’s logical to focus your pain somewhere, and it’s a more sound endeavour to focus it in a productive path as you emerge with a plus rather than the minus you would emerge with if you chose the self-destructive path.
FTR: I don’t consider having sex to be self-destructive as long as you’re safe about it and guard your reputation.
[quote]Edgy wrote:
Going through a ‘self destructive phase’ leads to comfort down the road. After a breakup, or death, drinking and sex helps to fill the void in your life. It keeps you company and helps you to heal.
Been through a few breakups, and having a few deaths in the family, I know what helps me.
My $.02.
Pch - hang in there, it will all get better, and the more you get it out of your system, the less it will poison your soul.[/quote]
I disagree. It might feel like it’s helping at the time but you’re still being destructive to yourself. Being productive will also lead to comfort down the road, and you won’t have to deal with the whole “shit I really let myself go” revelation after the pain stops.
In other words, it’s logical to focus your pain somewhere, and it’s a more sound endeavour to focus it in a productive path as you emerge with a plus rather than the minus you would emerge with if you chose the self-destructive path.
FTR: I don’t consider having sex to be self-destructive as long as you’re safe about it and guard your reputation.[/quote]
Even though I am the queen of self destruction (see avatar), I do believe that the best revenge is living well.
Personally, I was a fan of being self-destructive in the gym. Any of the usual ways would make me feel worse about myself and living well really IS the best revenge…as cliche as it sounds.
There’s been a few times where I just stayed away from all women for a period of time. One lasted 2 years…no sex, dates, or just friends. I kept transitioning from one bad relationship to another, so I needed break. It was hard, but really worth it.
I disagree. It might feel like it’s helping at the time but you’re still being destructive to yourself. Being productive will also lead to comfort down the road, and you won’t have to deal with the whole “shit I really let myself go” revelation after the pain stops.
In other words, it’s logical to focus your pain somewhere, and it’s a more sound endeavour to focus it in a productive path as you emerge with a plus rather than the minus you would emerge with if you chose the self-destructive path.
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Thing is, I totally agree with you. But a fuck ton of people can’t gather themselves and see/act like that.
I spent a long time at the bottom of a bottle, and/or just generally depressed sober too. When you are so down you are comfortable miserable, you can’t see the light.
I commend you, and am impressed with your outlook, but a lot of people can’t find whatever it is you have that allows you to think and feel this way.
[quote]Edgy wrote:
Going through a ‘self destructive phase’ leads to comfort down the road. After a breakup, or death, drinking and sex helps to fill the void in your life. It keeps you company and helps you to heal.
Been through a few breakups, and having a few deaths in the family, I know what helps me.
My $.02.
Pch - hang in there, it will all get better, and the more you get it out of your system, the less it will poison your soul.[/quote]
I disagree. It might feel like it’s helping at the time but you’re still being destructive to yourself. Being productive will also lead to comfort down the road, and you won’t have to deal with the whole “shit I really let myself go” revelation after the pain stops.
In other words, it’s logical to focus your pain somewhere, and it’s a more sound endeavour to focus it in a productive path as you emerge with a plus rather than the minus you would emerge with if you chose the self-destructive path.
FTR: I don’t consider having sex to be self-destructive as long as you’re safe about it and guard your reputation.[/quote]
Even though I am the queen of self destruction (see avatar), I do believe that the best revenge is living well.
[/quote]
you’re response is much better than the Ice Queen that is PMPM
[quote]Edgy wrote:
Going through a ‘self destructive phase’ leads to comfort down the road. After a breakup, or death, drinking and sex helps to fill the void in your life. It keeps you company and helps you to heal.
Been through a few breakups, and having a few deaths in the family, I know what helps me.
My $.02.
Pch - hang in there, it will all get better, and the more you get it out of your system, the less it will poison your soul.[/quote]
I disagree. It might feel like it’s helping at the time but you’re still being destructive to yourself. Being productive will also lead to comfort down the road, and you won’t have to deal with the whole “shit I really let myself go” revelation after the pain stops.
In other words, it’s logical to focus your pain somewhere, and it’s a more sound endeavour to focus it in a productive path as you emerge with a plus rather than the minus you would emerge with if you chose the self-destructive path.
FTR: I don’t consider having sex to be self-destructive as long as you’re safe about it and guard your reputation.[/quote]
Even though I am the queen of self destruction (see avatar), I do believe that the best revenge is living well.
[/quote]
I believe the Phoenix burns what isn’t working and saves whatever is…
[quote]Edgy wrote:
Going through a ‘self destructive phase’ leads to comfort down the road. After a breakup, or death, drinking and sex helps to fill the void in your life. It keeps you company and helps you to heal.
Been through a few breakups, and having a few deaths in the family, I know what helps me.
My $.02.
Pch - hang in there, it will all get better, and the more you get it out of your system, the less it will poison your soul.[/quote]
I disagree. It might feel like it’s helping at the time but you’re still being destructive to yourself. Being productive will also lead to comfort down the road, and you won’t have to deal with the whole “shit I really let myself go” revelation after the pain stops.
In other words, it’s logical to focus your pain somewhere, and it’s a more sound endeavour to focus it in a productive path as you emerge with a plus rather than the minus you would emerge with if you chose the self-destructive path.
FTR: I don’t consider having sex to be self-destructive as long as you’re safe about it and guard your reputation.[/quote]
Even though I am the queen of self destruction (see avatar), I do believe that the best revenge is living well.
[/quote]
you’re response is much better than the Ice Queen that is PMPM
