Doing a Girl a Favor?

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[quote]dollarbill44 wrote:
After reading the first post and then the subsequent posts that include more information a little at a time until he drops the bomb and says that this friend that caused all of this internal conflict wasn’t really a friend to begin with.

I’m going to simplify this thread and lay it all out for you guys:

HHHHHAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRR!!!

Imo, this was a thread just to start a thread. Papapump is the 2006 version of Proteinpowda - posting for posting’s sake.

DB[/quote]

thats hurtful DB i would never say anything so mean to you. :slight_smile:

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[quote]pappapump wrote:
dollarbill44 wrote:
After reading the first post and then the subsequent posts that include more information a little at a time until he drops the bomb and says that this friend that caused all of this internal conflict wasn’t really a friend to begin with.

I’m going to simplify this thread and lay it all out for you guys:

HHHHHAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRR!!!

Imo, this was a thread just to start a thread. Papapump is the 2006 version of Proteinpowda - posting for posting’s sake.

DB

thats hurtful DB i would never say anything so mean to you. :)[/quote]

Hurt me baby.

DB

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Unfortunately, there are a large contingency of women out there that will tell you they hate guys like that, but in reality can’t get enough of him. If you think this guy is two faced in general, and don’t want to be friends with him, the best advice that I can give you is to go with your instinct. In terms of him and his girl, their relationship is their business. He’s not holding a gun to her head making him date her, so if she wants to spend time with an asshole, that’s her perogative.

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[quote]orion wrote:

Ok, you are a religious man, let?s not go into that.

It does however, IMHO, make you see women in a way that is doing you no good.

Here is how that situation could really look like:

She knows this guy is an arrogant bastard. She even knows that he will nail her like grazy and dump her afterwards.

Great sex, no comittment, she can stay a nice girl, because after all, that mean man dumped her after just “using” her, sob…

Convenient, isn?t it?

Have your cake and eat it too!

She also gets an additional emotional roler-coaster ride for free!

If she is a little bit on the attention whorish side she will even find a decent guy she can tell all the “mean” things that guy did to her and psychologically neuter the “nice guy” in the process a little bit more than he allready is.

I am not saying all women are that way, only inmature girls are (no matter what their age might be), but if you see it that way she looks much less like a “victim”, the guy banging her is not an “asshole” for giving her what she wants, and anyone trying to “save” her is just blinded by the way he thinks women should be instead of accepting them for what they are. [/quote]

You make a lot of sense, Orion. I like that. You’re probably right anyway, and I’m making a big thing out of a little thing.

I’m too depressed right now to right a good response. This thread’s done anyway.

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Sounds like some people in this thread need to reconsider the meaning of “friendship”.