What's Up with Guys Nowadays?

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Sorry for turning this into my personal blog, but I need to rant and vent a little. I’m deliberately putting it into this section, because it has more to do with life, then with actual training and such.
So let me get to the point right away. What the hell is happening to guys my age and older these days?!?! Why are we willing to “pussify” ourselves because of a girl?

If I see one more guy canceling on hanging out with a group of his friends just because his girlfriend wants to go check out some new shoes, I’m going to hurl. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for hanging out with your significant other and making her happy and getting your weasel greased and whatnot, but don’t cancel on your friend of 4 years who moved to Florida and you get to see him only a couple of months in the year!

If anything, bring your girlfriend to the get-together with you, like any other normal person. She doesn’t like someone in the particular group? Good, then let her go do her own thing during that one night and go hang out with your boys.
And it’s not like what the group was doing was sabotaging his efforts for achieving a better body.

I’m talking about a game of touch(yeah right) football, grilled steaks and sausages after, some video games, and/or just hanging out and talking about nothing.

Next thing: We have a shitload of metrosexuals who claim to be completely straight, that would make a blind gay guy go “oh dear christ, what the fuck are you wearing. Tone it down this is not a carnival!” (thanks Robin Williams) What I mean by this is the guys who will go to regular tanning/eyebrow/body-scrub/shopping sessions.

Once again, don’t get me wrong, I’m all for removing any unnecessary hair that makes you look bad or getting a tan that will bring out your cuts or whatnot, but when I see orange-eyebrow plucked- crispy new polo with a popped collar- matching clothes with shoes guys, I have to think about all the pleasant things that happened to me for the past year in order not to throw up my precious eggs and sausage I had for breakfast.

All of this brings me to my main point I suppose. And that is: Why oh why do we let our women boss us around?!?!
I’m going to admit, I’m guilty of this thing too. If I have a girlfriend, I will go out of my way just to satisfy her.
But there are certain lines I’m not willing to cross. What I’m trying to say is that I’m completely SICK TO MY STOMACH when I read some of today’s magazines or hear girls complaining.

They tell us that we need to be open more, that we need to share our feelings, that we need to take better care of ourselves (aka-get manicures), that we need to be gentlemen and treat girls with respect, that we need to grab our scrotum with one hand and then saw it off with a jigsaw in our other hand…

Alright, I’m obviously taking it a little too far with the last one. But we might as well because lately we do everything to please them, only for it not getting appreciated at all in the end. I’m speaking from personal experience and from what I have observed around me lately. We bend over backwards and kiss their feet(hopefully none of you did this literally) and then they hop onto another cock because were “just too nice and they see us more than friends than anything else.”

After a wake up call like that we go out and treat the girls however the hell we feel like. Translation: show respect but drop them as soon as they start annoying us with shit we don’t like. And look what happens!!! As soon as we make it apparent that we’re not going to put up with their shit, they latch onto our balls and they’re actually happy and pleased!!!

Are you fucking kidding me?!?!?!! Why do you keep persuading me that you want a nice guy who will do compromises for you and treat you nice when I call you fat and stupid, and you proceed to fuck my brains out until I pretend to change my mind?

Let’s put the whole “Evolutionary Theory vs. God Almighty” argument aside for a second. I think that this “treat me like shit and I will love you forever” phenomenon could be seen already in the stone age, assuming that’s really what happened. I’m talking about the male smacking the female over her head and dragging her back into his cave.

Whether this was true or just a lousy joke or some kind of twisted metaphor, I think we should modify it for today’s times and apply it. And I’m saying this because I CONSTANTLY see guys who treat girls nice, only to get cheated on and/or dumped for someone who “has balls.”

I think I digressed from my point a lot but hopefully someone will find these scenarios familiar and nod his head in agreement.
Now, all that being said, I do realize that not ALL women are like that. However it’s hard not to generalize when this picture gets reinforced constantly.

I feel much better now. And if you read this whole thing(whether you agree with it or not)- thank you for reading.
Any comments or questions are more than welcome.

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Your avatar gives me the idea you were born in 88…if so I have almost a decade on ya…

Also, I only made it through the 1st paragraph of your thesis before I found my self asleep drooling on my desk…

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So you’re saying bitches are bitchy and insecure people are easy to manipulate? Fascinating. This might just be the discovery of the century.

Get off the metrosexuals backs, I hate the “style” as much as the other guy, but let them do their own thing, regardless of how ridicilous it seems to you. And if you’re on the verge of throwing up when you see matching clothes and shoes, you might just not be as tough as you thought.

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[quote]jCaesar88 wrote:
If anything, bring your girlfriend to the get-together with you, like any other normal person.
[/quote]

I stopped reading at this. NO! Don’t bring your stupid chick over to my house. When I invite you, I’m inviting you and you only. Not your wife, girlfriend, or skank. If I want chicks around, I will tell you. Who knows where we will end up and what we will be doing. We don’t need some ho holding us back.

At least that’s how it works with my friends.

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[quote]JGerman wrote:
Your avatar gives me the idea you were born in 88…if so I have almost a decade on ya…

Also, I only made it through the 1st paragraph of your thesis before I found my self asleep drooling on my desk… [/quote]

'87, which is pretty much the same. Just throwing it out there.
1st paragraph would be the least interesting one, due to it being introductory, so I don’t blame you. Hey at least I will help some people who have problem with falling asleep!

[quote]shoo wrote:
So you’re saying bitches are bitchy and insecure people are easy to manipulate? Fascinating. This might just be the discovery of the century.

Get off the metrosexuals backs, I hate the “style” as much as the other guy, but let them do their own thing, regardless of how ridicilous it seems to you. And if you’re on the verge of throwing up when you see matching clothes and shoes, you might just not be as tough as you thought.[/quote]

I get the sarcasm. And no, I’m saying that guys need to “grow a new pair of balls” so to speak.
I’m also not talking about metrosexuals because as you said i don’t care and let them do their own thing. I’m talking about guys who used to have a pair of balls, but they traded them for a bit of warm cooch every now and then.

And once again, not talking about matching outfits, but about the shit some guys are willing to go through, just so they appeal to the girl of interest. Then they turn around and go to complaining how they don’t feel like themselves anymore. Or better yet, they try to rationalize their new look/acting even though they openly don’t like it.
Hope that cleared it up.
And once again, this was only for me to vent a bit. Not to make any “new” discoveries and present them to people

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[quote]malonetd wrote:
jCaesar88 wrote:
If anything, bring your girlfriend to the get-together with you, like any other normal person.

I stopped reading at this. NO! Don’t bring your stupid chick over to my house. When I invite you, I’m inviting you and you only. Not your wife, girlfriend, or skank. If I want chicks around, I will tell you. Who knows where we will end up and what we will be doing. We don’t need some ho holding us back.

At least that’s how it works with my friends.[/quote]

I was only suggesting it as an alternative, because I know that this friend of mine who organized the whole thing, wouldn’t mind the other friend bringing the girl with him.

But I agree with you 110%. Try reading some more, maybe we’ll find more things we agree on shrug

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Someone nominate this post for a Pulitzer.

It’s completely new, earth-shatteringly groundbreaking stuff that might change the scope of human history and how males view themselves.

Christ, it just gave me a hard on.

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[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:
Someone nominate this post for a Pulitzer.

It’s completely new, earth-shatteringly groundbreaking stuff that might change the scope of human history and how males view themselves.

Christ, it just gave me a hard on. [/quote]

[quote]jCaesar88 wrote:
Sorry for turning this into my personal blog, but I need to rant and vent a little.[/quote]

Anything else?

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[quote]jCaesar88 wrote:
Sorry for turning this into my personal blog, but I need to rant and vent a little. I’m deliberately putting it into this section, because it has more to do with life, then with actual training and such.
So let me get to the point right away. What the hell is happening to guys my age and older these days?!?! Why are we willing to “pussify” ourselves because of a girl?

If I see one more guy canceling on hanging out with a group of his friends just because his girlfriend wants to go check out some new shoes, I’m going to hurl. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for hanging out with your significant other and making her happy and getting your weasel greased and whatnot, but don’t cancel on your friend of 4 years who moved to Florida and you get to see him only a couple of months in the year!

If anything, bring your girlfriend to the get-together with you, like any other normal person. She doesn’t like someone in the particular group? Good, then let her go do her own thing during that one night and go hang out with your boys.
And it’s not like what the group was doing was sabotaging his efforts for achieving a better body.

I’m talking about a game of touch(yeah right) football, grilled steaks and sausages after, some video games, and/or just hanging out and talking about nothing.

Next thing: We have a shitload of metrosexuals who claim to be completely straight, that would make a blind gay guy go “oh dear christ, what the fuck are you wearing. Tone it down this is not a carnival!” (thanks Robin Williams) What I mean by this is the guys who will go to regular tanning/eyebrow/body-scrub/shopping sessions.

Once again, don’t get me wrong, I’m all for removing any unnecessary hair that makes you look bad or getting a tan that will bring out your cuts or whatnot, but when I see orange-eyebrow plucked- crispy new polo with a popped collar- matching clothes with shoes guys, I have to think about all the pleasant things that happened to me for the past year in order not to throw up my precious eggs and sausage I had for breakfast.

All of this brings me to my main point I suppose. And that is: Why oh why do we let our women boss us around?!?!
I’m going to admit, I’m guilty of this thing too. If I have a girlfriend, I will go out of my way just to satisfy her.
But there are certain lines I’m not willing to cross. What I’m trying to say is that I’m completely SICK TO MY STOMACH when I read some of today’s magazines or hear girls complaining.

They tell us that we need to be open more, that we need to share our feelings, that we need to take better care of ourselves (aka-get manicures), that we need to be gentlemen and treat girls with respect, that we need to grab our scrotum with one hand and then saw it off with a jigsaw in our other hand…

Alright, I’m obviously taking it a little too far with the last one. But we might as well because lately we do everything to please them, only for it not getting appreciated at all in the end. I’m speaking from personal experience and from what I have observed around me lately. We bend over backwards and kiss their feet(hopefully none of you did this literally) and then they hop onto another cock because were “just too nice and they see us more than friends than anything else.”

After a wake up call like that we go out and treat the girls however the hell we feel like. Translation: show respect but drop them as soon as they start annoying us with shit we don’t like. And look what happens!!! As soon as we make it apparent that we’re not going to put up with their shit, they latch onto our balls and they’re actually happy and pleased!!!

Are you fucking kidding me?!?!?!! Why do you keep persuading me that you want a nice guy who will do compromises for you and treat you nice when I call you fat and stupid, and you proceed to fuck my brains out until I pretend to change my mind?

Let’s put the whole “Evolutionary Theory vs. God Almighty” argument aside for a second. I think that this “treat me like shit and I will love you forever” phenomenon could be seen already in the stone age, assuming that’s really what happened. I’m talking about the male smacking the female over her head and dragging her back into his cave.

Whether this was true or just a lousy joke or some kind of twisted metaphor, I think we should modify it for today’s times and apply it. And I’m saying this because I CONSTANTLY see guys who treat girls nice, only to get cheated on and/or dumped for someone who “has balls.”

I think I digressed from my point a lot but hopefully someone will find these scenarios familiar and nod his head in agreement.
Now, all that being said, I do realize that not ALL women are like that. However it’s hard not to generalize when this picture gets reinforced constantly.

I feel much better now. And if you read this whole thing(whether you agree with it or not)- thank you for reading.
Any comments or questions are more than welcome.
[/quote]

yup.
that’s life.
sux.

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Vaginas hold great and mysterious power. That’s why.

/thread.

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[quote]jCaesar88 wrote:
I get the sarcasm. And no, I’m saying that guys need to “grow a new pair of balls” so to speak.
I’m also not talking about metrosexuals because as you said i don’t care and let them do their own thing. I’m talking about guys who used to have a pair of balls, but they traded them for a bit of warm cooch every now and then.

And once again, not talking about matching outfits, but about the shit some guys are willing to go through, just so they appeal to the girl of interest. Then they turn around and go to complaining how they don’t feel like themselves anymore. Or better yet, they try to rationalize their new look/acting even though they openly don’t like it.
Hope that cleared it up.
And once again, this was only for me to vent a bit. Not to make any “new” discoveries and present them to people[/quote]

I know and I agree with you all points, but this is probably the most discussed topic on these boards, so there is not a chance in hell this will get any positive replies.

Anyway, I thought of this when I talked to a friend of mine who’s from iraq and I’ll tell you this, this “pussification” issue is unique to western society. He worked at a slaughterhouse at 6 and talked about it like it was perfectly normal.

And those friends of yours who used to have a pair of balls are probably insecure and easily influenced. So when they hang out with you and your friends they go with the flow at take a more masculine role. But when they spend the majority of their time with their girlfriends they’re probably used to being the submissive ones, and does whatever they’re told to stay out of trouble.

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I was going to answer, but I think Ill go hang out with my chick instead.

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[quote]MeinHerzBrennt wrote:
Vaginas hold great and mysterious power. That’s why.

/thread.[/quote]

Agreed. It’s just sad to watch sometimes. That’s all

[quote]shoo wrote:I know and I agree with you all points, but this is probably the most discussed topic on these boards, so there is not a chance in hell this will get any positive replies.

Anyway, I thought of this when I talked to a friend of mine who’s from iraq and I’ll tell you this, this “pussification” issue is unique to western society. He worked at a slaughterhouse at 6 and talked about it like it was perfectly normal.

And those friends of yours who used to have a pair of balls are probably insecure and easily influenced. So when they hang out with you and your friends they go with the flow at take a more masculine role. But when they spend the majority of their time with their girlfriends they’re probably used to being the submissive ones, and does whatever they’re told to stay out of trouble.[/quote]
As I said, I know it’s nothing new. I just needed to vent. It was either that, or smashing something across a guys face next time I see his vagina leaking.
As to the other part of your comment: That’s the thing. Some of these guys are guys I known half my short life and they’re pretty much stand up guys with values and success and such. Once there was a girl introduced and they fell for her, it was done-their balls were greatly reduced in size and function.
But once again, I’m not telling you anything new.

[quote]soontobeIFBB wrote:
I was going to answer, but I think Ill go hang out with my chick instead. [/quote]

I fuckin LOLed SOOOOO hard!!! Good stuff man. Just made my afternoon.

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The worst kind of guy is the one who gets overly defensive and offended when others disagree with him,so he goes out of his way to attempt and make them look stupid for disagreeing with him.

Aka: jcaesar88

Although I do agree with the post

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Worst Thread Ever.

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[quote]HangerBaby wrote:
The worst kind of guy is the one who gets overly defensive and offended when others disagree with him,so he goes out of his way to attempt and make them look stupid for disagreeing with him.

Aka: jcaesar88

Although I do agree with the post[/quote]

You must have misunderstood me.
I honestly wasn’t trying to make anyone look stupid. I thought that I didn’t explain myself correctly in the original post (which was later confirmed) so I wanted to make it clearer. I really don’t know how did I do, what you said I’ve done