[quote]Dweezil wrote:
Nate Green wrote:
…or maybe they already know something or are living a certain way or have a different mindset that is enabling them to make change as they see fit.
Spend hours on what? Personal growth and contemplation?
No offense taken, man.
-Nate
When it comes to a situation someone is trying to change that they perceive as negative, they only start to change the situation if they have a trigger. Some people are just leeches. They’ll go through everything, they’ll keep asking questions to stall for unending time, they are complete non-starters.
Self help is fine if you are incapable of getting started on your own. Sometimes people need help, I recognize this. Have I watched the video? No. Does that make me an asshole for commenting about it? I don’t think so, because the advertisement and the comments from the people who’ve seen it seem to back up that it’s some life affirmation piece with a few “pro tips” sprinkled, and that it isn’t directly tied to intellectual growth in a particular field.
At the end of the day though, this has been done. This has been done more than once. This will continue to be done, as long as there are people out there who do nothing and “spend hours on personal growth and contemplation.” There is little to no personal growth to be made through contemplation, despite the arguements of 19 year old first year philosophy students to the contrary.
You grow through experience, not through being told what others have experienced and how you should feel about their experiences and directly apply their experience to your lack thereof.
This is more of the same. There are always subtleties to this kind of work, just like there are subtleties to each new diet, even though most of them teach the same basic principles. It’s been done. It’s enough. Go listen to Anthony Robbins. Read a Dale Carnegie book. The only people who this continued work will appeal to are the people who will never change and never use the lessons for ‘personal growth.’[/quote]
Why couldn’t this video be the “trigger” a person needs?
Isn’t most stuff on T-Nation “self-help?”
What’s wrong with reading expert advice and applying it to your life? “How to Win Friends and Influence People” is one of my favorite books. It definitely impacted my life in a positive way.
What’s wrong with watching and reading a huge variety of stuff and taking away the important stuff?
Your view is very gloomy and dismal. I think you need to watch this video and learn “The Secret.”