[quote]JonBlood wrote:
BJammin wrote:
I think that girls have a tendency to be affraid that big (bodybuilder types) guys are dangerous in the sense that they look violent. Why have all the muscle if not for beating people up? That’s just how they think sometimes. Or they think that muscle heads are stupid. Both untrue of course. BUT!!! On the other hand, if a girl gets the opportunity to know a guy of the caliber of big, she most likely will find a sense of security and comfort. Big guys intimidate other men more than women.
That’s how I see it at least lol.
I agree with you. Women probably think that huge dudes don’t do anything but lift all day. They don’t understand how much work and dedication actually goes into it, which could be very attractive IMO. That’s why I think girls who workout are fucking HAWT.[/quote]
I agree with both of you guys. It all depends on the girl. I have friends that are chicks that had different reactions when they first met me(which you guys listed). Some thought I was crazy trying to get big (heh, ya, I’m not as big as most of you here). Others thought it was cool, because they never knew someone who lifted weights, PERIOD.
A chick found me on AsianAve.com. she messaged me and thought I was “cute”. She ranted for about 5 minutes about how she thought I was a stupid muscle head and thought I looked at myself 24/7 in the mirror, just because I posted a picture of myself topless, and I told her I loved lifting weights. As she was telling me this, I asked her, you wouldn’t have messaged me if there was no picture in the first place right? She was like, no I thought you looked like a nice genuine guy. Then I asked her, since you live like 45min away from me, why don’t I come over and we can fuck". She blocked me on MSN, that was what I was hoping.
My ex, never wanted me to get big in the first place, and told me I had Bigorexia.
I was more of a dick when I wasn’t lifting lol. I was 180 when I met my gf, and my pick up line was, “you should probably kiss me.”
Idk, where I was going with that, but to me, the bigger I get, the smaller I feel. I really want to get in the 270s, 280s. Until then, I feel weak and little.
I ramble… it’s 1 in the morning… I should be eating/sleeping/jacking off
Idk, where I was going with that, but to me, the bigger I get, the smaller I feel. I really want to get in the 270s, 280s. Until then, I feel weak and little.
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Funny how that works. When you first notice progress in yourself you get all psyched. As time goes by you feel more and more the opposite… never enough. Never going to be enough.
[quote]JonBlood wrote:
Kromlic wrote:
Yes and no. Some girls are used to chasing after mass monsters, but most seem to be more curious than anything. Just don’t walk around like a douche with ILS, which I’m constantly seeing… I hope girls think it looks retarded as well.
What is ILS?[/quote]
invisible lat syndrome
walking around as if you cant drop your arms all the way when theres no reason for it
[quote]MaddyD wrote:
JonBlood wrote:
Kromlic wrote:
Yes and no. Some girls are used to chasing after mass monsters, but most seem to be more curious than anything. Just don’t walk around like a douche with ILS, which I’m constantly seeing… I hope girls think it looks retarded as well.
What is ILS?
invisible lat syndrome
walking around as if you cant drop your arms all the way when theres no reason for it[/quote]
[quote]Skinless wrote:
MaddyD wrote:
JonBlood wrote:
Kromlic wrote:
Yes and no. Some girls are used to chasing after mass monsters, but most seem to be more curious than anything. Just don’t walk around like a douche with ILS, which I’m constantly seeing… I hope girls think it looks retarded as well.
What is ILS?
invisible lat syndrome
walking around as if you cant drop your arms all the way when theres no reason for it
Sad thing is tons of guys have ILS.
Has anyone found a cure for it?.
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I have.
beat the hell out of them and mock them call em names like “skinny”
then they will work out more and no longer have ils
they will sprout real lats
[quote]MaddyD wrote:
Skinless wrote:
MaddyD wrote:
JonBlood wrote:
Kromlic wrote:
Yes and no. Some girls are used to chasing after mass monsters, but most seem to be more curious than anything. Just don’t walk around like a douche with ILS, which I’m constantly seeing… I hope girls think it looks retarded as well.
What is ILS?
invisible lat syndrome
walking around as if you cant drop your arms all the way when theres no reason for it
Sad thing is tons of guys have ILS.
Has anyone found a cure for it?.
I have.
beat the hell out of them and mock them call em names like “skinny”
then they will work out more and no longer have ils
they will sprout real lats
[quote]Stength4life wrote:
MaddyD wrote:
Skinless wrote:
MaddyD wrote:
JonBlood wrote:
Kromlic wrote:
Yes and no. Some girls are used to chasing after mass monsters, but most seem to be more curious than anything. Just don’t walk around like a douche with ILS, which I’m constantly seeing… I hope girls think it looks retarded as well.
What is ILS?
invisible lat syndrome
walking around as if you cant drop your arms all the way when theres no reason for it
Sad thing is tons of guys have ILS.
Has anyone found a cure for it?.
I have.
beat the hell out of them and mock them call em names like “skinny”
then they will work out more and no longer have ils
they will sprout real lats
Its obvious. Wouldn’t you be scared of someone who could seriously injure or kill you on a whim ?
Alot of girls have told me they were scared of me before they met me. And Im not even a huge guy, just big.
And even girls I have known for a long time and am friends with, will flinch a little bit if I make too sudden a movement.
Once my girlfriend looked really scared, and was cowering and crying when I was yelling during an argument. I didn’t raise my arms or move towards her or anything…
And then I felt really horrible, because she was scared of me, even though I would never touch her, and would kill anyone who would.
I couldn’t even try to hold her to comfort her, because that made her flinch when I moved in to try while apologizing.
I was really, really hurt, big guys have feelings too
[quote]BJammin wrote:
I was more of a dick when I wasn’t lifting lol. I was 180 when I met my gf, and my pick up line was, “you should probably kiss me.”
Idk, where I was going with that, but to me, the bigger I get, the smaller I feel. I really want to get in the 270s, 280s. Until then, I feel weak and little.
I ramble… it’s 1 in the morning… I should be eating/sleeping/jacking off[/quote]
[quote]Eurage wrote:
BJammin wrote:
I was more of a dick when I wasn’t lifting lol. I was 180 when I met my gf, and my pick up line was, “you should probably kiss me.”
Idk, where I was going with that, but to me, the bigger I get, the smaller I feel. I really want to get in the 270s, 280s. Until then, I feel weak and little.
I ramble… it’s 1 in the morning… I should be eating/sleeping/jacking off
[quote]Oleena wrote:
I get shy around big guys. Not scared, just giggly-crush, afraid-to-say-the-wrong-thing shy. It’s been like that since I was old enough to be attracted.
I wonder if other women are the same way and the big guys are misinterpretting that as not interested.[/quote]
I heard on the radio the other day that 70% of women are more friendly to someone they’re not attracted to. which i guess would mean they are cold to someone they are attracted to
