I was, too—what that post doesn’t indicate is that I had just come off a very long, very difficult time trying to get from an under-muscled high of 210 lbs. to a lean and muscular 165 lbs. I hit that weight sometime in late 2020, but I wasn’t big, I wasn’t strong, and I was driving myself and my family nuts being super-obsessive about food, calories, macros, body fat percentage, blah, blah, blah.
Long-story short: I joined these forums, saw things the successful folks here were doing, threw my unfounded caution to the wind and started working my a$$ off. No more tracking calories, no more weigh-ins, no more obsessing, no more “optimal”—just hard, hard work, day-in, day-out, and eating to recover.
I was about 180 lbs. at that point, which is what the first set of pictures from 30 June 2021 show. And, honestly, I started to look even fluffier once I was eating to recover, but at some point, my body figured out what to do with those “extra” calories:
I actually built some muscle.
And I got leaner.
And I got stronger.
Stronger than I’ve ever been in my life.
At 44 years old.
All while ignoring optimal.
Moral to the story: You won’t gain much fat IF you’re working hard enough.
So again: start a log and get after it!