Dan C…
What if she’s the one you ache for… being silent may mean that she walks away… is that winning? That could have the potential of possibly being something you regret…How about this… you can’t lose when you speak from your heart no matter what your standards or morals or balls are like… just a thought… otherwise yeah just bang her mum… that’s genious!
Thanks for the advice chester lothario and danc. An update, for the better or worse is I saw her tonight, and it’s all now over. We probably are never going to see each other again.
Its really a sad ending, but I learned a lot from dealing with this. I am better emotionally for having experienced this, and stronger mentally.
I am going to miss her, but it honestly is a relief to just have it all over.
So… did you fuck her first before you ended it… thoughtI’d ask before one of the guys did!! Sorry… couldn’t resist!! Seriously though… there are so many girls out there! One is bound to make you smile!! Kisses, Chess…
CHESTER BLU: Speaking from your heart. Whatever the cost. Yeah, right. Like emotions were the Be All and End All of life, and they held ultimate truth.
I don`t think so.
I happen to think humans can rise above the I feel-I bark-I am level. Your recommendation reminds me my girlfriends Labrador. Whatever he feels, he shows. And, yeah, 150% Emotionnally Dependent. Poor thing cant handle loneliness. I guess he doesnt have the Can Handle Loneliness` gene.
Maybe some people have it too. Maybe were talking about something that cant be cured, like alcoholism. Maybe, indeed, there is no solution and one is doomed to follow his gut`s callings. Maybe what you and I are saying just apply to certain percentages in the population, opposite niches that will never cross each other.
To me, these are the times where stoicism, honor, and enduring the aches (there`s a big difference between an ache for a heatlhy relation ship and and ache from fear of moving on to better) are called for. Any individual capable of that earns my respect even more.
Well, that`s what I expect from humans.
But, heck, that`s my values. Your mileage may differ.
Just my view of it. No harm meant.
Go fuck her ex-boyfriend. Then u can get back together and have something else in common.
I asked for a final sex romp, but she was too upset and said she didn’t want to.
“To me, these are the times where stoicism, honor, and enduring the aches (there`s a big difference between an ache for a heatlhy relation ship and and ache from fear of moving on to better) are called for. Any individual capable of that earns my respect even more.”
WOW. Great observation, dude.
is it me or is it wierd to see a female with the name chester?
mdog,
As usual you are a right! And you have me cracking up…
You “asked” for a final sex romp??
LMFAO!!!
What were your exact words?
“Can we have sex one more time?”
LOL@Soulmates too!!
Let women live in fantasy land, dude. Soul mates don’t exist.
MDog…
My name is Francesca… people are either too stupid or ignorant to pronounce it correctly… it’s pronounced Fran-ches-ka… So I shortened it to Chess so that people got the gist of the pronounciation… Chester sort of came from that… Is it still weird for you…
Dan C…
You’re right of course…
Just so we’re on the right ball here… I have insecurities but being alone or emotionally dependent on a man, woman or labrador… well they aren’t on the list…
You don’t upset me with your comments… bring it on… I’m a big girl (well not YET!!) I’m sure we will have very good debates…
Chess…
chester
that’s the beauty of the internet we don’t have to pronounce anything just spell! and yeah, untill u drop the “ter” from chess it does still weird me out, especially when u end with kisses, muah!
Mdog…
I am all girl… I promise… and just for you I’ll drop the ‘ter’… is Chester a boys name in America?? is that why it weirds you out??
I just read this post for the first time, so I’m a little late in saying this. I usually skip over all of the politics and relationships bullshit…and now I have reminded myself why once again…
I can’t believe people even ask questions like this…
As Ginuwine said: “What’s so different?”
“Chester a boys name in America” yes, and i thought it was everywhere else too?
Francesca,
I liked your answer! That`s the spirit!
If your posts are always good spirited like this, we WILL have fun indeed.
Thats the problem with my posts. Theyre fun (well, I hope, or at least respected) for intelligent and strong people. They pass as attacks or ego-crackers for the weaker and insecure.
What the heck, you cant please em all! ;0)
mdog… can’t say that I have ever met a ‘Chester’ in my life… Hey that’d be fun… screaming out my own name in bed!! (Not that I don’t already!! lol)
DanC… hmmm you pick up alot don’t you… calling me Francesca straight off the bat, I like that…
Francesca…
Hey, you opened the door…
If you were absolutely adamant about not being called that way, you would never have mentionned it publicly. Therefore I conclude somewhere you wanted it. Maybe not from me, but… ;0)
Good thing you like my style, too. Im progressively getting rid of my gentlemanliness to be direct-as-hell again. If its your cup of tea, cool!
cc: what do you mean?
FRONTFACE: We were talking, I said we had some amazing times, she agrees, we both agree that it’s too bad things didn’t work out better, I ask, ‘well, do you want to go have sex one last time??’. She thought about it for a minute then said she didn’t think it was a good idea. Too bad!
Congratulations!
You have just lost your man-card.
Get your balls back, dump the slut and move on.