Dani's Rebel Log

HAHA that’s the perfect gif!

Did you start lifting in high school?

Hopefully things are different for teens in weight training classes than they are in commercial gyms. And from what I’ve seen, the CrossFit community is a pretty cool place for kiddos to get their start.

But we’re not the weirdos! The socially inept gym hoes are.

I’d like for gyms and bodybuilding federations (mainly amateur ones, not pro-level) to get together and do a five-year experiment. If bodybuilding federations eliminated the bikini category, what would happen to the overall gym culture?

My bet is that it’d get a lot better. There would be fewer complaints of men getting caught in women’s videos.

Like this one…

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yeah, as a “husky” 15 year old (6’2, 245 - and weak - couldn’t bench 100lbs for 8 reps). I had my uncle teach me most of it and spent a lot of time training with him (he used to train with WSM competitor Mark Phillipe) in “The Pit” (his fully decked out basement gym).

Lifting helped give me confidence but eventually gave me some serious body dysmorphia I am still working through. I think that was due to a combination of many factors (getting bullied and being autistic are two prime contributors).

Maybe. CrossFit is “box dependent” as some do not teach proper technique.

Unfortunately, I think it’s bigger than this. People would have to stop giving attention to social media posts. Pandora’s box has been opened there.

I saw this one and can’t believe her entitled attitude. The dude doesn’t ever even look at her. I like Joey Swoll, but he’s gotten big enough where the cynic in me believes people are doing stuff like this to get on his channel to bring more attention to their profiles by proxy (no such thing as bad PR…according to some).

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Whoa! What a great uncle!

Sorry to hear this. You’re not alone. A lot of lifters go through years of never feeling big enough or ripped enough. I feel bad for males who’ve built these healthy strong bodies, but feel like trash because they’re comparing themselves to pros on outrageous levels of gear.

Absolutely true. I think we may be able to say the same for personal trainers and coaches though too.

Way bigger. But it’d be a start.

YES. It’s definitely social media related. Followers, likes, views, and attention are a form of currency now. So it’d be hard to fix that.

Luckily, our gym doesn’t seem to have the problems Joey Swoll calls out yet.

Well crap. I hadn’t thought about this but it’s a good point.

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That’s a great point. I do love Joey Swoll, though. I will say, if people are doing as you say, it at least backfires for some of them because he does follow-ups where gyms have kicked them out.

It’s not just gyms, either; the last couple videos were people acting gross just out in the world.

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Oh those are wild! You know what they have in common? Tripods set up in public locations.

This piece of equipment draws attention no matter what activity someone’s up to, so people are bound to turn and look at what’s being filmed. And in the case of that woman at the airport, it was just in the way.

Maybe the solution is to discourage those using tripods in public. If you want pictures or videos of yourself, get a friend to do it.

Just brainstorming here, but maybe there should be an unspoken etiquette rule that in busy public locations, tripods are only for journalists and professional photographers.

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The airport in general it’s crazy to me when people are acting like they can take up space doing what they want. There is literally nobody there that doesn’t have somewhere to be - move!

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They may stop doing that if someone were to accidentally “trip” over their tripod, kick it down, and stomp on their phone as they walk away in the crowd.

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This is where being 6’3 and 285lbs comes in handy. I just behave as if I won’t stop moving. People usually decide they need to move then.

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HAHAHA that’s fun.

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And then we literally flee the state - I like it!

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I have no intent - I am just walking…

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those really were the good old days. Luckily my current gym is still like that but with the occasional person videoing a set (I am guilty of this too)

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I don’t mind that, but I do mind the viral videos of people being awful.

Chris used to snap a few pics and vids of me in the gym on occasion; sometimes we’d use them for a tip or article but now we kind of avoid that just to err on the side of caution. Now if the gym is relatively empty, it’d be an option.

A couple weeks ago, I was feeling bummed about aging and Chris took a couple pictures of me lifting. (It actually didn’t help that feeling at all!!! LOL)

The videoing lifts things seems to be driven either by people wanting to share on the socials or for some they are videoing to see depth or rep quality or maybe even for a coach to critique. I agree that as long as its not a ring light and tripod getting in peoples way then its fine.

You have made a few comments lately about aging and of course your recent milestone birthday. I find it interesting that no matter how good we look or feel, we still get effected by the thought of getting older. I have a beautiful wife and three crazy kids, and whilst I am not winning any beauty contests I am still kicking most guys my age square in the butt. Yet I still feel completely inadequate at times and hate every new grey hair or every new pain that comes with the mileage.
Strangely getting reassurance from those that are closest to us can often feel disingenuous and doesn’t really help (kinda like they have to say that stuff). I really think sometimes we should not be left to our own thoughts.

Anyway remember you are a machine and look great and 40 is the new 20. Fk what anyone else thinks.

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Yes! And at the same time I realize how silly it is.

This is absolutely true! That reminds me of this little video with Dr. Amen, where he says, “I never believe every stupid thing I think.”

Incredibly profound. Sometimes our thoughts aren’t just deceiving, they’re straight up stupid. :joy:

I’ll have to remember this! Thank you so much for the encouragement!

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Today between sets of chest press, Debbie came up and asked me if it was impossible to build muscle after menopause. Apparently that’s what she’d been told by a younger woman, and it made her feel defeated.

My answer? “Bullsh-t.”


The beautiful Ernestine Shepherd, who was in her 80s at the time this was taken.

A woman can build muscle at just about any age, unless there are unusual circumstances hindering it like cancer, not eating enough, having reached your genetic limit (in which case you’re already muscular), or swinging weights around haphazardly in a way that only taxes the joints, not the muscles.

But I also told her that there are ways to make your progress skyrocket, like hiring a personal trainer.

I didn’t want to be too obvious about dropping that hint, and I’d never critique someone’s form… but even if a person is only using machines, where there’s less potential for error, there can still be some herky-jerky movements where the exerciser doesn’t appear to know what muscles are even supposed to be working.

And there’s nothing embarrassing or shameful about having a professional teach you stuff, yet it seems like that older generation is the least likely to seek help. That’s pretty weird.

Personal trainers are amazing. I can count about 15+ coaches and trainers who’ve worked with me since 2000, and all of them have taught valuable lessons or changed my body in dramatic ways.

From Upper-Lower to Full

I’ve been doing an upper-lower split for well over a year. So this week I tested out a full body scheme and quickly learned a few things. Namely, to limit volume and intensity techniques, like drop sets and extra partials at the end.

Today’s Full Body Workout

Banded iso squat holds: 3 x 60 seconds

Speaking of professionals, Trainer Rebecca taught me to use these last fall, and it’s kind of a tough activation drill. Your glutes, quads, hams, calves, and abs wake up pretty quickly. And it seems to get the knees warmed up too. Excellent way to start a workout.

Leg press: 3 x 15, 10, 10

Walking lunge 3 x out and back

Booty machine: 3 x 15 heavier than usual

T-bar row: 3 x 15, 8, 8, 8

Seated chest press: 3 x 15, 10, 8

Bicep curl: 3 x 8-10
Tricep push-down: 3 x 10-12

Today’s workout was incredible. There was less volume per muscle group, but more work actually got done. I left the gym feeling fantastic.

Also, a guy said that my upper back is vicious, and that got me pretty psyched up too.

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So I mentioned in an OT thread that I’ve had a lot of time this week, and have spent some of it deep-diving TNation. Your log is one of the places I’ve very happily spent time. I’ve already grabbed @QuadQueen’s #nofucks video to share (awesome!) and have just enjoyed the log in general very much. So much so that I felt the need to share with my husband pretty much the history of TN along with what I know of your history this morning, and the nice difference you’re making here for me. I love your thread ideas, and so, it seems, does everyone else.

@QuadQueen while I’m at it, let me just say how much I enjoy your presence, too. You’re both bright lights.

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Oh my goodness, what an awesome comment! Thank you for dropping by; I feel so encouraged by your sweet words. And it sounds like you’ve got an amazing, supportive hubby!!

Totally agree about @QuadQueen; she’s hilarious and she’s had a huge influence on me this year. I keep an eye out for whenever either of you share your knowledge. There are so many intelligent, talented women on these forums! Also, how are you feeling? I saw that you came down with the junk. Hopefully you’re able to kick it quickly.

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@EmilyQ and @Dani_Shugart, you guys are both heroes to me! @EmilyQ, you’ve been one of my favorite people on this forum since FOREVER and @Dani_Shugart, your starting this log has been amazing! I feel like we could all be sisters or at the very least, best friends. You’re both way to kind, although…

…is entirely true, lol. But seriously, just like you guys, I’m in here keeping things real. It’s so great to know that I’m not the only one who thinks the way I do and/or about the things I do. It’s so refreshing, because at the end of the day, life exists somewhere between “hardcore” (crazy) and couch potato - and living in that space is okay, even, dare I say, healthy??

I hope you feel better soon @EmilyQ! And both of you, please don’t stop being so stinkin’ awesome. :heart:

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Done and done. :smiling_face:

I couldn’t possibly agree more.

Same to you girlfriend!

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