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[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
Now, there is such a thing as Southern Hospitality, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t more racists around here.[/quote]
You really believe that? The firehouse I volunteer at is comprised of the most stereotypical country rednecks you could ever imagine. They also do things like tell “off color” jokes that at least used to make me uncomfortable (Grant it, they probably tell more redneck jokes than anything).
BUT they are also some of the most caring and giving people you could ever imagine. I have learned not to mind the talk nearly as much once I got used to how they really felt. Every single one of them will literally put their life on the line to help someone else without ever considering a person’s race, religion, or creed.
It really hit me when we voted on the local parade grand marshal (the fire house runs the parade). Pretty much one guy was mentioned, and all the people went around the table saying how awesome and hard working the guy was and how he’d done so much for the town. I didn’t know who he was and had no idea until the parade that he was the former long time pastor of the local black church. Not one person mentioned or cared about his race, all they cared was that he was a good positive representative for the community.
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I absolutely believe that. I’ve lived it for 27 years, and it’s not based on a small sample. Conversely, do you really believe a group of firemen are a good sample? I think it’s pretty obvious that firemen are inherently different than the general population in terms of their concern for others.
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No, it’s not a good sample of the general population in the area, but I had to narrow my sample down to people who fit the stereotype. I do have a good sample of the general population in the area, and they don’t fit the hillbilly bill.
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To me that kicks the shit morally and ethically out of some super PC white suburban slacktivist northern liberal living in a 99.9% white community voting for “equality” and lathering their moral condescension on people who tell insensitive jokes.
I think that one of the reasons the rural south is that way is because people are literally more comfortable and confident with who and what they are. They say things that the PC police hate because race and stereotypes really don’t bother them. You could call them white trash and they’d tell you Ã???Ã??Ã?¢??damn straightÃ???Ã??Ã?¢?? with a big wise ass toothless grin. The reason people get offended by stuff like that is because they themselves identify with and care about it so much.
Who is more racist? The southern who talks with and about people of any race in the same (even if insulting) way, or the northerner who, when talking about or with any minority, walks on eggshells around topics that might be deemed offensive? It certainly seems less hypocritical than declaring the wonders of diversity by trying to get rid of and change cultures that don’t function like they think it should.
If race really is just a physical color of skin, shouldn’t we be able to joke about it?
If you are super worried about racial sensitivity, the rural south probably isn’t your cup of tea, but if get beyond that, it ain’t such an evil place.
The next time you see some white guy nervously and awkwardly invite a black guy to a fried chicken, watermelon, and coolaid cook out, realize, that’s a real racist.[/quote]
You’re turning this into an attack on Northerners, and I really don’t know anything about them. Kentucky ain’t exactly the deep South, but it certainly identifies as Southern. PC talk has nothing to do with this, though I certainly have no qualms addressing racial differences. But I’m talking about the, “there’s a difference between a black person and a n*****” shit I’ve had poisoning my ears all my life. That’s objectively racist and has nothing to do with being PC.[/quote]
Which is exactly my point. Every area has it’s issues. If you lived somewhere else, you’d be pissing and moaning about the same exact thing but in different terms.