[quote]DBCooper wrote:
[quote]DBCooper wrote:
[quote]batman730 wrote:
[quote]DBCooper wrote:
[quote]batman730 wrote:
DB,
Regarding equating humility with weakness and subserviance: I completely disagree. Humility is extremely useful. It’s an effective inoculation against overconfidence and complacency, both of which can get you killed both literally and figuratively. Humility allows you to see your where your weaknesses lie, own them and begin to work on them without needing to wrestle with your ego. It allows you to be realistic with yourself because were all flawed and fallible. If pride makes you blind to this, you will be less effective in your life. Nemisis follows hubris and all. That’s not a human construct, it’s a description of a natural process at work that would happen whether or not one believed it would. In fact, it usually DOES happen to people who don’t believe it does.
The harder you push your limits the more likely you are to be exposed to people who are more talented than you, to have failures, setbacks and other “humbling” experiences. If those experiences don’t teach you that you are not perfect, invincible or even that big a deal then you are just not that bright IMO. Some of the most capable, competent people you will ever meet will often be the most humble, especially if their area of competency involves significant physical risk where overestimating your capabilities can have disastrous consequences.
Humility has the added benefit of causing you to tend to under-promise and over-deliver which I find to be extremely useful both in professional and personal settings. The guy who thinks he’s awesome and talks a great game will always come up short more often because reality doesn’t care how great you think you are. This is true so often that in my experience the more a guy talks himself up, the less I actually expect him to accomplish and I am rarely disappointed.
I don’t think humility is an artificial construct thrust upon us by our theoretical “betters” so much as it is the logical and intelligent conclusion to any honest self-assessment.[/quote]
All you’ve done is explain why humility is a virtue when it is in our best interests. Sure, humility is a virtue when it is good for me. Again, master morality.[/quote]
Most commonly held virtues also happen good for us, IMO just as most vices are self-injurious. I find this to be unsurprising.
Integrity/Fortitude is good for us because it allows us and those around us to trust ourselves to see things through in the face of adversity and hold true to our values and beliefs.
Wisdom is good for us because it helps us to understand the world and our place in it. It also helps us do fewer dumb things.
Fairness is good for us because human beings are wired with an innate sense of justice and equity. Whether this is a result of the design of a Creator or just a random fluke of evolution is irrelevant. If we treat others unjustly, it will cause us problems.
Temperance is good for us because it prevents us from destroying ourselves with our own excesses. Again, whether some Higher Power wills it or not, it’s a good idea.
Self-sacrifice is good for us because we need others in our lives, both for practical and mental health reasons. Altruism provides a tremendous survival benefit for us as a species and pays us emotional and personal dividends.
So whether or not there is any absolute morality, it is generally to our benefit to behave as though there was, so who cares? Having a code allows us to make the right (or more advantageous in the long term if you prefer) when our impulses in the moment may run in another direction. A very similar code will be applicable to 99.99999% of people as similar consequences will flow from similar actions. It may not be absolute morality, but it’s close enough to make no practical difference.
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I disagree with virtually everything you’ve put forth here. Unfortunately, I don’t have time to address any of this in detail since it’s my favorite day of the week (snatch-grip high pull day) and it’s time to hit the gym. I’ll go into detail about why I disagree later.[/quote]
Sorry for the delay in responding.
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I don’t think it’s a coincidence at all that most commonly-held virtues are also good for us. I don’t know what vices has to do with any of this. Regardless, my point is only strengthened by your argument here. What is moral is what is good for us, perhaps not collectively, but on an individual basis. I make my own morality because I deem what is good for me to be moral.
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“Fairness is good for us because human beings are wired with an innate sense of justice and equity”
I don’t know what to say about this one. I suppose you’re the neurological expert if you know how we’re “wired”. An innate sense of justice and equity? If we’re all wired with a sense of equity, then why do we spend so much time trying to avoid equitable circumstances? How often do we REALLY seek equity in our lives, especially if it means less for yourself so that others may have more? How often do we REALLY seek justice if it comes at our own expense? If we were wired this way, all of us, the world would not be what it is today. I think the fact that we have these massively detailed systems of law and government pretty much destroys any argument that we are wired with a sense of equity and justice. Either that or, despite our atavistic sense of those virtues, we ignore them on a regular basis.
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I agree that we cannot live outside of society and that interaction with others is good for us. But you’re really starting to make my point for me with all these virtues you’re listing off. Of course self-sacrifice, temperance, fairness and so forth are virtues. You’ve said yourself now on several occasions that they are virtues and that they are good for us. THAT is what makes them virtuous, in my opinion. How often do we pursue these virtues at our own expense? If the fair thing to do is not good for me and so I do not act fairly, is this immoral? And if it IS immoral, doesn’t that mean that acting in one’s own self-interest rather than out of purely altruistic reasons is immoral as well? And if acting out of self-interest is immoral, and it can be agreed upon that disregarding self-interest is damaging to one’s life, does this “morality” eventually celebrate death and not life?
I think your logic necessarily leads to a celebration of death, or other less drastic results regarding our lives, rather than life. Without life, there is no morality. Morality did not exist on this planet before humans came along. Was it immoral for a dinosaur to prey on smaller, weaker dinosaurs in order to eat and survive?
Also, let’s dispense with the whole altruism-as-a-virtue thing. Altruism doesn’t exist, and it certainly doesn’t exist when we do “altruistic” things out of self-preservation. That isn’t what altruism is about.[/quote]
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I don’t really see the practical value of the distinction you are trying to draw between “good” and “good for us”. Virtuous behaviour tends to benefit both ourselves, others and society as a whole. We, as individuals don’t have the power to determine that X is good for us and therefore “good” if it is in fact not. Enter the baby rape example. I reserve the right to deprive baby raper of his liberty to do what he deems “good” and am absolutely justified/right in doing so. What sane person could argue otherwise without turning it into some pointless intellectual exercise?
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Nope, not a neurological expert. Just seems to me that people, without being taught, have an inherent desire to seek justice. In grade school when I would see a big kid picking on a little kid on the school yard it would piss me off even if I had no personal interest in the kid being picked on. As I got older it would piss me off enough that I would actually stick my nose in occasionally, even if it was contrary to my self interest. Much of our cultural mythology is based around this concept because it has inherent emotional resonance for us, not the other way around.
It seems to me that the fact “that we have these massively detailed systems of law and government” (however misguided they may be at times) would indicate that we, as a species, are very much concerned with equity, peace, justice, civil order etc otherwise, why would we bother going to all the effort to promote and preserve them? These systems are intended to protect the vast majority of us who would voluntarily live justly and peaceably with our neighbours from the few who would not. They exist as a (flawed) attempt to express our desire for equity and justice, not as an artificial imposition of those values from without.
Speaking for myself, I try to be fair and ethical in all my dealings, even if it’s not to my immediate advantage and sometimes very much to my detriment. Even if I “can” bill someone more for a job than it’s really worth I won’t do it and if someone really needs a break I’ll try to give it to them, just as others have given me breaks at times when I needed them. If I catch myself in a self-serving lie, I’ll go back and set the record straight, even if there’s nothing to gain but embarrassment. Not patting myself on the back at all, just a fact. Justice is good, regardless of whether it’s good for me in the moment or not. What I gain is the ability to sleep nights and look myself in face and like what I see, so maybe it is self serving in the end…
- I fail to see how holding to your principles regardless of whether they seem convenient in the moment is a celebration of death. Similarly I fail to see how helping others when you stand to gain nothing in return or even to lose a little is a celebration of death. To live we must give. We must also tend to our own affairs, but as others have said, I find that I benefit in proportion to the benefit I’m able to provide for others, not at their expense. Any good, sustainable transaction is win-win.
Comparing humans to dinosaurs or bears or whatever is not analogous. We are possessed of the faculties of reason and choice. The animals are at the mercy of instinct and necessity so no morality can be attached to their actions. Whether morality can be applied to non-human creatures has no bearing on a discussion between humans about human conduct. We can find ways to prosper without preying on our fellow man, so it is immoral to do so. When we lie, cheat and harm others, we harm ourselves. It’s inescapable regardless of whether you believe in it. This may be a little kindergarten for an educated guy like you, but there it is.
Regarding altruism: the word itself is admittedly problematic. If someone does something that benefits another (i.e. volunteers with disadvantaged kids or seeks to return found property to it’s owner) with no expectation of reward beyond the intrinsic sense of happiness they gain from the act itself, that is close enough to being altruistic for the purpose of discussion IMO. Society as a whole benefits from acts of kindness and generosity that bring no direct reward to the doer of the deed. We each in turn benefit from living in a stronger, more harmonious society. This does not, however, reduce kindness to self-preservation.