OP, your failure to properly manage expectations and set firm boundaries is manifesting in a way that is causing you to lose power in the relationship. The subsequent loss of respect (because of the afore mentioned failures coupled with your lack of self control) will manifest in increasingly bad behavior on her part in an attempt to elicit a response that is in ANY way shape or form, something that a MAN would do…
Stop supplicating, fuck her brains out until she taps out, and let her know that you have NO apologies for your desires as a man. She doesn’t control your thoughts NOR your eyes. You made no attempts to interact with said gogo dancer, you just watched - WHICH IS WHY THEY ARE THERE: FOR YOUR VIEWING PLEASURE. If she has a problem with that, show her where the door is, and let her know that she is welcome to use it. If she elects not to, let her know that she needs to stop her childish, controlling, castrating behavior post haste or you will throw her childish, insecure ass right on out.
And FTR, I have dated MANY Spanish/Latin women and they all TRY to assert some kind of control like this early on in the relationship. When this happens, I give them the gift of missing me for a bit until they come to their senses. After that it’s, “Oh Papi, lo ciento, I was just jealous…” with their best pouty face. LMAO
Lift your skirt, grab your balls and put your fucking foot down! Latin women (and ALL women for that matter) need a MAN, not some supplicating wussy… Tell her to shut the fuck up or get the fuck out and PIIHP.[/quote]
OP, your failure to properly manage expectations and set firm boundaries is manifesting in a way that is causing you to lose power in the relationship. The subsequent loss of respect (because of the afore mentioned failures coupled with your lack of self control) will manifest in increasingly bad behavior on her part in an attempt to elicit a response that is in ANY way shape or form, something that a MAN would do…
Stop supplicating, fuck her brains out until she taps out, and let her know that you have NO apologies for your desires as a man. She doesn’t control your thoughts NOR your eyes. You made no attempts to interact with said gogo dancer, you just watched - WHICH IS WHY THEY ARE THERE: FOR YOUR VIEWING PLEASURE. If she has a problem with that, show her where the door is, and let her know that she is welcome to use it. If she elects not to, let her know that she needs to stop her childish, controlling, castrating behavior post haste or you will throw her childish, insecure ass right on out.
And FTR, I have dated MANY Spanish/Latin women and they all TRY to assert some kind of control like this early on in the relationship. When this happens, I give them the gift of missing me for a bit until they come to their senses. After that it’s, “Oh Papi, lo ciento, I was just jealous…” with their best pouty face. LMAO
Lift your skirt, grab your balls and put your fucking foot down! Latin women (and ALL women for that matter) need a MAN, not some supplicating wussy… Tell her to shut the fuck up or get the fuck out and PIIHP.[/quote]
[quote]adamhum wrote:
So I was having this awesome date with my beautiful girlfriend, we had sushi, we went to this bar that her friend owns. We were then invited out by my friends because it was one of their bdays. So we show up to this club, I wasn’t really feeling it because I was driving and I had already sobered up once that night, my women was drinking all along. Well I started drinking and then some gogo girls get up on the DJ’s stage and one of them was dancing sooo sultry and her butt was sooo nice and I proceeded to stare…
I guess I did this half the night and i immediately turned around once I got caught and looked the opposite direction. My girlfriend, who’s latina is still mad at me after 5 days for desrespecting her. I’ve said i was sorry like 20 times and told her i wasn’t lusting, just enjoying the show and didn’t realize I was being disrespectful, once I did realize it…I tried to correct myself.
What do I do?
a) Just ignore it until she gets over it?
b) Send some flowers?
c) Keep appologizing?
I am insanely attracted to my girlfriend…i just have a staring problem when it comes to professional dancers.
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d) get both drunk have menage a toi stick it in both their bums
[quote]DixiesFinest wrote:
Yall went to a club with go go dancers and she got offended that you were looking?
Your balls are in a lockbox brother[/quote]
LOL!
SO TRUE!
MARZ, take your girl through a local mall. Walk past a shoe boutique and just see how she controls herself from looking.
Case closed.
lol
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Side note: Buying her some sexy shoes = awesome aphrodisiac
Carry on.[/quote]
Does nothing to hit home my point, but DAMN you are correct sir!
When Dwarfette and I come back from an afternoon of shopping for her, she’s “ready” for anything!
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Took my lady to the sex shop last week and bought her some shoes, a petticoat, and a slinky dress (and some restraints too). Vaca fuckin santa, dudarito, she has been on fire ever since! It was the shoes, I’m tellin’ ya, THE SHOES! Don’t ask me how I know, I just do.[/quote]
I have observed said shoe phenomenon as well… Who knew what a pair of Jimmy Choo’s could do to a gal? LOL
