Well, I’m hoping everything gets better for you soon. You seem to have that, “True-grit” about you it’ll pull ya through. Just talk to the P.T. tell him about it(without exploding), that’ll just feed the feeling.
[quote]julia87 wrote:
LoneLobo wrote:
God, this thread is further proof that any woman that says she likes sports is a spy.
Who the fuck injects shit like this into the T-Nation forums? This is womanhood at its worst. “I like hot guys when I’m lifting heavy.” Way to confirm that all women regardless of hobbies or lifting/non-lifting behavior are really just attention whores.
The implications of this statement and this post can be extended to imply that the only reason you post on these forums/weight lift at all is because you love the fawning. Seriously, get a dog?
By god.
First of all, I was being truthful. If y…blah blah blah blather blather vapid vacuous self-absorbed.
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In my best mother voice: “Julia, you’re doing it again…”
Remember we had the earlier conversation about keep digging? Case in point. No one cares that you play harp.
Listen before you take with what I agree with out of contex. Im not saying anythings wrong by looking at the other sex. But saying you cant lift heavy without the other sex eyeing you is retarded. It makes you sound like a needy person who craves attention.
Now I dont know you in real life but in this post you sound needy and whiney.
Not tryin’ to hate on you Julia, but every post of yours just confirms that women use three times as many words as men.
Do you write down every single thing that crosses your mind? 
Seriously though- much love and I hope you feel better. I have certain days of the year too that I wish would just go away. I think everyone does. Not everyone writes a novel about it, but trust you’re not alone. Maybe it’s living in paradise all your life surrounded by above average looking models that don’t resemble normal people. That could be it.
Ever think that maybe you’re the negative one and it’s not everybody else? From the sound of your post it sound like you go ape shit on the world and blame everyone but yourself. Kinda like a 7 year old does.
And yes I agree with the other poster.
WHAT THE FUCK IS HAPPENING TO T-Nation?
Julia, get an axe, a slege, or maul, and everything that’s red, go hit it. Problem solved. 
If you can’t find anything red, go to home depot, grab some red paint and a brust, and splash it around the forest, and bust shit up until there’s no more red!
I always go shoot pucks when my mom pisses me off. I think about shooting pucks at her face!
If you want to lift heavy, do it. What’s your trainer going to do? Fire you? You’re the one paying him. Just go in again later that day and lift. Or even another gym or something if you don’t want to run into him…
[quote]BarneyFife wrote:
Doc Fife thinks that getting laid would make you feel better.[/quote]
Not if you were the last man on earth.
[quote]E-man wrote:
Ever think that maybe you’re the negative one and it’s not everybody else? From the sound of your post it sound like you go ape shit on the world and blame everyone but yourself. Kinda like a 7 year old does.
And yes I agree with the other poster.
WHAT THE FUCK IS HAPPENING TO T-Nation?[/quote]
This is idiotic. She writes a post that when she gets into a bad mood 3 times a year and wants to take it out on the weights, she feels frustrated by her training putting a regulator on her. That’s it. That’s the extent of her posting.
Then we get every wannabe hardass acting like this place has turned into The View.
She wrote she LIKES hot guys watching her lift. Not that she needs it or cannot lift without it. And it was a throway line like a goof.
So, yeah, I’m wondering what’s happening to T-Nation too since it seems we are getting too many boys and not enough men.
And Julia, just chill out. Practical strategy: A 20 minute EDT set of pushups or pullups supersetted with burpees will take all the angry out of you–you kind of don’t have a choice when you’re trying to beat your 1st set and total PR. Afterwards, Muse and Xanax are a good combination, if it comes to that.
listen luv, if this only happens 2 or 3 times a year, by the time that you finished reading all the post, it will be another day, then you could play some games (I wish i had gears of war) and be bubbly once more, so smile
TON
My head hurts from reading this
Ditch the trainer and lift heavier when you want to.
There you go. Problem solved.
Too much estrogen being funneled through here I think…
[quote]John S. wrote:
Listen before you take with what I agree with out of contex. Im not saying anythings wrong by looking at the other sex. But saying you cant lift heavy without the other sex eyeing you is retarded. It makes you sound like a needy person who craves attention.
Now I dont know you in real life but in this post you sound needy and whiney.[/quote]
“But saying you cant lift heavy without the other sex eyeing you is retarded.”
I never said this. And yeah, I agree with you that sounds totally retarded, I dont think youve been reading all the posts though.
Ive read ur posts. Now i did take what you say a step further, but you must admit that saying “I like it when hot guys look at me” in reference to why you cant leave ur p.t. is kind of retarded.
now to your main thing. just sounds like you have a bad day like any of us.
[quote]LoneLobo wrote:
julia87 wrote:
LoneLobo wrote:
God, this thread is further proof that any woman that says she likes sports is a spy.
Who the fuck injects shit like this into the T-Nation forums? This is womanhood at its worst. “I like hot guys when I’m lifting heavy.” Way to confirm that all women regardless of hobbies or lifting/non-lifting behavior are really just attention whores.
The implications of this statement and this post can be extended to imply that the only reason you post on these forums/weight lift at all is because you love the fawning. Seriously, get a dog?
By god.
First of all, I was being truthful. If y…blah blah blah blather blather vapid vacuous self-absorbed.
In my best mother voice: “Julia, you’re doing it again…”
Remember we had the earlier conversation about keep digging? Case in point. No one cares that you play harp.
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We didnt have a conversation honey.
You silly, I know no one cares that is why I said that was the first time I told anybody about it
(but you know I actually got a guy PMing me over it (the harp))
That wasnt my point, I was trying to make a point by mentioning that. You totally missed it and focused on me playing the harp which wasnt even the focus of what I was writing. I just used it as an mere example. And yes, I am self-absorbed but not narcissistic, I am also absorbed with everyone elses selves if you havent noticed.
you sound like one of these guys that has “problems” with women by your emotion-ridden first post that wasnt even really towards me but towards me being a woman.
Now you dont have any more to say so you have directed your attacks onto me because I am a woman and you are using me as the example that women are attention whores no matter what they do in life.
I can be absorbed with figuring you out as well, it is not just about me you mindless piece of corn.
[quote]eengrms76 wrote:
Do you write down every single thing that crosses your mind?
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I was wondering the same thing. She joined in August & already has over 750 posts.
So, is there a reason that your trainer won’t let you lift heavily (like an injury or imbalance or something)?
Also what kind of lifts are you talking about? Some lifts are a little riskier than others if you’re working at or near your limit (like squats or overhead lifts).
Just keep in mind that a lot of us have days like that (and often a lot more than 2-3 per year). At least you recognize when it’s happening and you know that it will pass.
[quote]John S. wrote:
Ive read ur posts. Now i did take what you say a step further, but you must admit that saying “I like it when hot guys look at me” in reference to why you cant leave ur p.t. is kind of retarded.
now to your main thing. just sounds like you have a bad day like any of us.[/quote]
Oh yeah, it IS retarded, I was being playful! Thats why I couldnt believe that that guy got so wah-wah-cry-cry over it.
I also stated:
“my trainer is a burning red-hot ball of fiery roasted flames of immortally Dead-Sexy sizzlinness”
I was not being serious, this is another example of me not being serious. Sometimes people intentionally try to be retarded to make their lives funner than they are. Internet forums are a perfect place to have fun and be an idiot.
Nephorm likes to tell women that he wants to stick it in their pooper. My maid likes to destroy my stuff. My dog likes to rub his ass on gravel. My cat throws up.
Sorry if Im being too self-absorbed in stating things about my dog and cat and maid.
[quote]julia87 wrote:
I can be absorbed with figuring you out as well, it is not just about me you mindless piece of corn.
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OK, now there is an insult I have never heard before in my life. A mindless piece of corn? lol Ay yi yi.