[quote]julia87 wrote:
BFBullpup wrote:
You do realize that you don’t need a trainer to lift heavy, right?
I like hot guys to watch me when I lift[/quote]
I’m always up to the task. 
so, you do know that you are gonna have quite a few people applying for the position now right ?
Embrace your anger.
The Dark Side truely is stronger!
[quote]julia87 wrote:
BFBullpup wrote:
You do realize that you don’t need a trainer to lift heavy, right?
I like hot guys to watch me when I lift[/quote]
Me too, always helps me squeeze that last rep out in the squat rack…Kuz, you can come over any time bud-day
God, this thread is further proof that any woman that says she likes sports is a spy.
Who the fuck injects shit like this into the T-Nation forums? This is womanhood at its worst. “I like hot guys when I’m lifting heavy.” Way to confirm that all women regardless of hobbies or lifting/non-lifting behavior are really just attention whores.
The implications of this statement and this post can be extended to imply that the only reason you post on these forums/weight lift at all is because you love the fawning. Seriously, get a dog?
yeah, its only women that come to this site because they like the attention. Its not like one guy is here at this site because he wants to look good “nekkid”.
Get off your soapbox, calling her an attention whore was completely uncalled for.
btw, take some effing time to look at her profile before you say she only lifts for attention, she’s going to Texas A&M for track and field.
LoneLobo as much as I laugh at the generalization of that it does seem to be all shes doing in this post.
[quote]LoneLobo wrote:
God, this thread is further proof that any woman that says she likes sports is a spy.
Who the fuck injects shit like this into the T-Nation forums? This is womanhood at its worst. “I like hot guys when I’m lifting heavy.” Way to confirm that all women regardless of hobbies or lifting/non-lifting behavior are really just attention whores.
The implications of this statement and this post can be extended to imply that the only reason you post on these forums/weight lift at all is because you love the fawning. Seriously, get a dog?[/quote]
By god.
First of all, I was being truthful. If you want me to say I like to be watched by dogs or cats when I lift I could but I would maybe of been lying to you, I dont know,I have never gotten my pets to watch me, but since Im an obvious internet exhibitionist to you, I may just go and try it.
“I like hot guys when I’m lifting heavy.”
That wasnt even what I wrote.
I was responding to him saying why I have to have a trainer when I lift and I thought that since I had only talked about how my trainer is hot in this thread, and in about 4-5 other threads (that is why Yo Momma posted what she did), then that would be appropriate to say that I like for him to watch me-I have a huge totally void of intelligent-thought crush on my trainer if you didnt notice.
If you want me to stop being playful I can and tell you that I am extremely clumsy and have hurt myself when lifting alone and totally annihilated any sense of what good form is also when training alone.
Plus I do like it when the opposite sex looks my way (!!!)
(sorry for any prudes that couldnt handle that statement)
I like guys to watch me when I throw my javelin too, it makes me more competitive for the throw, makes me want to throw it farther, show off, same with girls, if someone is competing with me in the throw, I am more motivated to throw it farther than them.
“Way to confirm that all women regardless of hobbies or lifting/non-lifting behavior are really just attention whores.”
This is kind of a wierd sentence.
I never said I lift so hot guys will watch me, never said I go to the gym for hot guys, most of the guys at my gym could be my father, actually, it is quite the contrary, I get really self-conscious and my cheeks turn red if too many guys are watching me. I was just thinking about my trainer and how hot he is when writing that simple little sentence.
I even tell guys to stop watching me sometimes (playfully) when I am pulling a lot of weight so I can focus and not be insecure about how I look when I lift.
I am an artist also, painting is a hobby, and I do not show off my works at all. I may tell people Yeah, I am an artist, whatever, but I dont take the effort to show them my skills so theyll have sex with me like a geisha. Also, I played the harp for a bit which is unusual, I dont know anyone else that has played, and this is the first time Ive told anyone that I have. If you want me to go on I can but I think you can grasp my point
(at least I hope you can)
“The implications of this statement and this post can be extended to imply that the only reason you post on these forums/weight lift at all is because you love the fawning”
Nah, if you took time to look through my posts and did not post your message as impulsively and mainly based on your emotions about women that you have,
you’d see that I check out the articles here, I mostly look for things related to my sport that will help me with it and nutrition because Ive always been crazy with that. I also look for different ways to do simple exercises because I Am going to college and wont have a trainer to tell me what to do as much.
I also post and give advice and argue about different issues so youll see a lot of that in there too.
I actually have my thread in Strength Sports you can check out called “Shoulder Problems From Snatch” Ill give you a link to it if you want.
You also havent looked at my profile because you would see pictures of my dog Pancho in it, she is the best, I also have my yellow aura telling me that I am suppose to have a dog and that I love dogs, which is in my crazy little instable blog I rant in because Ive never had a “blog” before and it sounds wierd.
Oh, and, by the way, I sure as hell am a spy. Federal agent. I worked for James B some too if you can believe it. I worked out in front of him too and Id do it again if I could.
[quote]John S. wrote:
LoneLobo as much as I laugh at the generalization of that it does seem to be all shes doing in this post.[/quote]
I am very intrapersonal, a lot of the people Ive PMed for a while Ive gotten them interested in personality psychology because Im so fascinated by it and babble about it and they want to know why I find it so interesting. I cannot tell you why but I love to help myself and other people figure out more about themselves.
This thread was mainly about me needing confirmation that other people have gone through experiences similar to mine in whatever way, I was feeling very much like I was standing at split roads not knowing which one to go down and needed reassurance that me having days like a posted is normal, because it didnt feel right to me and it still doesnt. Thankfully these little hiccups in judgement have diverted my attention for the while. I didnt know what to do about my coach either. I still am indecisive on what to do.
Sleep is the closest thing we have in real life to the reset button on the playstation.
LoneLobo, my hat is off to you sir. You have brought to life what I was thinking subconciously. Bravo.
[quote]turbogti wrote:
LoneLobo, my hat is off to you sir. You have brought to life what I was thinking subconciously. Bravo.[/quote]
Second that!
[quote]lonewolf1952 wrote:
turbogti wrote:
LoneLobo, my hat is off to you sir. You have brought to life what I was thinking subconciously. Bravo.
Second that!
[/quote]
And definitely NOT thirding yet. Seriously, some people need to lighten up.
And another thought… can we ditch the double-standards? Find me a guy on these forums who either doesn’t like it or doesn’t perform a little bit better when a “hot chick” is watching. Sorry julia, I guess your biggest problem for some people in this thread is you’re female.
[quote]LoneLobo wrote:
God, this thread is further proof that any woman that says she likes sports is a spy.
Who the fuck injects shit like this into the T-Nation forums? This is womanhood at its worst. “I like hot guys when I’m lifting heavy.” Way to confirm that all women regardless of hobbies or lifting/non-lifting behavior are really just attention whores.
The implications of this statement and this post can be extended to imply that the only reason you post on these forums/weight lift at all is because you love the fawning. Seriously, get a dog?[/quote]
You don’t understand women, do you?
Neither do I, but I think she is looking for a little emotional support right now.
Julia is very sincere and is a good kid. If you are not into her thread then don’t read it. No need to attack her.
Hot chicks usually stare at me…accompanied by hysterical laughter. I find that it doesn’t help me lift heavier or improve my athletic performance. How do you guys do it?
[quote]Kuz wrote:
lonewolf1952 wrote:
turbogti wrote:
LoneLobo, my hat is off to you sir. You have brought to life what I was thinking subconciously. Bravo.
Second that!
And definitely NOT thirding yet. Seriously, some people need to lighten up.
And another thought… can we ditch the double-standards? Find me a guy on these forums who either doesn’t like it or doesn’t perform a little bit better when a “hot chick” is watching. Sorry julia, I guess your biggest problem for some people in this thread is you’re female.[/quote]
lonewolf just doesnt like me because I didnt agree to his lifestyle and he PMed me actually and told me that slavery is not dead and that I should get into it and become an Actual slave because I am “spirited”.
I actually had a feeling he was going to post something.
I think that these guys Want to think of me like that for whatever reason, probably due to me angering them by a post somewhere, I argue a lot.
I mean, where is Nominal Prospect? He is the last one that openly dislikes me. Pookie, lonewolf, NP, I cant remember anymore, maybe theyll come here and remind me.
[quote]StevenF wrote:
Hot chicks usually stare at me…accompanied by hysterical laughter. I find that it doesn’t help me lift heavier or improve my athletic performance. How do you guys do it? [/quote]
No, no, you must ask Me steven. Nobody else likes the opposite sex watching them when they lift but me. Obviously, liking to be seen by the opposite sex is a big no-no these days and people will call you an attention whore for it.
A few years ago, I went through those feelings on a regular basis. I was a cynical bastard, for a variety of reasons. I used to embrace those feelings and stay in that mood until one day I woke up and felt happy, then life would carry on until the next bout of depression.
Then I got to college. The same general feelings occured. I felt like I knew tons of people superficially, but I didn’t have many real friends. My best friend here is the most laid back person I know. And it started rubbing off on me. I realized that a) I would have more friends if I kept talking to people (it’s hard to stay close when you talk to someone once a month), making it my own fault, and b) regardless of the situation, I don’t want to waste any more of my life feeling down. I can’t really explain how I changed other than when I start feeling that way, I just tell myself “eh, whatever” and go back to normal.
This was a long, meandering post, but how you described yourself reminds me of myself a couple years ago. Thinking back on those times, I realized I would’ve had a lot more fun if I just stayed happy and outgoing instead of climbing into a hole. Eh, whatever.
[quote]veruvius wrote:
A few years ago, I went through those feelings on a regular basis. I was a cynical bastard, for a variety of reasons. I used to embrace those feelings and stay in that mood until one day I woke up and felt happy, then life would carry on until the next bout of depression.
Then I got to college. The same general feelings occured. I felt like I knew tons of people superficially, but I didn’t have many real friends. My best friend here is the most laid back person I know. And it started rubbing off on me. I realized that a) I would have more friends if I kept talking to people (it’s hard to stay close when you talk to someone once a month), making it my own fault, and b) regardless of the situation, I don’t want to waste any more of my life feeling down. I can’t really explain how I changed other than when I start feeling that way, I just tell myself “eh, whatever” and go back to normal.
This was a long, meandering post, but how you described yourself reminds me of myself a couple years ago. Thinking back on those times, I realized I would’ve had a lot more fun if I just stayed happy and outgoing instead of climbing into a hole. Eh, whatever.[/quote]
Exactly, I am normally very happy, it is just I will get hit with this intense sadness on a few days a year and everybody will think my dog died and the like.
Like you I say “whatever” a lot when I get down 
but this time was different than a normal “down day”
It isnt like…I can detect it coming…I am also very outgoing but sometimes if I go to parties in these moods Ill seperate myself or not talk say a word to anyone but my closest friend like you said you did also. And then I get her down and she starts drinking depressed and then I feel even more terrible but also kinda comforted because she is in it with me, you know? Thats only happened twice thank god.
Thats why I didnt think it was normal…because its like my brainwaves of happiness collapse and my entire being turns deep blue. When I have a normal down day and go and party I can emulate fun-lovingness, a care-free nature, and then transform into it easily. But…it was like I had a glass wall there, I could see how fun I was normally when looking into it, but I couldnt possibly reach it.
I still am in it, not as severe whereas I am just sitting on my couch staring at the fireplace vacantly, but where I have an appetite for food again, and am going to spend the day putting up malfunctioning christmas lights and yelling at my mailbox. So thank you to all that cared enough to help me through it…most of my friends only can relate to me in this from only knowing of how hangovers feel. Thanks.