Zeb,
A lot of things have the potential to be self-destructive.
That does not mean that people engaged in such lifestyles are in fact self-destructive.
However, I don’t think addictions are a good comparison at all. This is a medical situation of dependence that removes a persons ability to control their own actions. Sure, that I would say is dangerous.
However, in general, though smoking and drinking have the potential to be dangerous, I don’t think it would be correct to say that people should not smoke and people should not drink because it is wrong. What a crock!
Your so-called facts support various interpretations. A movie is not propaganda just because it is not a documentary of the pro’s and con’s of some issue.
Philadelphia didn’t seem to brush over many of the negatives that were faced by gay people. Bigotry, loss of job and deadly disease. Yeah, quite the propaganda for the lifestyle indeed.
Anyway, I’ve invited you to define this “gay lifestyle” on which your statistics are based. I question whether a gay person has to live this lifestyle in order to be gay. I suspect your “gay lifestyle” definition includes some rather risky behaviors that being gay does not have to include.
It is extremely simple for any responsible person living life openly gay to avoid your “concern” about them catching AIDS. They could screen potential partners via blood test before becoming sexually active.
Now, whether or not a lot of people do this, has little to do with whether or not they are gay, but the level of care they take in their life. Both straight and gay people are notorious for not taking adequate control of situations in their lives.
So far, your facts show nothing of substance with respect to declaring a lifestyle choice inherently wrong.
Keep trying!