[quote]MaloVerde wrote:
watch the same Disney movies 500 times over
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Here! This is an example of that “quintessential definition of love”
Gentleman, you are on the same wave lenth. I think Malo can be excused from the shopping experience with the wife and I’m sure she appreciates him inspite of it, otherwise she would be the one having to sit through those Disney movies 1000 times!
[quote]pushharder wrote:
Zap Branigan wrote:
pushharder wrote:
As far as shopping with the wife…you could get (or rather she) quite the injection of spice from time to time by following her into the dressing room at the clothing store and…whoopeeing it up. And if THAT isn’t “mutually beneficial”, I don’t know what is.
This is just what I was waiting for. I will implement it immediately.
The mirrors…the proximity of others…the sheer naughtiness…it is quite the good time(s).[/quote]
I’m going to give you a business idea.
You should write a book entitled:
Brilliant Men Won’t Betray their Wifes
A Practical guide on How to stay Loyal to Your Sex Drive in the Real World
…this could be fun, : )
[quote]pushharder wrote:
The man who excludes his wife from his hobbies is not as happy as the one who doesn’t.[/quote]
I didn’t fabricate your words. If that doesn’t imply every waking moment, I guess I don’t know what you meant.
Also, if you knew my wife’s shopping habits, you would know that fucking me is the last thing on her mind. Shopping might as well be a job for her. If you think I’m joking, I’m not.
[quote]MaloVerde wrote:
pushharder wrote:
The man who excludes his wife from his hobbies is not as happy as the one who doesn’t.
I didn’t fabricate your words. If that doesn’t imply every waking moment, I guess I don’t know what you meant.
Also, if you knew my wife’s shopping habits, you would know that fucking me is the last thing on her mind. Shopping might as well be a job for her. If you think I’m joking, I’m not.
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Maybe shopping IS her way of fucking you. As in fucking you over;)
DB
[quote]SBB wrote:
jsbrook wrote:
I don’t think anyone’s surprised at it or would deny that it’s not fairly common. I think the surprise is at people who are actually defending it.
I should’ve been clearer. My opinion is that spouses being cheated on are often in the know in these types of ongoing affairs or string of affairs but choose to stay in their relationships for various reasons (a la Hillary). In those cases, they take at least partial responsibility for accepting/justifying the infidelity, whether they agree with it and whether they feel they have no alternative.
That isn’t to say that’s the case with dranon’s friend whose wife apparentely doesn’t know. However, spouses aren’t always getting as duped as it may appear. It’s been an eye opener for me over the past few years to learn how many unique spoken AND unspoken agreements a lot of couples have that seem strange to an outsider, me included. In these cases, who’s to say what is justifiable or defensible? Is the cheater always a scum bag? I don’t know; it’s obviously working for both spouses on certain levels if they’re staying together.
And no, I’m not saying that all spouses are aware of infidelity (they’re absolutely not) nor that non-cheating spouses are to blame (they’re absolutely not). Getting back to this thread’s title, we all know of a lot of prominent, “brilliant” cheaters whose spouses have stuck with them and have even forced togetherness for their own benefit. Real people do this too.
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Yeah, I’d agree. A decent percentage of those who cheat probably either have spouses who etiherabsolutely know or basically know in their gut and choose to turn a blind eye.
[quote]dollarbill44 wrote:
MaloVerde wrote:
pushharder wrote:
The man who excludes his wife from his hobbies is not as happy as the one who doesn’t.
I didn’t fabricate your words. If that doesn’t imply every waking moment, I guess I don’t know what you meant.
Also, if you knew my wife’s shopping habits, you would know that fucking me is the last thing on her mind. Shopping might as well be a job for her. If you think I’m joking, I’m not.
Maybe shopping IS her way of fucking you. As in fucking you over;)
DB[/quote]
If that’s true, she must be the horniest woman in the World, cause I sure do get fucked alot!
OK So my friend is not talking to me anymore for revealing his secret on an internet site. He says this will be here forever and no matter how anonymous I make it sound someone will be able to know if not now in the future. He is at the point where he wants to leave his wife but does not want to break up the family, everything he has read says that it is better to keep the family intact for the kids so long there is no abusive behavior or fighting going on. He has decided to stop seeing the girlfriend because she has really fallen for him and he only wanted her for sex. I tried to get him to look at this site and read what was written but he doesn’t want to.
First of all…brilliant men dont cheat on their wives…they are just highly sexed. The “highly sexed” people always seem to get somewhere in life. The other thing is once they leave their wives who, first of all influence them in one way or another, they are nothing anymore. Lokk at Napolean he rose to the top when he was with his first wife. Once he left her, ( because he was highly sexed and needed more then one) he power fell. SO was Einstein, left his first wife and he had no more ideas. The women you are with are your biggest influence. Without them you ( meaning us men) are nothing. For every great man, there is even a greater women next to him.