I always thought Dr. Phil was the bottom of America’s television imbecility and classlessness.
Then I found out about Jerry Springer and Maury Povich.
Great thread. I can definitely relate. I think some of you are missing important point.
As a single guy you train to look good. You get bigger, girls start to notice you. You become more popular with the ladies and become more confident. You sleep with a few… You ask the girl at the gym out. Date for a while then meet this MILF. Then go to a party and meet this crazy 21 year old in college who brings you to her place. Then you meet this black girl with a crazy booty. Man…
Life is all about GYM and pussy. You are single, working, have your own place, rich (no kids to support), feeling good and in shape. Girls are attracted to you…
Then your GF announces you she’s pregnant. You try to do the right thing and get married (or move in together and be a family). It’s hard man going from first lifestyle to married life. Postpartum depression not her, you! You sit in your car at night and cry thinking back to those times.
Clearly this guy still stuck in previous lifestyle and hasn’t adjusted to married (family) life. It’s hard man… Coming from divorced parents doesn’t help. (somebody mentioned NBA, NFL players - no wonder most are cheating)
As a man, in my opinion anyways, right thing to do is to embrace the change and be happy and devoted to your family. Nobody said it was going to be easy.
I think the problem goes much deeper than this guy training 4 hours a day at the gym.
[quote]hit the gym wrote:
Great thread. I can definitely relate. I think some of you are missing important point.
As a single guy you train to look good. You get bigger, girls start to notice you. You become more popular with the ladies and become more confident. You sleep with a few… You ask the girl at the gym out. Date for a while then meet this MILF. Then go to a party and meet this crazy 21 year old in college who brings you to her place. Then you meet this black girl with a crazy booty. Man…
Life is all about GYM and pussy. You are single, working, have your own place, rich (no kids to support), feeling good and in shape. Girls are attracted to you…
Then your GF announces you she’s pregnant. You try to do the right thing and get married (or move in together and be a family). It’s hard man going from first lifestyle to married life. Postpartum depression not her, you! You sit in your car at night and cry thinking back to those times.
Clearly this guy still stuck in previous lifestyle and hasn’t adjusted to married (family) life. It’s hard man… Coming from divorced parents doesn’t help. (somebody mentioned NBA, NFL players - no wonder most are cheating)
As a man, in my opinion anyways, right thing to do is to embrace the change and be happy and devoted to your family. Nobody said it was going to be easy.
I think the problem goes much deeper than this guy training 4 hours a day at the gym.[/quote]
This is the kind of insight and perspective of thought this forum has been deprived of in the last couple of years.
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
[quote]hit the gym wrote:
Great thread. I can definitely relate. I think some of you are missing important point.
As a single guy you train to look good. You get bigger, girls start to notice you. You become more popular with the ladies and become more confident. You sleep with a few… You ask the girl at the gym out. Date for a while then meet this MILF. Then go to a party and meet this crazy 21 year old in college who brings you to her place. Then you meet this black girl with a crazy booty. Man…
Life is all about GYM and pussy. You are single, working, have your own place, rich (no kids to support), feeling good and in shape. Girls are attracted to you…
Then your GF announces you she’s pregnant. You try to do the right thing and get married (or move in together and be a family). It’s hard man going from first lifestyle to married life. Postpartum depression not her, you! You sit in your car at night and cry thinking back to those times.
Clearly this guy still stuck in previous lifestyle and hasn’t adjusted to married (family) life. It’s hard man… Coming from divorced parents doesn’t help. (somebody mentioned NBA, NFL players - no wonder most are cheating)
As a man, in my opinion anyways, right thing to do is to embrace the change and be happy and devoted to your family. Nobody said it was going to be easy.
I think the problem goes much deeper than this guy training 4 hours a day at the gym.[/quote]
This is the kind of insight and perspective of thought this forum has been deprived of in the last couple of years.
[/quote]
I hope that was sarcasm.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Or dad should get his ass up at 3 am and go to the gym for his personal time.[/quote]
Thank god for 24hr Fitness!!
Even then, Wifey will still not be happy!
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How old are you darkninjaa?[/quote]
Dude really.
Two things you never ask a woman
Her age
and her weight
Write that shit down[/quote]
What makes you think I care about those rules and making women feel dainty?
I will ask weight age and how many dicks she’s sucked this week if I wanna know.
Lol
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Yea but you talk to fat 18 year olds with the mental capacity of a spider monkey[/quote]
In the words of the great Edgy…
Hilar~[/quote]
As funny as those old bitches with the sagging tits and bad backs you two are so fond of?
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
How old are you darkninjaa?[/quote]
I’m a couple of years older than you.
Why? What do you want from me?
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Eternal friendship DN eternal friendship
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So, the safe route it is?[/quote]
A DN and CR friendship will not be a safe one.
[quote]Edgy wrote:
I have nothing relevant to offer to this discussion.
except - HI Rock!, Hi Ninjaa![/quote]
Whaddup?
[quote]sardines12 wrote:
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
[quote]hit the gym wrote:
Great thread. I can definitely relate. I think some of you are missing important point.
As a single guy you train to look good. You get bigger, girls start to notice you. You become more popular with the ladies and become more confident. You sleep with a few… You ask the girl at the gym out. Date for a while then meet this MILF. Then go to a party and meet this crazy 21 year old in college who brings you to her place. Then you meet this black girl with a crazy booty. Man…
Life is all about GYM and pussy. You are single, working, have your own place, rich (no kids to support), feeling good and in shape. Girls are attracted to you…
Then your GF announces you she’s pregnant. You try to do the right thing and get married (or move in together and be a family). It’s hard man going from first lifestyle to married life. Postpartum depression not her, you! You sit in your car at night and cry thinking back to those times.
Clearly this guy still stuck in previous lifestyle and hasn’t adjusted to married (family) life. It’s hard man… Coming from divorced parents doesn’t help. (somebody mentioned NBA, NFL players - no wonder most are cheating)
As a man, in my opinion anyways, right thing to do is to embrace the change and be happy and devoted to your family. Nobody said it was going to be easy.
I think the problem goes much deeper than this guy training 4 hours a day at the gym.[/quote]
This is the kind of insight and perspective of thought this forum has been deprived of in the last couple of years.
[/quote]
I hope that was sarcasm.[/quote]
Gettinitdone is retarded…?
[quote]sardines12 wrote:
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
[quote]hit the gym wrote:
Great thread. I can definitely relate. I think some of you are missing important point.
As a single guy you train to look good. You get bigger, girls start to notice you. You become more popular with the ladies and become more confident. You sleep with a few… You ask the girl at the gym out. Date for a while then meet this MILF. Then go to a party and meet this crazy 21 year old in college who brings you to her place. Then you meet this black girl with a crazy booty. Man…
Life is all about GYM and pussy. You are single, working, have your own place, rich (no kids to support), feeling good and in shape. Girls are attracted to you…
Then your GF announces you she’s pregnant. You try to do the right thing and get married (or move in together and be a family). It’s hard man going from first lifestyle to married life. Postpartum depression not her, you! You sit in your car at night and cry thinking back to those times.
Clearly this guy still stuck in previous lifestyle and hasn’t adjusted to married (family) life. It’s hard man… Coming from divorced parents doesn’t help. (somebody mentioned NBA, NFL players - no wonder most are cheating)
As a man, in my opinion anyways, right thing to do is to embrace the change and be happy and devoted to your family. Nobody said it was going to be easy.
I think the problem goes much deeper than this guy training 4 hours a day at the gym.[/quote]
This is the kind of insight and perspective of thought this forum has been deprived of in the last couple of years.
[/quote]
I hope that was sarcasm.[/quote]
I hope you mean this because you think the board already has advice like this from its members and not that you disagree with hit the gym.
Watched all three videos.
It’s pretty simple. If he wanted to live a lifestyle of clubbing, partying, and picking up chics, free of responsibilities, he shouldn’t have gotten her pregnant and he shouldn’t have had kids. That was a choice he made.
I will also agree that bodybuilding is an obsessive sport, and no person who is above the intermediate level will argue with that. It is hard to find balance, and I’m sure a lot of people on here have struggled with that.
At the end of the day, if you make the choice to have kids and start a family, you are obligated to do everything you can to support them and provide for them, especially as the father and the husband.
If that’s not something you’re willing to do, then don’t start a family. Plain and simple.
[quote]WestCoast7 wrote:
Watched all three videos.
It’s pretty simple. If he wanted to live a lifestyle of clubbing, partying, and picking up chics, free of responsibilities, he shouldn’t have gotten her pregnant and he shouldn’t have had kids. That was a choice he made.
I will also agree that bodybuilding is an obsessive sport, and no person who is above the intermediate level will argue with that. It is hard to find balance, and I’m sure a lot of people on here have struggled with that.
At the end of the day, if you make the choice to have kids and start a family, you are obligated to do everything you can to support them and provide for them, especially as the father and the husband.
If that’s not something you’re willing to do, then don’t start a family. Plain and simple.[/quote]
Likewise, because it takes two people to have a relationship, don’t jump into a relationship and expect the all night club hopper to turn into Super-Daddy just because he bought you a ring.
The fault here lies on two people. If that man is bringing home the paycheck, he is taking care of his family. He isn’t there emotionally…and for fuck sake, that is something you clear up before saying, “I do”.
BRB
Busy being a terrible father because im going to a concert tonight…
LOL
And they say GAIDS is ruining the sanctity of traditional marriage. HA!!
Ct. Rockula, the pot calling the kettle black?
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
Ct. Rockula, the pot calling the kettle black?[/quote]
See
Im hilarious though. A god of entertainment really…you’re literally retarded.
And no babydick you’ll never be called Black.