Stay with her and treat her horribly because you’re jealous and angry, although this is NSA and you don’t care what she does of course. Keep being insecure in front of her and all the attraction she has for you will be gone
dump her and sit at home alone being jealous and angry
It made her feel cheap and disposable when you so casually suggested she hook up with someone else and she punished you for it. Girls don’t like to be given away or treated as if they are entirely unimportant to the men they’re having sex with.
Maybe she didn’t even do the other guy, who knows, but when you don’t have the time or interest in meeting up, the right thing to say unless you want to hurt and alienate her is “I really wish I could.” Full stop.
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Completely agree.
I can’t believe the original poster flat out told a girl to go and hook up with someone else, especially since he clearly has feelings for her or he wouldn’t care about any of this.
I get the fact that i suggest she call that other guy, and how that may have made her feel. Although i doubt it made her feel cheap at all (this chicks different). But hindsight tells me she would have anyway. What girl wouldnt be interested and or curious about it.
So, from any of the girls on here. What would you have done in that situation. You have a guy wanting to hook up packing that kind of heat ?
She likes you more than the other guy that’s why she wants to maintain a relationship with you. But don’t think for a minute that she won’t be driving over to that dude’s house when you aren’t around.
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
She won’t even have to leave the house. Dude just has to stick it out the window and she can ride him from across town.
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[quote]super saiyan wrote:
She likes you more than the other guy that’s why she wants to maintain a relationship with you. But don’t think for a minute that she won’t be driving over to that dude’s house when you aren’t around.[/quote]
Agree, this happens to me on a regular basis where girls that are even in relationships are still asking for side hookups with me. I just figured I was good in bed. But when hubby is gone or not paying attention to them, they do get it on the side. Pure fact and it happens more then most people would expect.
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
She won’t even have to leave the house. Dude just has to stick it out the window and she can ride him from across town.
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