Big D*ck Inferiority Complex

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[quote]bpick86 wrote:
I absolutley cannot believe that all women are that way. The prevalance of women that are that way is much higher in certain social circles sure. You saying you look in the most exclusive places probably means that you are encountering those women at a far higher rate than normal. If you cant find a woman in the circles that you are currently looking in then try somewhere else.

I had a guy that I worked with that has been married and divorced 4 times and he met each wife in a bar. An intelligent man, which you seem to be, should deduce that you cant keep doing the same thing and expect different results. If the store you are shopping in doesnt have what you want, look somewhere else.[/quote]

I think I already posted some of this, so what the hell.

My family is old, like really, really, old.

Some of the girls I am talking about had names that you would find in history books.

First class family, first class upbringing, quality.

Except, not so much.

If I were talking bar skanks, I would go for the NAWALT exit faster than you could say WTF!?!

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Off the top of my hat I can think of two who had streets named after them.

One a boulevard, because one of her ancestors had great succes against the Ottoman empire, the other a small side road, for her ancestors minor achievements, comparatively speaking.

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[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]Steel Nation wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]Steel Nation wrote:

Why would you sit there and listen to bullshit you donā€™t need or want to hear? [/quote]

Shit, I donā€™t know about you, but most of the people talking through most of the day are saying bullshit I donā€™t want or need to hear.[/quote]

I work in engineering (where the personalities are as dry and boring as the work we do) and let me tell you, I know exactly what you mean.[/quote]

I was just trying to relate that responseā€¦because while I understand what you meant, the truth is, I find myself smiling through tears often when speaking to the average person.

The average person, male or female, can bore you to tears about their life struggles and personal insanity markers.

Starting a conversation with someone is literally about finding out what you can tolerate.[/quote]

The only difference between meaningless, boring conversation and interesting, meaningful conversation is the participantsā€™ level of interest. If youā€™re on a date with a person, then itā€™s fairly well implied that you have an interest in getting to know them better. That desire is not present when striking up a conversation with a stranger. So with a date, it should be easy to find something to talk about that is interesting to you both (I.E. each other).

But if youā€™re going into a date with absolutely no desire to get to know the person youā€™re taking out, then I think there are easier ways to get your nuts off than having your brain jackhammered by meaningless, boring conversation for hours. Iā€™d rather get a handjob from a rabid alley cat.

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[quote]Steel Nation wrote:

If youā€™re on a date with a person, then itā€™s fairly well implied that you have an interest in getting to know them better. [/quote]

Thatā€™s the point. This would be false. If within a 5minute conversation all I get is ā€œwhite noiseā€, I am NOT trying to get to know them better.

I just want sex.

[quote]

That desire is not present when striking up a conversation with a stranger. So with a date, it should be easy to find something to talk about that is interesting to you both (I.E. each other).[/quote]

Dude, have you heard what is going on in the heads of most young women lately?

dear lord, if they are under the age of 25, nearly all conversation is pointless. It is just a way to get to the end result.

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But if youā€™re going into a date with absolutely no desire to get to know the person youā€™re taking out, then I think there are easier ways to get your nuts off than having your brain jackhammered by meaningless, boring conversation for hours. Iā€™d rather get a handjob from a rabid alley cat.[/quote]

Thatā€™s the point, you wonā€™t know without sticking your head in the lionā€™s mouthā€¦and by then, you already know he has bad breath and didnā€™t brush today. Itā€™s all about getting out with your nuts in tact.

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]bpick86 wrote:
I absolutley cannot believe that all women are that way. The prevalance of women that are that way is much higher in certain social circles sure. You saying you look in the most exclusive places probably means that you are encountering those women at a far higher rate than normal. If you cant find a woman in the circles that you are currently looking in then try somewhere else.

I had a guy that I worked with that has been married and divorced 4 times and he met each wife in a bar. An intelligent man, which you seem to be, should deduce that you cant keep doing the same thing and expect different results. If the store you are shopping in doesnt have what you want, look somewhere else.[/quote]

I think I already posted some of this, so what the hell.

My family is old, like really, really, old.

Some of the girls I am talking about had names that you would find in history books.

First class family, first class upbringing, quality.

Except, not so much.

If I were talking bar skanks, I would go for the NAWALT exit faster than you could say WTF!?![/quote]

You misunderstand my point with the bar story. I was in no way trying to insinuate that the girls you are looking at are bar trash. I was merely using it for as an example of someone looking in the same place and expecting a different result. From the limited amount of posts I have read of yours, I think you are confusing pedigree with class. I have gathered that you are dating girls of a high pedigree but from a lot of what you have said, it seems to me these first class girls are lacking the class that your are seeking. Maybe you should step outside the upper echelon of the social hierarchy and look for a girl that gives you what you want in a mother for your children instead first class pedigree. It seems to me that you are thinking of women like brood mares and that simply will not work. Family prestige and good wife material have been inversely proportional more than directly in my limited experience.

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[quote]bpick86 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]bpick86 wrote:
I absolutley cannot believe that all women are that way. The prevalance of women that are that way is much higher in certain social circles sure. You saying you look in the most exclusive places probably means that you are encountering those women at a far higher rate than normal. If you cant find a woman in the circles that you are currently looking in then try somewhere else.

I had a guy that I worked with that has been married and divorced 4 times and he met each wife in a bar. An intelligent man, which you seem to be, should deduce that you cant keep doing the same thing and expect different results. If the store you are shopping in doesnt have what you want, look somewhere else.[/quote]

I think I already posted some of this, so what the hell.

My family is old, like really, really, old.

Some of the girls I am talking about had names that you would find in history books.

First class family, first class upbringing, quality.

Except, not so much.

If I were talking bar skanks, I would go for the NAWALT exit faster than you could say WTF!?![/quote]

You misunderstand my point with the bar story. I was in no way trying to insinuate that the girls you are looking at are bar trash. I was merely using it for as an example of someone looking in the same place and expecting a different result. From the limited amount of posts I have read of yours, I think you are confusing pedigree with class. I have gathered that you are dating girls of a high pedigree but from a lot of what you have said, it seems to me these first class girls are lacking the class that your are seeking. Maybe you should step outside the upper echelon of the social hierarchy and look for a girl that gives you what you want in a mother for your children instead first class pedigree. It seems to me that you are thinking of women like brood mares and that simply will not work. Family prestige and good wife material have been inversely proportional more than directly in my limited experience. [/quote]

Na, thats not true, I never sought them out, they were just kind of ā€¦ thereā€¦

They no longer are and good riddance, but I get a kick out of people telling me that those women were not ā€œqualityā€.

Hell yes, they were, by any objective standard.

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[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]Steel Nation wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]Steel Nation wrote:

Why would you sit there and listen to bullshit you donā€™t need or want to hear? [/quote]

Shit, I donā€™t know about you, but most of the people talking through most of the day are saying bullshit I donā€™t want or need to hear.[/quote]

I work in engineering (where the personalities are as dry and boring as the work we do) and let me tell you, I know exactly what you mean.[/quote]

I was just trying to relate that responseā€¦because while I understand what you meant, the truth is, I find myself smiling through tears often when speaking to the average person.

The average person, male or female, can bore you to tears about their life struggles and personal insanity markers.

Starting a conversation with someone is literally about finding out what you can tolerate.[/quote]

You guys really Abhore talking with your co-workers that much? I mean what you guys would just rather not talk at all at work?

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[quote]orion wrote:

Emily, once again by traditional standards there are no quality women and you are too old to know what you are talking about.
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[quote]orion wrote:

Na, thats not true, I never sought them out, they were just kind of ā€¦ thereā€¦

They no longer are and good riddance, but I get a kick out of people telling me that those women were not ā€œqualityā€.

Hell yes, they were, by any objective standard.

[/quote]

I am a little confused. You say the women you are seeing are quality but earlier you said that there were no quality women. Which is it? That would depend on your definition of quality. Do you mean quality by good looks and high social standing or quality in terms of personality and morals? It seems to me you need to figure out the traits that are the most important to you and seek those. It is a rather inflated view of ones self, and an unrealistic one at that, to think we will find the perfect woman. I would have liked to have had a girl that looked like Marissa Miller with Bill Gates money, loved giving bjs and let me have my way about everything but that wasnt gonna happen. And if it had I would have probably gotten bored with her because who wants to be with someone that never challenges them to be better than they are now.

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[quote]bpick86 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

Emily, once again by traditional standards there are no quality women and you are too old to know what you are talking about.
[/quote]

[quote]orion wrote:

Na, thats not true, I never sought them out, they were just kind of ā€¦ thereā€¦

They no longer are and good riddance, but I get a kick out of people telling me that those women were not ā€œqualityā€.

Hell yes, they were, by any objective standard.

[/quote]

I am a little confused. You say the women you are seeing are quality but earlier you said that there were no quality women. Which is it? That would depend on your definition of quality. Do you mean quality by good looks and high social standing or quality in terms of personality and morals? It seems to me you need to figure out the traits that are the most important to you and seek those. It is a rather inflated view of ones self, and an unrealistic one at that, to think we will find the perfect woman. I would have liked to have had a girl that looked like Marissa Miller with Bill Gates money, loved giving bjs and let me have my way about everything but that wasnt gonna happen. And if it had I would have probably gotten bored with her because who wants to be with someone that never challenges them to be better than they are now.[/quote]

The confusion what constitues quality does not really rest in my mind.

It is just that people seem to have a certain picture in their minds whith what kind of woman I have made my experiences with which is almost inevitably wrong.

If there is someone who is not impressed by ā€œpedigreeā€ as you call it, it would be me, but the women trying to sell me that whole NAWALT claptrap certainly would be.

What THEY would uphold as women of quality, I know to be opportunistic trash.

I mean, you can NAWALT me all you want, but what if women of high standing, good manners, no financial worries ACTUALLY ARE LIKE THAT; what then?

Seriously, what then?

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Try women maybe of not such high standing that they see marriage as more of an opportunity to advance themselves.

Or maybe women who do not have an inheritance coming down that are actually aware of what the real world is and have had to work to try to make their own way and cant depend on family name.

Keep the good manners though. Those are always a plus.

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[quote]optheta wrote:

You guys really Abhore talking with your co-workers that much? I mean what you guys would just rather not talk at all at work? [/quote]

LOL. It isnā€™t that simple. No, I really donā€™t want to discuss how great strawberry cake is or how babies feel when they kick for over 8 hours a day.

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[quote]bpick86 wrote:
Try women maybe of not such high standing that they see marriage as more of an opportunity to advance themselves.

Or maybe women who do not have an inheritance coming down that are actually aware of what the real world is and have had to work to try to make their own way and cant depend on family name.

Keep the good manners though. Those are always a plus.[/quote]

So, you are telling me to hold out for THE ONE?

In a way I am doing that, but given that I am in the stronger position now, I am not inclined to be forgiving.

They all have a chance to prove themselves, so far not one has.

I am just flipping the script they played in their twenties.

They hate it.

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[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]optheta wrote:

You guys really Abhore talking with your co-workers that much? I mean what you guys would just rather not talk at all at work? [/quote]

LOL. It isnā€™t that simple. No, I really donā€™t want to discuss how great strawberry cake is or how babies feel when they kick for over 8 hours a day.
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Of course babies kick for hours if you put them in a burlap sackā€¦put them in a glad force flex and see what happensā€¦

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[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]optheta wrote:

You guys really Abhore talking with your co-workers that much? I mean what you guys would just rather not talk at all at work? [/quote]

LOL. It isnā€™t that simple. No, I really donā€™t want to discuss how great strawberry cake is or how babies feel when they kick for over 8 hours a day.
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With the guys I work with, it isnā€™t the substance so much as the repetition. But in general I donā€™t mind talking to people at work (as long as Iā€™m not hearing a story for the tenth time, which does happen pretty often). There are a few exceptions, and I have had to deal with one of them for hours at a time the last few days, so it is very fresh in my mind.

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[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]optheta wrote:

You guys really Abhore talking with your co-workers that much? I mean what you guys would just rather not talk at all at work? [/quote]

LOL. It isnā€™t that simple. No, I really donā€™t want to discuss how great strawberry cake is or how babies feel when they kick for over 8 hours a day.
[/quote]

Of course babies kick for hours if you put them in a burlap sackā€¦put them in a glad force flex and see what happensā€¦

[/quote]

See, they hate it when I respond like this for some reason.

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[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]optheta wrote:

You guys really Abhore talking with your co-workers that much? I mean what you guys would just rather not talk at all at work? [/quote]

LOL. It isnā€™t that simple. No, I really donā€™t want to discuss how great strawberry cake is or how babies feel when they kick for over 8 hours a day.
[/quote]

Of course babies kick for hours if you put them in a burlap sackā€¦put them in a glad force flex and see what happensā€¦

[/quote]

See, they hate it when I respond like this for some reason.[/quote]

Ungrateful bitches!

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]bpick86 wrote:
Try women maybe of not such high standing that they see marriage as more of an opportunity to advance themselves.

Or maybe women who do not have an inheritance coming down that are actually aware of what the real world is and have had to work to try to make their own way and cant depend on family name.

Keep the good manners though. Those are always a plus.[/quote]

So, you are telling me to hold out for THE ONE?

In a way I am doing that, but given that I am in the stronger position now, I am not inclined to be forgiving.

They all have a chance to prove themselves, so far not one has.

I am just flipping the script they played in their twenties.

They hate it.[/quote]

I hate to tell ya man but any woman that has any since of self-worth isnt gonna try to prove herself to you. If you are expecting them to then you are setting yourself up to get women that are going to bore you. Maybe you do, but it has been my experience that most men do not want a doormat in a partner. Now if you are just looking for a good lay those are the easiest ones to get without very much effort. Which if they were easy for you, probably means they were easy for a fair number of others.

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[quote]bpick86 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]bpick86 wrote:
Try women maybe of not such high standing that they see marriage as more of an opportunity to advance themselves.

Or maybe women who do not have an inheritance coming down that are actually aware of what the real world is and have had to work to try to make their own way and cant depend on family name.

Keep the good manners though. Those are always a plus.[/quote]

So, you are telling me to hold out for THE ONE?

In a way I am doing that, but given that I am in the stronger position now, I am not inclined to be forgiving.

They all have a chance to prove themselves, so far not one has.

I am just flipping the script they played in their twenties.

They hate it.[/quote]

I hate to tell ya man but any woman that has any since of self-worth isnt gonna try to prove herself to you. If you are expecting them to then you are setting yourself up to get women that are going to bore you. Maybe you do, but it has been my experience that most men do not want a doormat in a partner. Now if you are just looking for a good lay those are the easiest ones to get without very much effort. Which if they were easy for you, probably means they were easy for a fair number of others.[/quote]

Game Dude, rock solid game.

You underestimate my skill in the crimson arts.

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They will qualify themselves to me, minutes after having met me.

They will.

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So you are telling me you have this great game that is going to get you this great quality woman to come and beg you to take her. But this ā€œgreat gameā€ you have just hasnt worked on this woman yet because all the women that this ā€œgameā€ has worked on so far havent been what your were expecting and have all been ā€œopportunistic trashā€. So your game keeps attracting women you dont want but you keep using the same game?? Solid plan bro.

EDIT: After finishing typing this, ā€œDont stop beleivingā€ by journey immediately started playing in my head.