I know I’m not a man, but as a woman, I think my life would have been infinitely easier had my mom talked to me about those sort of things. She didn’t talk to me about ANYTHING. I think she was uncomfortable with the subject so she just ignored it. It just left me to figure everything out on my own. I think it’s admirable to try to do better by your son in that way. Life is confusing enough without trying to navigate complex feelings without a compass. Even if it makes you both super uncomfortable. Lol.
A woman’s perspective is always welcome! I’m glad to say my wife and daughter seem to be handling things pretty well; she’s 15, so she’s further into things than my son, but the most important thing in my mind: The conversations are happening!
It is very awkward to discuss “taboo” topics, but I really wish my parents were more open. It’s not because I was subject to “bad influences” or became overly ashamed, but because now I don’t feel like I CAN discuss things when them even though their input would probably be valid. My mum is getting worried because I have 0 interest in men (or women) but I don’t feel comfortable telling her it’s because I don’t want to be touched at all. My brother also doesn’t feel comfortable going to them for relationship advice even though he has a personality similar to my dad and is dating a woman who has a personality somewhat similar to that of my mum
I feel like the “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy my parents took is just almost as bad as the overly moralistic approach certain religious sects take in terms of creating barriers between parents and kids/incentivising the kids to search for outside sources.
In the case of my parents, they let me see stuff that was definitely inappropriate (e.g., recommending that I watch Black Swan as a 3rd grader, recommending that I watch wolf of wall street as a 5th grader)
Struggled with my grip for the last 15 reps of deadlifts. Finished all 5 sets in 15 minutes, sat staring at the mirror just long enough to question my life choices, then knocked out the press sets in 10 minutes.
I am glad to read you like the Haney shrugs. This morning I widened my hands farther on the bar. My shoulders and trapezius felt the exercise. But after widening my hands I worked my trapezius much better.
I had to mess around with hand placement in the first few sets, and I ended up a little wider than my typical deadlift grip. (I know that probably doesn’t mean much to you, but I guess the point is my hand placement is relatively “wide” here.)
Main work in 20 minutes, supplemental in 20 minutes, assistance superset throughout.
Feeling like I was hit by a Mack truck coming into this today. Feeling better on the other side of it now, but that’s mostly just because it’s done. (Haha!)
Last week I got very discouraged that my sets of 6 on deadlift were feeling a lot harder than usual, turns out I had 20 more lbs on the bar than prescribed
I was running 600m repeats every week this summer and it is by far the worst distance I’ve ever run. Short enough to run hard, too long to all out sprint, just absolutely brutal. Nice work!
Main work in 20 minutes, supplemental in (less than) 25 minutes, assistance superset throughout.
Forgot to check the timer after I finished up the squat supplemental, but it had been 25 minutes by the time I remembered—if I were to guess, it was probably something close to 22 minutes with setup and whatnot.
Happy with how everything moved—nice and easy, overall, and at least my body doesn’t feel like such crap (despite poor sleep for several days now).