BankRuptcy Reform & Single Mothers

[quote]Professor X wrote:
That was brilliant. Can I write that down? This isn’t about the lessons you teach people who haven’t done that yet. This is about the people ALREADY in situations like that. Is this really that hard to understand? ADD, anyone?
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I had two damn kids, and no one paid shit on my medical bill. They were both “accidents”. Can you just send me a check Prof?

Seeing as how you think everyone whos’e ever had a bad fucking say needs to be bailed out of debt, why don’t you put up, or shut up?
My daughter cost 7500 - no insurance, no medicaid, cash. My son was born 3 months before we were married, and was born with the umbilical chord wrapped around his neck. he cost about 27000. No insurance, no medicaid. I had to pay it off.

So where is my check? I’ll PM you my address so you can get it right out. Tell you what, let’s just make it 30K. I don’t want to be greedy or selfish, here.

[quote]Professor X wrote:
This isn’t about the lessons you teach people who haven’t done that yet. This is about the people ALREADY in situations like that.
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Having a kid in high school when you can’t afford it has consequences.
We are all punished for our stupid choices. Allowing larceny isn’t the solution.

[quote]doogie wrote:
Professor X wrote:
This isn’t about the lessons you teach people who haven’t done that yet. This is about the people ALREADY in situations like that.

Having a kid in high school when you can’t afford it has consequences.
We are all punished for our stupid choices. Allowing larceny isn’t the solution.[/quote]

This isn’t about Larceny. Did you read the article that started this thread? You clearly have all of the solutions in life for how everyone should deal with their own set of circumstances. God forbid you ever find yourself in the situations you so heavily criticize. Of course, that would never happen to you, though.

[quote]rainjack wrote:
I had two damn kids, and no one paid shit on my medical bill. They were both “accidents”. Can you just send me a check Prof?

Seeing as how you think everyone whos’e ever had a bad fucking say needs to be bailed out of debt, why don’t you put up, or shut up?
My daughter cost 7500 - no insurance, no medicaid, cash. My son was born 3 months before we were married, and was born with the umbilical chord wrapped around his neck. he cost about 27000. No insurance, no medicaid. I had to pay it off.

So where is my check? I’ll PM you my address so you can get it right out. Tell you what, let’s just make it 30K. I don’t want to be greedy or selfish, here.
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A bad fucking what? No where have I written that I think everyone needs to be able to file for bankruptcy. I think I have made my point excetionally clear in this thread with regards to those who end up in financial difficulty because of serious circumstances, whether they be medically related are a natural tragedy. You want to ignore those specific cases. So be it. Why don’t you get really pissed and have a few more bad fucking says.

[quote]Professor X wrote:
A bad fucking what? No where have I written that I think everyone needs to be able to file for bankruptcy. I think I have made my point excetionally clear in this thread with regards to those who end up in financial difficulty because of serious circumstances, whether they be medically related are a natural tragedy. You want to ignore those specific cases. So be it. Why don’t you get really pissed and have a few more bad fucking says.[/quote]

I knew that was coming. I think the mods just left me out to dry on that one.

But I digress. Knocking a chick up in highschool qualifies as a serious circumstance that is worthy of a get out of debt free card?

No - that is irresponsible. Not serious. I’d pay his debt off if this teen father would get his nuts cut.

[quote]Professor X wrote:
This isn’t about Larceny. Did you read the article that started this thread? You clearly have all of the solutions in life for how everyone should deal with their own set of circumstances. God forbid you ever find yourself in the situations you so heavily criticize. Of course, that would never happen to you, though.[/quote]

The article that started this thread uses data that is at least 8 years old, and older.

Your example was one of a a guy in highschool knocking someone up and having to pay the price for it.

No one. NO ONE bailed me out of a 7.00/hr job. No one bailed me out of delivering pizzas at night to buy groceries, and they damn sure didn’t bail me out when I was selling my blood plasma twice a week to pay rent.

I have no sympathy for those who are young and able, yet are too lazy to get from point A to point B. These are the folks you have held up as examples. Your article does the same thing. If we tried hard enough, everyone could be made into a victim.

The bible says to take care of the widows and the elderly. I think that should be written in stone somewhere.

JTF, its funny how you think you know how history is going to view common figures of our time. Who knows who is going to even pay attention to them 100-200 years from now. Andrew Jackson’s fiscal policy created reprecussions that lead to the Great Depression, people then and now (or atleast the vast majority) are ignorant and apathetic.

The simple fact is people are very ignorant of basic financial management. I’ don’t have a budget. I’ll probably never have a budget. I’ve got more retirement funds than most 30 years old Americans. By god… Its probably cause I just got lucky and didn’t have any “bad breaks” not any good financial sense.

That damn “luck” argument rears its ugly head.

Also JTF, are you familiar with those large investment banks you listed as top contributors to Bush? I’m not really tying it all together.

[quote]JustTheFacts wrote:

The Mage wrote:
JustTheFacts, yep, everything is Bush?s fault. If there is an economic downturn, it is because of high oil energy prices, which you probably will blame on him also, because obviously everything is Bush?s fault.

But on your side of the fence nothing seems to be Bush’s fault. If FDR would have been the last elected Democrat, his name would probably still be brought up today as a cause of our woes. [/quote]

First let?s get a few things straight. I am not a Republican, and I do think Bush could have done a hell of a lot better then what he has done. There are a lot of things I disagree with that he has done, and a lot of things he has done wrong.

But nobody on the left is willing to look at things logically, and wants to jump down Bush?s throat. This is nothing but politics. An attempt to destroy a person for the sole purpose of getting a Democrat into office.

This is wrong. And the real thing I am arguing against. If you get a cold, it is not Bush?s fault.

The economy is a very dynamic thing, and while the president has some influence, so does ever single business in the world. Yes the world. Also energy prices, and if people are spending or not.

Also I thought Alan Greenspan was the big economy guy. He raised interest rates because he is worried the economy is improving too quickly.

And your chart is the federal deficit, not the economy. And everyone need to understand that this is information in a vacuum. It does not give the whole story, and in fact is designed to do just that. For example it only goes back to 78, so we are only looking at 2 democrat presidents, and 3 republican presidents. Nowhere in the chart does it define the make up of congress, for example after Clinton was in office for 2 years, the Republicans took over and put tax cuts, and spending limits, and that is when the deficits really dropped.

Also during the Regan years, his focus was Russia. It was in the process of falling already, but he pushed it up by a good decade or two which ended the cold war. Then the Bush numbers are obviously affected by the Wars in the Mid-East.

Some things are more important then the deficit.

Yes, like history remembers FDR was Pres during Pearl Harbor, or how Lincoln spit the country into two.

And you do know Bush did not lose jobs, but actually had a net gain. They quit reporting it when it turned positive.

And exactly how is Bush the worst on terrorism? Just saying it is so means nothing. Two attacks during Clinton, without any real reaction, other then letting terrorism flourish cant possibly be better. Bush got the results of his inaction. Remember he was only president for 8 months when 911 happened.

[quote]Anyway I see a slowdown, but not the doom and gloom you are attempting to portray. If Kerry had won you would be raving about the booming economy right now.

You see only a “slowdown” because you largely dismissed any negative news as a scheming liberal attack on Bush and not as a serious warning. It reminds me of the woman who said she watches FOX News because on FOX, we’re winning the war in Iraq. [/quote]

No I know it is only a slowdown because I expected it with the high oil prices, and if they stay up, it will hurt the economy more. I knew this for a long time. I actually watch the economy.

And yes that woman is stupid for thinking we were wining the war in Iraq… OH wait, we did win. Iraq is on our side now, and it is foreigners attacking Iraq right now. Why the hell is FOX News repeatedly brought up? Is it because they are not the politically correct liberal media that attacks anything conservative? (Seen every single report on how bad the new pope is?)

Now I am running out of time, but for the rest, I thought Bush was the big business guy. If he is bad for big business, why would big business support him?

Anyway, you mention outsourcing, but never mention insourcing. And why don?t you want people in other countries to have jobs anyway? At our low level of unemployment, it really does not hurt us, especially when the government raises interest rates if the unemployment level gets to low to slow the economy.

Out of time, sorry.

[quote]100meters wrote:
rainjack wrote:

That’s not entirely true. 50% of of the folks filing bankruptcy may have medical bills, but that is not the main source of their debt. I think BB has already refuted this falsehood once before.

So if we have a medical bill - do we recieve a ‘get out of debt free card’ too?

B.B. didn’t refute it, he simply put an article from Gail Heriot of the National Review on the board which misleads readers on the results of the study, For some reason Gail didn’t want National Review readers to know that medical reasons could prevent people from “working” which would be medical leading to bankrupty.

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I’ve stayed out of this because I’ve decided to try to stay away from threads that just reiterate previous threads, but this isn’t correct 100meters.

My personal position is very similar to The Mage, as I think a lot of the reforms are good but without reforms aimed at the practices of credit-card companies and credit-reporting agencies the bill is incomplete and could even be counterproductive to the overall problem.

Now, as to the article, Heriot pointed out how the study was misleading because of how it used definitions that were significantly different from what most people would understand – specifically with regard to “medical situations.”

Here it is again, for your reading pleasure:

http://www.nationalreview.com/comment/heriot200502110735.asp

February 11, 2005, 7:35 a.m.
Misdiagnosed
A medical-bankruptcy study doesn?t live up to its billing.

By Gail Heriot

“Half of Bankruptcy Due to Medical Bills ? US Study.” ( http://wireservice.wired.com/wired/story.asp?section=Breaking&storyId=984336&tw=wn_wire_story ) At least so said the Reuters headline in last week’s story. And similar stories in newspapers across the country agree. Soon it will be repeated as gospel on Capitol Hill and by the chattering classes everywhere. Understandably, middle-class Americans have started to feel a little queasy about their health and about the adequacy of their health insurance.

The fundamental problem is that it isn’t true. Despite what the authors have encouraged us to believe, the Harvard study, entitled “Illness and Injuries As Contributors to Bankruptcy,” ( http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A9447-2005Feb8.html ) isn’t really about medical bills, crushing or otherwise. It’s about bankruptcies that can ? at least if you’re willing to stretch things a bit ? be classified as medically related. It finds that 54.5 percent of all bankruptcies have “a medical cause.” But “medical cause” is used as a term of art here. In fact, the study does not claim that injury or illness was the primary cause of those bankruptcies. And, perhaps more importantly, it does not claim that the bankruptcies were caused by the crush of medical bills.

Don’t get me wrong. Some bankruptcies are caused by crushing medical debt. But they aren’t half of all bankruptcies, and the only way to create the impression they are is to jimmy the figures. For example, the study classifies “uncontrolled gambling,” “drug addiction,” “alcohol addiction,” and the birth or adoption of a child as “a medical cause,” regardless of whether medical bills are involved. Yes, there may be situations in which a researcher might legitimately want to classify those conditions as “medical,” but a study that is being used to prove that Americans are going bankrupt as a result of crushing medical bills is not one of them. A father who has gambled away his family’s mortgage payment is not likely the victim of crushing medical bills. Similarly, new parents who find they can no longer afford their previous lifestyle now that one of them has to stay home with the baby will usually find the obstetrician’s bill the least of their problems. Babies are a financial hardship even when hospitals give them away free.

Maybe that’s why only 28.3 percent of the surveyed debtors themselves agreed with the authors that their bankruptcy was substantially caused by “illness or injury.” The rest put the blame elsewhere, even when the study labeled their problems as at least in part “medical.”

Buried in the study is the fact that only 27 percent of the surveyed debtors had unreimbursed medical expenses exceeding $1,000 over the course of the two years prior to their bankruptcy. Presumably 73 percent ? the vast majority ? had medical expenses during that two-year period of $1,000 or less. Had that figure been recited up front, it would have been obvious that the proportion of bankruptcies driven by unmanageable medical debt was nowhere near half.

Nobody likes to pay $1,000 in medical expenses even when they get two years to do it in, but for most Americans (particularly those with enough at stake to seek the protection of bankruptcy) it is not catastrophic. Indeed, for many families it is utterly routine. Something else is going on in the overwhelming majority of these bankruptcies, whether it’s gambling debt, drug or alcohol addiction, child care expenses, divorce, loss of a job, or just plain out-of-control spending. The authors’ decision to include any case in which the debtor had paid out more than $1000 in medical expenses in the course of two years as a bankruptcy with a “medical cause” is not just questionable. It’s downright misleading.

What would be significant for the public to know is how common the cases of bankruptcy due to crushing medical debt actually are ? debt in the range of $10,000 or more in single year. That, however, is something the study is careful not to disclose, even though the raw data behind the study would appear to be sufficient to make such computations possible. Instead, at every turn, the authors present the data in ways that encourage the reader to misidentify medical expenses as the leading cause of bankruptcy.

For example, at one point the reader is told that the mean out-of-pocket medical expenditure for an illness-related bankruptcy is $11,854. But this is not the average for the 54.5 percent of bankruptcies that the study holds to have “a medical cause;” it’s the average for the much smaller group (28.3 percent) in which the debtor agreed that illness and injury played a substantial role. And the $11,854 figure is not for the year or two prior to the bankruptcy, but for the entire period of the illness, which may be many years or even decades. Finally, and most importantly, it is a mean and not a median. Just one truly catastrophic illness costing a total of $6 million over the course of any length of time would be enough to put the group’s mean at above $12,000, even if nobody else in the sample ever spent a dime on medical bills. It’s hard to see why a serious scholar would use the mean instead of the median if the point of the study is to demonstrate fairly that a large proportion of bankruptcies are caused by medical bills. Means don’t show that.

At least one of the authors ? Dr. Steffie Woolhandler, a Cambridge Hospital internist and associate professor of medicine at Harvard, makes it clear that she does indeed have an agenda ? health-care coverage that is universal and comprehensive. “Covering the uninsured isn’t enough. We must also upgrade and guarantee continuous coverage for those who have insurance,” she said in a statement. She went on to condemn employers and politicians who advocate what she called “stripped-down plans, so riddled with co-payments, deductibles and exclusions that serious illness leads straight to bankruptcy.”

But Dr. Woolhandler’s diagnostic skills leave something to be desired here. If medical debt is not the problem in these bankruptcies, more comprehensive health-care coverage is not the solution. Indeed, in some cases, it may even be counterproductive. For employers (and employees), coverage without deductibles and copayments will mean more expensive health-care coverage. Some may try to make up the difference by cutting corners on disability insurance or by hiring fewer employees. Will that in the long run lead to fewer bankruptcies? Or more? This study sheds no light on those questions. Only by torturing to data has Dr. Woolhandler made it appear that it does.

? Gail Heriot is a professor of law at the University of San Diego.

[quote]Professor X wrote:

I think you missed my point. You do realize there are poor people in this country, right? They do exist.
[/quote]

I concede. You state your point well.

JTF

You are welcome to start a new thread.

Your are off topic here.

[quote]Atreides wrote:
JTF

You are welcome to start a new thread.

Your are off topic here.[/quote]

No. No he’s not. JTF thinks everything is a conspiracy to make the president richer.

Keeping the poor poorer just means more money for Bush, and his black helicopter brigade.

He posts the same shit in every thread he joins, so it wouln’t really matter where he posted his TFH crap. To JTF it’s ALL the same subject.

What is “compensation spending” due to divorce?

Folks can always live within their budget, no matter how much they make. You just can’t keep up with the Jones’ which is where I think most people get into trouble.

As to divorce. Let me tell you as someone who has a lot of divorced male friends. Most of the laws are all in favor of the female, whether the couple has children or not. Divorced women don’t need anymore protection.

[quote]BostonBarrister wrote:
100meters wrote:
rainjack wrote:

That’s not entirely true. 50% of of the folks filing bankruptcy may have medical bills, but that is not the main source of their debt. I think BB has already refuted this falsehood once before.

So if we have a medical bill - do we recieve a ‘get out of debt free card’ too?

B.B. didn’t refute it, he simply put an article from Gail Heriot of the National Review on the board which misleads readers on the results of the study, For some reason Gail didn’t want National Review readers to know that medical reasons could prevent people from “working” which would be medical leading to bankrupty.

I’ve stayed out of this because I’ve decided to try to stay away from threads that just reiterate previous threads, but this isn’t correct 100meters.

My personal position is very similar to The Mage, as I think a lot of the reforms are good but without reforms aimed at the practices of credit-card companies and credit-reporting agencies the bill is incomplete and could even be counterproductive to the overall problem.

Now, as to the article, Heriot pointed out how the study was misleading because of how it used definitions that were significantly different from what most people would understand – specifically with regard to “medical situations.”

Here it is again, for your reading pleasure:

http://www.nationalreview.com/comment/heriot200502110735.asp

February 11, 2005, 7:35 a.m.
Misdiagnosed
A medical-bankruptcy study doesn?t live up to its billing.

By Gail Heriot

“Half of Bankruptcy Due to Medical Bills ? US Study.” ( http://wireservice.wired.com/wired/story.asp?section=Breaking&storyId=984336&tw=wn_wire_story ) At least so said the Reuters headline in last week’s story. And similar stories in newspapers across the country agree. Soon it will be repeated as gospel on Capitol Hill and by the chattering classes everywhere. Understandably, middle-class Americans have started to feel a little queasy about their health and about the adequacy of their health insurance.

The fundamental problem is that it isn’t true. Despite what the authors have encouraged us to believe, the Harvard study, entitled “Illness and Injuries As Contributors to Bankruptcy,” ( http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A9447-2005Feb8.html ) isn’t really about medical bills, crushing or otherwise. It’s about bankruptcies that can ? at least if you’re willing to stretch things a bit ? be classified as medically related. It finds that 54.5 percent of all bankruptcies have “a medical cause.” But “medical cause” is used as a term of art here. In fact, the study does not claim that injury or illness was the primary cause of those bankruptcies. And, perhaps more importantly, it does not claim that the bankruptcies were caused by the crush of medical bills.

Don’t get me wrong. Some bankruptcies are caused by crushing medical debt. But they aren’t half of all bankruptcies, and the only way to create the impression they are is to jimmy the figures. For example, the study classifies “uncontrolled gambling,” “drug addiction,” “alcohol addiction,” and the birth or adoption of a child as “a medical cause,” regardless of whether medical bills are involved. Yes, there may be situations in which a researcher might legitimately want to classify those conditions as “medical,” but a study that is being used to prove that Americans are going bankrupt as a result of crushing medical bills is not one of them. A father who has gambled away his family’s mortgage payment is not likely the victim of crushing medical bills. Similarly, new parents who find they can no longer afford their previous lifestyle now that one of them has to stay home with the baby will usually find the obstetrician’s bill the least of their problems. Babies are a financial hardship even when hospitals give them away free.

Maybe that’s why only 28.3 percent of the surveyed debtors themselves agreed with the authors that their bankruptcy was substantially caused by “illness or injury.” The rest put the blame elsewhere, even when the study labeled their problems as at least in part “medical.”

Buried in the study is the fact that only 27 percent of the surveyed debtors had unreimbursed medical expenses exceeding $1,000 over the course of the two years prior to their bankruptcy. Presumably 73 percent ? the vast majority ? had medical expenses during that two-year period of $1,000 or less. Had that figure been recited up front, it would have been obvious that the proportion of bankruptcies driven by unmanageable medical debt was nowhere near half.

Nobody likes to pay $1,000 in medical expenses even when they get two years to do it in, but for most Americans (particularly those with enough at stake to seek the protection of bankruptcy) it is not catastrophic. Indeed, for many families it is utterly routine. Something else is going on in the overwhelming majority of these bankruptcies, whether it’s gambling debt, drug or alcohol addiction, child care expenses, divorce, loss of a job, or just plain out-of-control spending. The authors’ decision to include any case in which the debtor had paid out more than $1000 in medical expenses in the course of two years as a bankruptcy with a “medical cause” is not just questionable. It’s downright misleading.

What would be significant for the public to know is how common the cases of bankruptcy due to crushing medical debt actually are ? debt in the range of $10,000 or more in single year. That, however, is something the study is careful not to disclose, even though the raw data behind the study would appear to be sufficient to make such computations possible. Instead, at every turn, the authors present the data in ways that encourage the reader to misidentify medical expenses as the leading cause of bankruptcy.

For example, at one point the reader is told that the mean out-of-pocket medical expenditure for an illness-related bankruptcy is $11,854. But this is not the average for the 54.5 percent of bankruptcies that the study holds to have “a medical cause;” it’s the average for the much smaller group (28.3 percent) in which the debtor agreed that illness and injury played a substantial role. And the $11,854 figure is not for the year or two prior to the bankruptcy, but for the entire period of the illness, which may be many years or even decades. Finally, and most importantly, it is a mean and not a median. Just one truly catastrophic illness costing a total of $6 million over the course of any length of time would be enough to put the group’s mean at above $12,000, even if nobody else in the sample ever spent a dime on medical bills. It’s hard to see why a serious scholar would use the mean instead of the median if the point of the study is to demonstrate fairly that a large proportion of bankruptcies are caused by medical bills. Means don’t show that.

At least one of the authors ? Dr. Steffie Woolhandler, a Cambridge Hospital internist and associate professor of medicine at Harvard, makes it clear that she does indeed have an agenda ? health-care coverage that is universal and comprehensive. “Covering the uninsured isn’t enough. We must also upgrade and guarantee continuous coverage for those who have insurance,” she said in a statement. She went on to condemn employers and politicians who advocate what she called “stripped-down plans, so riddled with co-payments, deductibles and exclusions that serious illness leads straight to bankruptcy.”

But Dr. Woolhandler’s diagnostic skills leave something to be desired here. If medical debt is not the problem in these bankruptcies, more comprehensive health-care coverage is not the solution. Indeed, in some cases, it may even be counterproductive. For employers (and employees), coverage without deductibles and copayments will mean more expensive health-care coverage. Some may try to make up the difference by cutting corners on disability insurance or by hiring fewer employees. Will that in the long run lead to fewer bankruptcies? Or more? This study sheds no light on those questions. Only by torturing to data has Dr. Woolhandler made it appear that it does.

? Gail Heriot is a professor of law at the University of San Diego.
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How am I wrong?
I posted the link to the graph. Ms. Heriot is misleading readers, by focusing on one cause, debt from medical bills. First of all 28.3 perent isn’t buried (the implication is that they’re being sneaky about it) And she doesn’t tell readers the other way medical reasons could effect a person’s fiscal responsibiity, A medical reason preventing somebody from working! Duh! Is it possible that somebody on a tight budget with a family misses a couple of paychecks could start a downward spiral, Yes! Does Ms Heriot know this? Of course! Does she bother to tell National Review readers the implications of this? No!

[quote]hedo wrote:
What is “compensation spending” due to divorce?

Folks can always live within their budget, no matter how much they make. You just can’t keep up with the Jones’ which is where I think most people get into trouble.

As to divorce. Let me tell you as someone who has a lot of divorced male friends. Most of the laws are all in favor of the female, whether the couple has children or not. Divorced women don’t need anymore protection.[/quote]

Hmmmm I smell a lack of life experience… Say you make $5/hour, how many hours do you have to work in order to feed yourself and 3 kids, plus pay the rent and buy clothing?

How is this poverty going to effect the children’s lives? Will they be able to befriend “good” kids, or will they be forced to socialize with kids from dope fiend families? How difficult will it be for them to avoid crime as they grow up. Your position is an easy one to have, if you’ve never been poor. If you HAVE been poor, don’t argue that if YOU could pull yourself out, everyone else should be able to as well. Christ, I was dirt poor when I was a child, and only by the grace of god am I where I am today. But I understand how some other people are unable to do the same.

As for women not needing protection, I disagree; it depends on the situation. If a household where the woman is encouraged not to work, or persue higher education, but rather be a housewife, how is she supposed to provide for herself after a divorce? In this situation, it is the man’s moral obligation (forget about legal) to continue to provide for her, since he is responsible for her inability to be self-sufficient. This is the issue feminists have been trying to bring attention to, andit is one of the few arguments feminists make that I agree with.

Also note that in some religions, providing for your wife after divorce is compulsary.

Personally, if I ever get married, my wife is working, end of story. It doesn’t matter if I make 300k a year, and she makes 10k, she’s working. Not for the money, but so that she can be fulfilled, have more social contact, and provide for herself if we ever got divorced.

A-

If you have never been married or knew someone who is divorced…might want to rethink that lack of experience line.

It is precisely because I have seen men ruined in thru divorce that I made those comments. I had a good friend who seriously contemplated suicide, because of the financial burdens imposed upon him in a divorce case.

Of course men should support their kids. They shouldn’t be considered criminals if they are unemployed and can’t afford to make a payment. As to supporting an able bodied woman. Please it’s 2005.

The thing you should realize about feminism…it’s not about equality. It’s about superiority. Those comments at the end of your post about what you and the future Mrs’s will do. Forget it. You will do what the court tells you if you ever get divorced.

I think that is what experience will teach you. I hope you don’t ever get divorced but I am sure you will come across it as you get older via family or friends. Believe me women are well protected in a divorce. If your a guy…your screwed.

[quote]Aleksandr wrote:

Hmmmm I smell a lack of life experience… Say you make $5/hour, how many hours do you have to work in order to feed yourself and 3 kids, plus pay the rent and buy clothing? [/quote]

Lack of experience? $5 is not even the federal minimum wage, and while politicians like to point out a specific number of Americans working for minimum wage, they never mention that practically all of them are teenagers.

Our local fast food restaurants don’t even start that low. My teenage daughter was making over $6 at Burger King. They paid more for day workers, i.e. the adults, who half of which happened to be retirees working more to stave off boredom then make money.

Oh no, those poor children. It is only luck isn’t it? Guess what, poverty is so lower then it was in the past, regardless of what you hear. I knew people in poverty in the late 80’s, and every single one of them had cable. And I knew people who worked the system like you wouldn’t believe. Housing was paid for, money every month, food stamps, while making money on the side. (Selling drugs/prostitution.)

During one Thanksgiving she called for help to a shelter in absolute tears, and got a free thanksgiving dinner. Plus two extra from two other shelters.

Is this all there was? No. My wife grew up next to this person. She grew up in poverty, along with her brothers and sister. Could they escape the poverty? If it is only luck, they were awfully lucky. A nurse living in a nice apartment, a Captain with a degree in Physics, and the youngest just joined the Navy, and has a degree in computer repair.

My wife has a degree, a certificate, and is certified with the American Board of Optometrics. Luck? Not a chance in hell.

And as far as the “good” kids, I knew a bunch not worth a damn at my school and town. It was always a choice not to deal with them, (unless you were their target that is) but they all had one thing in common, all their parents were fucked up in some way. One kid got caught breaking into a house, and his father was not angry with him for breaking into that house, because he was helping him and got caught too.

Also don’t get caught in the lie of expanding poverty. Even what they call poverty is an easier life then what the middle class had 30 or 40 years ago.

[quote]Aleksandr wrote:
Personally, if I ever get married, my wife is working, end of story. It doesn’t matter if I make 300k a year, and she makes 10k, she’s working. Not for the money, but so that she can be fulfilled, have more social contact, and provide for herself if we ever got divorced.[/quote]

And you’re lecturing hedo on ‘life experience’?

Are you going to make her work? Are you going to stand behind the ‘be fulfilled’ tripe?

How about you let your wife decide what she is going to do for herself?

What if she thinks that being a mom to her kids trumps a 10K job and fulltime daycare?

Dude - before you start telling everyone what you will, or will not make your wife do, try getting a job, and a girl-friend first. And then maybe you won’t be considered such a dumbass.

[quote]The Mage wrote:

Lack of experience? $5 is not even the federal minimum wage, and while politicians like to point out a specific number of Americans working for minimum wage, they never mention that practically all of them are teenagers.

Our local fast food restaurants don’t even start that low. My teenage daughter was making over $6 at Burger King. They paid more for day workers, i.e. the adults, who half of which happened to be retirees working more to stave off boredom then make money.
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This is in YOUR neighbourhood. Not everyone gets to work at the minimum wage…

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Oh no, those poor children. It is only luck isn’t it? Guess what, poverty is so lower then it was in the past, regardless of what you hear. I knew people in poverty in the late 80’s, and every single one of them had cable. And I knew people who worked the system like you wouldn’t believe. Housing was paid for, money every month, food stamps, while making money on the side. (Selling drugs/prostitution.) [/quote]

I don’t see a coherent argument here, but if you are saying that it doesn’t matter since there are fewer people in poverty, that makes no sense. The poor people are still poor, even if there are fewer of them. And do you think that the kids have any kind of fair shot if their parent are selling drugs or prostituting? You strengthen my point.

How did that happen? There must have been something in their family dynamic that allowed it, and I doubt she had much to do with it (her parent’s attitudes and beliefs, that is). She was lucky that she was born into that family. When I was a kid, my family received welfare. I experienced poverty, but my parents were both former university professors. I was lucky, my classmates weren’t. Today, my sister is an architect, and I am going into a field where the interquartile range is ~80-300k a year. I was lucky that my family valued education.

If that is how she feels, that’s too bad for her. I’m sure she worked her ass off, but she is lucky in many ways, and it is arrogant to assume otherwise.

[quote]100meters wrote:

How am I wrong?
I posted the link to the graph. Ms. Heriot is misleading readers, by focusing on one cause, debt from medical bills. First of all 28.3 perent isn’t buried (the implication is that they’re being sneaky about it) And she doesn’t tell readers the other way medical reasons could effect a person’s fiscal responsibiity, A medical reason preventing somebody from working! Duh! Is it possible that somebody on a tight budget with a family misses a couple of paychecks could start a downward spiral, Yes! Does Ms Heriot know this? Of course! Does she bother to tell National Review readers the implications of this? No![/quote]

The whole article is about the characterization of the phrase “a medical cause,” and the intent of the study’s authors to create a certain impression by their choice of terms and definitions.

There are two parts to that. First, there is the over-inclusive nature of the word “medical,” at least w/r/t most people’s common understanding of the term.

To quote: For example, the study classifies “uncontrolled gambling,” “drug addiction,” “alcohol addiction,” and the birth or adoption of a child as “a medical cause,” regardless of whether medical bills are involved.

To address your complaint, she actually does address the fact that the definition encompasses items beyond medical bills, but given the point of the article and the education level of the intended audience, I suppose she didn’t need to spell out the myriad of alternatives:

[i]…But “medical cause” is used as a term of art here. In fact, the study does not claim that injury or illness was the primary cause of those bankruptcies. And, perhaps more importantly, it does not claim that the bankruptcies were caused by the crush of medical bills.

Don’t get me wrong. Some bankruptcies are caused by crushing medical debt. But they aren’t half of all bankruptcies, and the only way to create the impression they are is to jimmy the figures. [/i]

And that actually gets to the second part, which is “cause.” While we can make all sorts of arguments about chain of causation, I believe that when the average person reads the claim that some percentage of bankruptcies have a “medical cause,” the cause that comes to mind is large medical bills. The point of the article was that large medical bills definitely do not account for that high of a percentage of bankruptcies.

You may argue that missed work is a “cause,” and for one end of the spectrum, long-term debilitating illness with no insurance, you’d be correct – on the other end of the spectrum, if missing a couple paychecks (also uninsured) pushes someone over the edge, I think attributing the “medical condition” as the primary cause, or even a major cause, is a misattribution (of course, if gambling addition is a “medical cause,” then that’s a whole new thing to think about, but come on…).