[quote]NorCal916 wrote:
Do rabbis believe in genital mutilation? [/quote]
If a clitoral hood is analogous to a foreskin (it is), and the cutting of either is to be considered “mutilation”, then yes. A bris is mutilation, and both rabbis and imams “believe in it” because God commands it. Female circumcision is not commanded in either Islam or Judaism: it is an Arab and African pre-Islamic cultural practice. Interestingly, in Kenya, the majority of girls who have full clitordectomies are Christian.
Yes. If a Muslim man and his wife get divorced, she becomes his ex-wife.
If they marry them, I imagine they are obliged to support them.
But seriously, folks…
NorCal, at what age do you consider a girl to no longer be a child?
Legally, a man may marry an “underage” (under 18) woman in every state of the union, provided her parents agree to the union.
Most states set the minimum age for girls to marry at 16, although it’s 15 in Georgia, Utah, New York and Hawaii, 14 in New Hampshire, North Carolina, Texas and Pennsylvania, with parental or judicial permission.
In Arizona, Colorado, Mississippi, and (ooh, looky here!) California, there is no minimum marriage age for marriage. Just like in Saudi Arabia, Sudan and Burma.
So yes, a Methodist man from Mississippi may legally marry a 13-year-old girl, provided both her parents and the church are okay with it.
Would the church forbid it? Well, looking at the Methodist Book of Discipline, paragraph 161F, we find the following passage:
"[i]We affirm that sexuality is God’s good gift to all persons. We call everyone to responsible stewardship of this sacred gift.
Although all persons are sexual beings whether or not they are married, sexual relations are affirmed only with the covenant of monogamous, heterosexual marriage.
We deplore all forms of the commercialization, abuse, and exploitation of sex. We call for strict global enforcement of laws prohibiting the sexual exploitation of children and for adequate protection, guidance, and counseling for abused children. All persons, regardless of age, gender, marital status, or sexual orientation, are entitled to have their human and civil rights ensured and to be protected against violence.[/i]"
So as long as the marriage was monogamous and heterosexual (as a marriage between one man and one girl would be), and judged by both parents and pastor to be neither commercial, abusive nor sexually exploitative, then yes, the Methodist creed would support such a union.