[quote]rds63799 wrote:
[quote]Aggv wrote:
Art museum is another good idea for a date[/quote]
oh no, disagree completely. You can’t talk! No opportunity for horseplay either[/quote]
What Art Museum you go to? Our in Houston has an area where kids can do some finger painting. Chicks dig painting with their boyfriends. My wife and I flirt and horseplay all the time at the Art Museum.
Any way there are naked paintings in the museum.
[quote]Aggv wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
[quote]Aggv wrote:
Art museum is another good idea for a date[/quote]
oh no, disagree completely. You can’t talk! No opportunity for horseplay either[/quote]
You can certianly have good conversation walking around there. Cant be hollering and messing about, but it’s a good time. Much better than sitting through a movie, and forcing bullshit conversation at dinner. [/quote]
I definitely like the art museum date, I think it’s a great place to have a conversation, and if things hit a lull you can always just talk whatever piece of art your looking at.
oh ok, I take it back then. I guess art galleries where I come from are just run by assholes
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
oh ok, I take it back then. I guess art galleries where I come from are just run by assholes[/quote]
They are just jealous you are getting some action.
For Another Thread.
rds63799 wants to ask out a girl that works at the Art Museum. How should he do it?
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
oh ok, I take it back then. I guess art galleries where I come from are just run by assholes[/quote]
They are just jealous you are getting some action.
For Another Thread.
rds63799 wants to ask out a girl that works at the Art Museum. How should he do it?[/quote]
I tried to start the thread, but the mods took it down. 
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
oh ok, I take it back then. I guess art galleries where I come from are just run by assholes[/quote]
They are just jealous you are getting some action.
For Another Thread.
rds63799 wants to ask out a girl that works at the Art Museum. How should he do it?[/quote]
I tried to start the thread, but the mods took it down. :([/quote]
Lol, you gotta admit, art museums kind of do cross a line…
[quote]Aggv wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
[quote]Aggv wrote:
Art museum is another good idea for a date[/quote]
oh no, disagree completely. You can’t talk! No opportunity for horseplay either[/quote]
You can certianly have good conversation walking around there. Cant be hollering and messing about, but it’s a good time. Much better than sitting through a movie, and forcing bullshit conversation at dinner. [/quote]
I too like Pulp Fiction…
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
oh ok, I take it back then. I guess art galleries where I come from are just run by assholes[/quote]
They are just jealous you are getting some action.
For Another Thread.
rds63799 wants to ask out a girl that works at the Art Museum. How should he do it?[/quote]
I tried to start the thread, but the mods took it down. :([/quote]
Lol, you gotta admit, art museums kind of do cross a line…[/quote]
Which line would that be? There are a ton of College aged interns working at those places.
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
oh ok, I take it back then. I guess art galleries where I come from are just run by assholes[/quote]
They are just jealous you are getting some action.
For Another Thread.
rds63799 wants to ask out a girl that works at the Art Museum. How should he do it?[/quote]
I tried to start the thread, but the mods took it down. :([/quote]
Lol, you gotta admit, art museums kind of do cross a line…[/quote]
Which line would that be? There are a ton of College aged interns working at those places.[/quote]
It was a joke…
I was just imagining a Mod saying “Hell, I gotta read this bullshit all day, but art museums? Hell no!”
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
oh ok, I take it back then. I guess art galleries where I come from are just run by assholes[/quote]
They are just jealous you are getting some action.
For Another Thread.
rds63799 wants to ask out a girl that works at the Art Museum. How should he do it?[/quote]
I tried to start the thread, but the mods took it down. :([/quote]
Lol, you gotta admit, art museums kind of do cross a line…[/quote]
Which line would that be? There are a ton of College aged interns working at those places.[/quote]
It was a joke…
I was just imagining a Mod saying “Hell, I gotta read this bullshit all day, but art museums? Hell no!”
[/quote]
That is funny right there. I could not believe they took it down. It was going to be epic, or I would have had my ass handed to me. You never know.
lol
I’m getting married soon. My days of asking out chicks have been over for a while.
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
lol
I’m getting married soon. My days of asking out chicks have been over for a while.
[/quote]
Well that makes it even more epic. Sorry I am having a laugh at your expense. Just really bored at work.
[quote]kpsnap wrote:
It’s so obvious but I’m going to say it anyways.
Whenever asking for advice, it makes sense to listen to those who have had success in what you’re trying to achieve. So if you’re looking to build a serious relationship, seek out advice from those who have had success in that arena.
[/quote]
So far, I think he is trying to get to know her and, if she is not unsufferable, to do the nasty with her.
Sooooo, who should he listen to?
Your whole setup feminizes man.
No, it is his job to get her into the bedroom, it is hers to get him into a relationship.
I am all for socially handicapping yourself, if done the right way (Misterys furry, furry, hat), but if you start wanting a relationship with a specific girl, have little dreams of what your grandchildren will look like and what not, 9 times out of 10 you will be punished mercylessly.
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
lol
I’m getting married soon. My days of asking out chicks have been over for a while.
[/quote]
Well that makes it even more epic. Sorry I am having a laugh at your expense. Just really bored at work.[/quote]
I know the pain of work related boredom my friend, I’m glad I can help 
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]kpsnap wrote:
It’s so obvious but I’m going to say it anyways.
Whenever asking for advice, it makes sense to listen to those who have had success in what you’re trying to achieve. So if you’re looking to build a serious relationship, seek out advice from those who have had success in that arena.
[/quote]
So far, I think he is trying to get to know her and, if she is not unsufferable, to do the nasty with her.
Sooooo, who should he listen to?
Your whole setup feminizes man.
No, it is his job to get her into the bedroom, it is hers to get him into a relationship.
I am all for socially handicapping yourself, if done the right way (Misterys furry, furry, hat), but if you start wanting a relationship with a specific girl, have little dreams of what your grandchildren will look like and what not, 9 times out of 10 you will be punished mercylessly. [/quote]
So you are lonely aren’t you Orion? I have been happily married for almost 14 years, and have loved every high and low during that time. Would not trade having a good marriage with any single guy EVER.
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]kpsnap wrote:
It’s so obvious but I’m going to say it anyways.
Whenever asking for advice, it makes sense to listen to those who have had success in what you’re trying to achieve. So if you’re looking to build a serious relationship, seek out advice from those who have had success in that arena.
[/quote]
So far, I think he is trying to get to know her and, if she is not unsufferable, to do the nasty with her.
Sooooo, who should he listen to?
Your whole setup feminizes man.
No, it is his job to get her into the bedroom, it is hers to get him into a relationship.
I am all for socially handicapping yourself, if done the right way (Misterys furry, furry, hat), but if you start wanting a relationship with a specific girl, have little dreams of what your grandchildren will look like and what not, 9 times out of 10 you will be punished mercylessly. [/quote]
So you are lonely aren’t you Orion? I have been happily married for almost 14 years, and have loved every high and low during that time. Would not trade having a good marriage with any single guy EVER.[/quote]
No, I am not lonely.
That, I learned from women.
If you are alone for long enough, it either breaks you or you get used to it.
Actually I prefer solitude, if you would define that as the absence of a “significant other”, I am not a hermit.
When I was sick and broke they wanted nothing to do with me, when I was well again they did, when I slipped again they no longer did and so further and so on…
So, its all conditional, is it?
I am a utility, am I?
Well then, if I am to be your rock, you are to be the light of my life.
I am not to show weakness or desperation (btw AC is right, never, ever show that), if I am to be strong and decisive in the face of adversity, if I am to be unfaced by your emotional turmoil, you better bring something to the table. *
And, whining, bitching and nagging are not female virtues.
Warmth, support and a certain emotional generosity in and out of the bedroom would be.
Hamsters have that.
At least female ones.
My experience on dating is severly limited. I was always the “awkward jacked guy” at parties who hung out in the corner, even when in the military.
I did, however, date a girl I met in a gym, many moons ago. The approach was thus:
Me: “Hi, my name is Moshe. I’ve seen you here, and you look pretty cool, but I have some questions to ask you.”
Her: Uh, Ok.
Me: “what do you do outside the gym?”
Her: “I’m a student at XYZ.”
Me: “No, I mean for fun.”
Her: “I read a lot and like to hike.”
Me: “Oh, good. Where do you like to hike?”
Her: "[insert name of place]:
Me: “what do you think about [certain political situation]?”
Her: “[she gives well-reasoned statement]”
Me: “Oh, thank G-d, you’re not [opposing political party]. Well, you ARE cool. I’d like to take you to have some coffee.”
Her: “Sure.”
And, yes, religous old Jewbacca banged her. First date.
And yes, Mrs. Jewbacca knows all about it. Thinks it is hillarious.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]kpsnap wrote:
It’s so obvious but I’m going to say it anyways.
Whenever asking for advice, it makes sense to listen to those who have had success in what you’re trying to achieve. So if you’re looking to build a serious relationship, seek out advice from those who have had success in that arena.
[/quote]
So far, I think he is trying to get to know her and, if she is not unsufferable, to do the nasty with her.
Sooooo, who should he listen to?
Your whole setup feminizes man.
No, it is his job to get her into the bedroom, it is hers to get him into a relationship.
I am all for socially handicapping yourself, if done the right way (Misterys furry, furry, hat), but if you start wanting a relationship with a specific girl, have little dreams of what your grandchildren will look like and what not, 9 times out of 10 you will be punished mercylessly. [/quote]
So you are lonely aren’t you Orion? I have been happily married for almost 14 years, and have loved every high and low during that time. Would not trade having a good marriage with any single guy EVER.[/quote]
No, I am not lonely.
That, I learned from women.
If you are alone for long enough, it either breaks you or you get used to it.
Actually I prefer solitude, if you would define that as the absence of a “significant other”, I am not a hermit.
When I was sick and broke they wanted nothing to do with me, when I was well again they did, when I slipped again they no longer did and so further and so on…
So, its all conditional, is it?
I am a utility, am I?
Well then, if I am to be your rock, you are to be the light of my life.
I am not to show weakness or desperation (btw AC is right, never, ever show that), if I am to be strong and decisive in the face of adversity, if I am to be unfaced by your emotional turmoil, you better bring something to the table. *
And, whining, bitching and nagging are not female virtues.
Warmth, support and a certain emotional generosity in and out of the bedroom would be.
Hamsters have that.
At least female ones.[/quote]
Even after all what you posted Orion, people still will just say “Thats just an excuse.”
[quote]Jewbacca wrote:
My experience on dating is severly limited. I was always the “awkward jacked guy” at parties who hung out in the corner, even when in the military.
I did, however, date a girl I met in a gym, many moons ago. The approach was thus:
Me: “Hi, my name is Moshe. I’ve seen you here, and you look pretty cool, but I have some questions to ask you.”
Her: Uh, Ok.
Me: “what do you do outside the gym?”
Her: “I’m a student at XYZ.”
Me: “No, I mean for fun.”
Her: “I read a lot and like to hike.”
Me: “Oh, good. Where do you like to hike?”
Her: "[insert name of place]:
Me: “what do you think about [certain political situation]?”
Her: “[she gives well-reasoned statement]”
Me: “Oh, thank G-d, you’re not [opposing political party]. Well, you ARE cool. I’d like to take you to have some coffee.”
Her: “Sure.”
And, yes, religous old Jewbacca banged her. First date.
And yes, Mrs. Jewbacca knows all about it. Thinks it is hillarious.[/quote]
LOL SINNER!!! That was a funny story!
So the OP has hope!!
[quote]orion wrote:
So, its all conditional, is it?[/quote]
The question isn’t whether or not all human relationships are conditional (well, the mother/child dynamic might not be), it’s where that line of unacceptability happens to be.
If women wanted to be with you when you were well but hit the road when you “slipped”, all that speaks to is the women you happened to associate yourself with. They dumped you when you went broke just like you would’ve dumped them if they got fat or had a 30-dog train run on them while you were posting your PUA dissertation on the internet. It’s simply the byproduct of the conditional nature of your relationship; find higher quality people (at least, those whose conditions dovetail with your own seem to be – e.g., those who place a higher value on loyalty than on what car you pick them up in) and see what happens.
I wouldn’t want to be with someone who loves me “unconditionally” because I feel that it shows a lack of self-respect, critical thinking and emotional maturity. I don’t love without any conditions because I am not a sucker looking to get taken advantage of.