What da hell?! Arcades are awesome, bro!
You can do flirty high five shit and whatnot.
But I like the zoo idea also. Especially if they have lions!!!
[quote]Rico Suave wrote:
[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:
[quote]anonym wrote:
[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:
An arcade may be a bad idea as she will be evaluating his level of maturity. [/quote]
Agreed. Exposing your personality to your romantic interest is like getting into a pool of unknown water temperature: you test the waters with your toes, ease into it holding onto the handrails, brace yourself for the final head dunk, and then be sure to urinate while swimming to obviate the chance of someone detecting the slight discoloration building up around your crotch.[/quote]
LMAO!
I would never go to an arcade anyways, why would I take a woman there?
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why would you not take a woman there? Scared to find out that she might like video games? DAMN!
I went out on a date to playdium (an arcade place) and we BOTH had a great time. I couldn’t care less where I took a girl…the only reason for the date is to spend time with HER and not at the destination. [/quote]
I run playdium. Square one is on my commute to University so I’m there pretty frequently.
As for the pool analogy, I find it’s best to dive right in. I find that exposing yourself layer by layer is a lot of work, and makes the entire thing unnecessarily complicated. If you’re a person that likes the arcade, find a person who likes the arcade.
[quote]IFlashBack wrote:
[quote]Rico Suave wrote:
[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:
[quote]anonym wrote:
[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:
An arcade may be a bad idea as she will be evaluating his level of maturity. [/quote]
Agreed. Exposing your personality to your romantic interest is like getting into a pool of unknown water temperature: you test the waters with your toes, ease into it holding onto the handrails, brace yourself for the final head dunk, and then be sure to urinate while swimming to obviate the chance of someone detecting the slight discoloration building up around your crotch.[/quote]
LMAO!
I would never go to an arcade anyways, why would I take a woman there?
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why would you not take a woman there? Scared to find out that she might like video games? DAMN!
I went out on a date to playdium (an arcade place) and we BOTH had a great time. I couldn’t care less where I took a girl…the only reason for the date is to spend time with HER and not at the destination. [/quote]
I run playdium. Square one is on my commute to University so I’m there pretty frequently.
As for the pool analogy, I find it’s best to dive right in. I find that exposing yourself layer by layer is a lot of work, and makes the entire thing unnecessarily complicated. If you’re a person that likes the arcade, find a person who likes the arcade.
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That’s the only one I’ve been to…the one beside s1. There’s one in Milton now too…but it’s 1/10th of the size and 1/10th the fun. Completely different ballgame I guess.
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
take her to the zoo!
The zoo is a very underrated place for dates.[/quote]
This^ if she doesnt like animals, then she sucks at life. Something where you can walk around and have something to talk about. Dinner and movie is the lamest idea for a date, you’re sitting in silence during the movie, and dinner has lots of potential for awkwardness if you’re not comfortable with her yet.
[quote]tnationer wrote:
I know T-Nation loves these threads so I thought I would add to GAL.
have another acct but wanted to make another one.
cliffnotes: Asking out older chick at gym
-im 21
-girl is 23 or could be 24 going on 25
-we’ve only talked twice briefly
-she’s newly single
my plan of action is to just go up to her and be really forward with her. Ask if I could take her out sometime for a drink. Like I’ve said we have talked very briefly and I know she just became single because someone told me. Figure its my time. She is older but from what I have heard about her I like. we dont go at the same time so I never have much time to start a convo and I go to the gym to lift not socialize so this will be a first.
Anybody here ever ask out an older girl at the gym?
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Don’t get your meat where you pound your meat.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
What da hell?! Arcades are awesome, bro!
You can do flirty high five shit and whatnot.
But I like the zoo idea also. Especially if they have lions!!![/quote]
So you’re a dating expert now? 
I don’t play video games. Nor do I need emotional crutches or distractions to have a conversation with a woman.
I know this may seem like I’m going on a limb here. Talking to women really does work.
Imagine that crazy chit!?
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
What da hell?! Arcades are awesome, bro!
You can do flirty high five shit and whatnot.
But I like the zoo idea also. Especially if they have lions!!![/quote]
zoos are great for dates. Anytime there’s a lull in the conversation you can just talk about the animals.
I roared at a lion once and it roared back.
I also stroked an armadillo and it danced.
I love zoos
[quote]Aggv wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
take her to the zoo!
The zoo is a very underrated place for dates.[/quote]
This^ if she doesnt like animals, then she sucks at life. Something where you can walk around and have something to talk about. Dinner and movie is the lamest idea for a date, you’re sitting in silence during the movie, and dinner has lots of potential for awkwardness if you’re not comfortable with her yet. [/quote]
my thoughts exactly. Going out for dinner is not good for a first date. Do something fun like the zoo first, then go for drink, then cook her dinner. Girls love it when you cook dinner
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
take her to the zoo!
The zoo is a very underrated place for dates.[/quote]
Yup, I do that.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
What da hell?! Arcades are awesome, bro!
You can do flirty high five shit and whatnot.
But I like the zoo idea also. Especially if they have lions!!![/quote]
Lions and tiger and elephants, oh my!!!
Zoos are awesome.
I hope you bang her, bro
zoo’s smell like shit, there are lots of obnoxious kids, and sad looking animals in cages…
tnationer, did you score or get shot down? Inquiring minds want to know.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
take her to the zoo!
The zoo is a very underrated place for dates.[/quote]
Yup, I do that. [/quote]
you take girls for dates? I thought you would just spit on them and call them bitches, thus making them go wild for your SMV
[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:
zoo’s smell like shit, there are lots of obnoxious kids, and sad looking animals in cages…
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while there are kids, and the smell of shit; it’s to be expected at the ZOO…
as far as it being an animal prison… yeah, it basically is; but they have a easier/longer life in the zoo.
Art museum is another good idea for a date
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
take her to the zoo!
The zoo is a very underrated place for dates.[/quote]
Yup, I do that. [/quote]
you take girls for dates? I thought you would just spit on them and call them bitches, thus making them go wild for your SMV[/quote]
But I cant do that if they dont want to see me.
Its a matter of logistics really.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
take her to the zoo!
The zoo is a very underrated place for dates.[/quote]
Yup, I do that. [/quote]
you take girls for dates? I thought you would just spit on them and call them bitches, thus making them go wild for your SMV[/quote]
But I cant do that if they dont want to see me.
Its a matter of logistics really.
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lol, fair point
[quote]Aggv wrote:
Art museum is another good idea for a date[/quote]
oh no, disagree completely. You can’t talk! No opportunity for horseplay either
[quote]rds63799 wrote:
[quote]Aggv wrote:
Art museum is another good idea for a date[/quote]
oh no, disagree completely. You can’t talk! No opportunity for horseplay either[/quote]
You can certianly have good conversation walking around there. Cant be hollering and messing about, but it’s a good time. Much better than sitting through a movie, and forcing bullshit conversation at dinner.