I’m… VERY hesitant to offer advice on this.
But I’ll start by asking @roscoe88. Aside from this current standing in your relationship, may I ask how your relationship was over the course of the 3 years you guys had been with eachother? Any patterns you noticed? Any times she’s expressed help from you? Any times you can pinpoint where both you and her could’ve done better In helping one another in the relationship?