MattyG35: Yea man, on this insert it was as many reps as possible in the given time limit. And no man, I have never tried doing good mornings like. I’ll have to give them a shot. Thanks for the suggestion!
Redfive: They are good man but go light on them and make sure your form doesn’t fail or the risk of hurting yourself goes way up. Great job with today’s workout man!
Regev: Nah man, no rotator cuff work. If my shoulders start bothering me I will do some dumbbell external rotations, otherwise what I am writing is all that I am doing.
I haven’t been posting many rants lately because I haven’t really been writing them. I HAVE been writing some articles for a few websites (I’ll post one below) but my rants don’t go over very well with the general fitness population. Even here at T-Nation I have gotten a decent amount of negative feedback about them.
As far as me stopping this log…Well, I will stop when it is not fun anymore and/or when my outlook no longer fits the site. I really don’t even go into any other forums other than the “training log” section because there is just too much negativity. I like this section because it is more about people putting in the work and encouraging each other… Keeping this thing up the way I do takes up a decent amount of time (that I am in short supply of) but I continue to do it because I like to help people out who have a similar mindset and goals. I learn so much from a lot of individuals on here and I’d like to stay around as long as I still have interest in logging and people are interested in what I do. Seeing people push themselves and hearing how I played a very small part it in really keeps me going.
Anyway, here is an article that I recently wrote. Not as much of a rant as some of my earlier stuff, but you will hopefully get the idea that I was trying to convey.
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I get asked very often by people about how to get into better shape, how to reach the next level or how to get started in a certain field. I smile graciously and spout out whatever advice I can, but both of us in this conversation know that no matter what I say, REAL change will most likely not happen. Usually, I start explaining the amount of sacrifice it takes to reach the goals they wish to achieve, but at seemingly every step, the individual (either mentally or audibly) is giving excuses for why it is impossible for them to achieve these goals in their particular situation. Excuses about jobs, family, or money are always right at the top of their list.
See, most people are stuck. Not particularly stuck in the reality of their own situations but rather, they are stuck in a mindset. Sometimes, in order to break out of that paradigm of thought you need to find other individuals that have already overcame similar situations and figure out how they did it. If you can see yourself in the above given example, I propose this:
Run with a pack of wolves instead of a flock of sheep.
Wolves are the ones out there hunting, making opportunities happen. They may be just as hungry as you are, but rather than waiting to be fed they are restlessly pursuing?spending day after day, night after night searching, working, until they finally catch what they were looking for and eat their fill.
Sheep are waiting for life to happen. Wolves force life to happen.
Sheep people are terrible creatures in that, when they see a person trying to better themselves or see another achieving some level of stature that they themselves have not yet reached; they do not build that individual up and encourage them, rather, they try to pull them back down to their own level so that they themselves can feel better about their failures.
Sheep will only hold you back and quench every bit of fire you have left in your soul.
You really need to do yourself a favor and cut those people out of your life. They are extremely needy beings and if you truly want to succeed, you will have enough on your plate without carrying their baggage as well.
No matter what your chosen field may be – chess, weight lifting, writing, Jiu-Jitsu, anything…find individuals who are excellent at what you love and start hanging around them. These people are the wolves. Show them what level you are at, check your pride at the door, and ask them for ways to improve. Listen and apply their advice. Give each step a genuine attempt before shooting it down with your preconceived notions and excuses. They have already been where you are and overcame the exact same obstacles you are facing. Surround yourself with excellence and soon you will find your own skills rising to the levels around you.
I recently heard a story about a 30 year old man who wanted to get into the field of stand-up comedy. He was giving excuses about how he, “Had missed his window” and that if he had just gotten into comedy in the early 90’s that he would already be well on his way. The mentor he said this to (who just happens to be one of the top comics in the world today) told him about an open mic night in LA every Tuesday. The mentor explained that aspiring comics get to the venue at 9 AM and wait in line until 11 PM just for a POSSIBLE 5 minute opportunity at their dream. The guy quickly started offering up reasons why that wasn’t an option for him. The mentor responded with, “Then I guess you just don?t want it bad enough.”
What this guy couldn’t comprehend is this: The line he wasn’t willing to wait in, simply doesn’t care about his problems.
Take a real hard look at yourself and what you want out of life. Time won’t wait…it doesn’t care - it isn’t going to slow down for you, the weights aren’t getting lighter…they don’t care if you lift them or not, your opposition isn’t getting any easier… They don’t care about your problems ?That line didn’t care? the excuses and circumstances you are creating in your mind are not going to change. EVER. They themselves are going to be exactly who they are, regardless of whether you choose to overcome them this day or not.
The only thing that you can change in this equation is you. Stop blaming the line.
You can choose to turn from a challenge like this just like the aspiring comic did and run back to your comfortable flock of sheep where you will continue your existence as the proverbial big fish in a little pond; but maybe… just maybe, you should push all of your chips forward, jump in line with some of the wolves, and take some control over your life.
We live in a society of sheep people that reward mediocrity and preach that everyone should stay in line – That the only wise thing to do is forget about your dreams, quit the thought of any type of foolish competition and adopt moderation as a religion?work a 9 to 5 job every day for 30 years until you finally reach the “dream” of sitting on your couch watching the game show network all day long, just waiting for the kids to call… Living birthday to birthday until you die.
That is a safe, “happy” life?
But if this day, you choose to make choices instead of excuses… surround yourself with greatness… lay it all on the line and sacrifice all that you currently are so that you can realize the true greatness inside of you?well, then you my friend, have become a wolf. And you can gladly run with my pack any day.
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