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[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
So what do you think brain boy only 1% of people cheat? Yeah all stats do is give us a vague picture of reality so what?[/quote]

Well according to your words and the site you linked over half of both men and women cheat at some point, that “vague picture” looks pretty shitty. You tellin me over 100 million people (I don’t know the actual numbers) of Americans have cheated at some point in their life?

No I don’t think it’s 1% and I never said that. I’t probably 20-30 although I’d love to actually see DATA on the subject.

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[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]flipcollar wrote:

Love isn’t proven by apologies, it’s proven by not committing acts that require apologies.[/quote]

If love were based on not committing acts that require apologies many of us would be in BIG trouble…and often love is proven by apologies. It is very difficult to swallow your pride and apologize, but many of us do it for love.

[/quote]

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http://quickfacts.census.gov/qfd/states/00000.html

There are about 240 million adults (over 18) and 55.5% of men & women (that’s called an average) cheat so approx. 133.2 Million Americans have at one time cheated.

Seriously?

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Whatever DD you know me about as well as you know my taint… I never admitted to anything or denied anything I just pointed out that people cheat. My biggest point which you want to dismiss is no-one wants to be in a relationship where there partner is constitally up their ass. Unless its consentual ass play in which its ok.

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[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
Whatever DD you know me about as well as you know my taint… I never admitted to anything or denied anything I just pointed out that people cheat. My biggest point which you want to dismiss is no-one wants to be in a relationship where there partner is constitally up their ass. Unless its consentual ass play in which its ok.[/quote]

You are flip flopping. Earlier, you were talking about forgiving and forgetting cheating as not a big deal. Now it’s just the monitoring that’s the problem?

No one is addressing the snooping, because that really isn’t what the thread is about. Things are already known and out in the open. And nothing apparently inappropriate or overbearing was done to find them out.

So, are you a cheater? Are you okay with your wife cheating?

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[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
So what do you think brain boy only 1% of people cheat? Yeah all stats do is give us a vague picture of reality so what?[/quote]

Well according to your words and the site you linked over half of both men and women cheat at some point, that “vague picture” looks pretty shitty. You tellin me over 100 million people (I don’t know the actual numbers) of Americans have cheated at some point in their life?

No I don’t think it’s 1% and I never said that. I’t probably 20-30 although I’d love to actually see DATA on the subject. [/quote]

I found it!!! Acording to Fox news my personal fav for fair and balanced info the fact checkers their claim 70% of married men cheat & 50-60% of married women cheat. I find it hard to believe the good folks at Fox news didnt do a hefty amount of research

http://magazine.foxnews.com/love/cheating-statistics-do-men-cheat-more-women

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Had a fun time following this so far, might just lurk behind this one and ride the funny wave whenever it comes.

Is Jay Anderson a little over 50? Say 51 or 52? Most likely 51?

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[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
So what do you think brain boy only 1% of people cheat? Yeah all stats do is give us a vague picture of reality so what?[/quote]

Well according to your words and the site you linked over half of both men and women cheat at some point, that “vague picture” looks pretty shitty. You tellin me over 100 million people (I don’t know the actual numbers) of Americans have cheated at some point in their life?

No I don’t think it’s 1% and I never said that. I’t probably 20-30 although I’d love to actually see DATA on the subject. [/quote]

I found it!!! Acording to Fox news my personal fav for fair and balanced info the fact checkers their claim 70% of married men cheat & 50-60% of married women cheat. I find it hard to believe the good folks at Fox news didnt do a hefty amount of research

http://magazine.foxnews.com/love/cheating-statistics-do-men-cheat-more-women[/quote]

Another just aweful link.

Where are these studies at?

  1. Author has been cheated on, POV is jaded right off the bat.

  2. “About 70 percent of married men admitted to cheating on their wives! Another study found that 2/3 of women are not aware of their husband’s affair. I can relate to that â?? It took a long time until I found out myself â?? when I decided to check his phone.”

Where do these numbers come from?

3.“Most statistics found that about 50 to 60 percent of women admitted to having an affair.”

Most stats, where do all these stats come from?

4.“An interesting study, published on 2005, has some answers to this question”

Seriously, published on 2005, the fuck does that mean…

And no I’m not suprised Fox has it’s name on this. It is garbage.

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[quote]pat wrote:

[quote]T-Raven wrote:

[quote]pat wrote:

Do you know if other dude is married? A call to his wife may be prudent. If you have that resource. Hell, give me his name and general local, and I could find out more about him than you ever wanted to know.

His name is Jay Anderson and he lives in Gray GA. Works for Southern Company as a Safety Engineer. He said he is divorced, but who kmows.[/quote]

On it…

This prick?
http://www.linkedin.com/pub/jay-anderson/62/11b/b04[/quote]

He couldn’t have a more generic name like John Smith?? lol…
Anyhoo, you are going to have more access to your wifes shit than I do, so what it’s going to take is logging on to her facebook and whatever social media. If you are in her computer profile it should not be a problem and should autolog you in. Even in many cases it will pull the google account and log it.

If she had her own profile, then as an admin just go change her password and get into her profile. Then the world should open to you.
People aren’t often aware how much of a trail they actually leave behind. Once you get in, you should be able to see all conversations and all the interactions she had. A lot of times delete conversations go into a recycle bin, they don’t evaporate. So look at everything deleted. Go to the dark corners.
The conversations with her girl friends will tell you more than conversations with him…

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^66% of women don’t know their spouse is cheating on them even though 70% of men cheat…GTFO.

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Here is an actual study I found:

Almost one-quarter of men (23.2%) and 19.2% ofwomen indicated that they had ??cheated?? during their current relationship

http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/publications/PDF/Infidelity%20in%20hetero%20couples.pdf

It’s a small sample and it’s current relationship, but still the numbers aren’t anywhere near 70% for men…

I don’t have time to read the whole thing.

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[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
^66% of women don’t know their spouse is cheating on them even though 70% of men cheat…GTFO.[/quote]

That’s got to be a bullshit stat. 70%? No way. Anecdotally, I don’t see that AT ALL. Now I just may not know or be totally oblivious, which is possible, but that’s really, really high and I just don’t believe it.

Men have to work at getting laid, so unless they are actively chasing tale, they are seldom duped into it. So that would imply that most of those 70% want to cheat. That’s the hard part for me. I have known cheaters of course, but they go after it. Dudes who just do what they do, do not get into a situation where they find themselves accidentally cheating.

Chicks, if they look decent, can pretty much fuck who they want, when they want, if that’s what they are looking to do. So it’s much more difficult for a dude to cheat, because he has to do shit to get it. Women just have to exist, not look like shit and not smell too bad and it will come to them.

I guess the part I don’t believe is that many men actively try to cheat. I know lots of married dudes and I don’t see that seeking behavior in most of them. Ironically, it’s salesman who show that behavior.
Hey Maybe I am naive… I may be that dumb, but I tend not to underestimate people and I still have a hard time with that stat.

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There is no way Fox news could be wrong I need to smoke some of your shit it must be the bomb… All kidding aside no matter what I find and post unless it fits the mold for what you want to belive you will dissmiss it anyhow. who really knows how many people cheat but its Sounds like somewhere between 40-60%

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[quote]pat wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
^66% of women don’t know their spouse is cheating on them even though 70% of men cheat…GTFO.[/quote]

That’s got to be a bullshit stat. 70%? No way. Anecdotally, I don’t see that AT ALL. Now I just may not know or be totally oblivious, which is possible, but that’s really, really high and I just don’t believe it.

Men have to work at getting laid, so unless they are actively chasing tale, they are seldom duped into it. So that would imply that most of those 70% want to cheat. That’s the hard part for me. I have known cheaters of course, but they go after it. Dudes who just do what they do, do not get into a situation where they find themselves accidentally cheating.

Chicks, if they look decent, can pretty much fuck who they want, when they want, if that’s what they are looking to do. So it’s much more difficult for a dude to cheat, because he has to do shit to get it. Women just have to exist, not look like shit and not smell too bad and it will come to them.

I guess the part I don’t believe is that many men actively try to cheat. I know lots of married dudes and I don’t see that seeking behavior in most of them. Ironically, it’s salesman who show that behavior.
Hey Maybe I am naive… I may be that dumb, but I tend not to underestimate people and I still have a hard time with that stat. [/quote]

I think some people think real life is like porno. Like women just rip their clothes off and beg for cock in the grocery store, your cubicle, chuch, jail, the zoo, etc…

It’s absurd. I can think of 1 maybe 2 people I know that have cheated while being in a REAL relationship, not some HS bull shit, real. Certainly 70% of the men I know aren’t cheating. Hell 70 % of the men I know have to work to get laid while IN a relationship…

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[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
There is no way Fox news could be wrong I need to smoke some of your shit it must be the bomb… All kidding aside no matter what I find and post unless it fits the mold for what you want to belive you will dissmiss it anyhow. who really knows how many people cheat but its Sounds like somewhere between 40-60%[/quote]

If you provide something with real data I would absolutely consider it. However, no I don’t put stock in websites with no backing what so ever. Or angry blogs even on Fox News.

My guess is 20-25% is much closer to reality. It also depends on exactly what the parameters are. Are we counting 17 year olds that kiss a girl while is gf is at band camp? I certainly wouldn’t, but susan rotten crotch from Fox probably would.

Married cheating is also probably lower like 15-20% is my guess.

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[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
I think some people think real life is like porno. Like women just rip their clothes off and beg for cock in the grocery store, your cubicle, chuch, jail, the zoo, etc…

It’s absurd.[/quote]
Sonofabitch…

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[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:

[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
Whatever DD you know me about as well as you know my taint… I never admitted to anything or denied anything I just pointed out that people cheat. My biggest point which you want to dismiss is no-one wants to be in a relationship where there partner is constitally up their ass. Unless its consentual ass play in which its ok.[/quote]

You are flip flopping. Earlier, you were talking about forgiving and forgetting cheating as not a big deal. Now it’s just the monitoring that’s the problem?

No one is addressing the snooping, because that really isn’t what the thread is about. Things are already known and out in the open. And nothing apparently inappropriate or overbearing was done to find them out.

So, are you a cheater? Are you okay with your wife cheating?[/quote]

When did I say anything about it not being a big deal or just forget about it? I just said it happens at what I believe is a fairly high rate in both men and women & that I think many hear may be a bit hypocritical

I dont think Im a cheater… In regards to wifey no but it depends on what you consider cheating… Thats a very broad term some may think watching porn is cheating while others may think Ass 2 mouth 2 vag is ok as long as they arent in love

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Off the top of my head, I’d probably say about 20% of the girls I’ve known (including those I’ve dated) have cheated in the past. Probably higher if we consider “emotional cheating”. I’d also say about 15% of the guys I’ve known have cheated.

But there’s plenty of bias in both those numbers, based entirely on the people I know and how I know them.

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[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:

[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:

[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
Whatever DD you know me about as well as you know my taint… I never admitted to anything or denied anything I just pointed out that people cheat. My biggest point which you want to dismiss is no-one wants to be in a relationship where there partner is constitally up their ass. Unless its consentual ass play in which its ok.[/quote]

You are flip flopping. Earlier, you were talking about forgiving and forgetting cheating as not a big deal. Now it’s just the monitoring that’s the problem?

No one is addressing the snooping, because that really isn’t what the thread is about. Things are already known and out in the open. And nothing apparently inappropriate or overbearing was done to find them out.

So, are you a cheater? Are you okay with your wife cheating?[/quote]

When did I say anything about it not being a big deal or just forget about it? I just said it happens at what I believe is a fairly high rate in both men and women & that I think many hear may be a bit hypocritical

I dont think Im a cheater… In regards to wifey no but it depends on what you consider cheating… Thats a very broad term some may think watching porn is cheating while others may think Ass 2 mouth 2 vag is ok as long as they arent in love
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“thehebrewhero wrote:
For the most part this thread is a bunch of self serving moral bull shit… Like you guys dont stray from the path and eat at another buffet every now and then. Or for that matter have cheated… Men cheat and so do women get the fuck over it… As long as you love each other a little strange now and then may be a good thing…For a site thats supossed to be a bunch of Testosterone fueled dudes their sure is a bunch of soft ass bitches on here.”

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[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
I think some people think real life is like porno. Like women just rip their clothes off and beg for cock in the grocery store, your cubicle, chuch, jail, the zoo, etc…

It’s absurd.[/quote]
Sonofabitch…[/quote]

Not in Tennessee though. They def do that in Tennessee, I’m sure of it.