@bmbrady77 Well I sat her down and she’s making excuses and working her way into victim mode every time I bring up the subject.
She is saying I did things that she’s mad about… yeah from Thanks giving … I was eating before dinner after a hard bike ride: she called me a wonderful asshole and dickhead for eating 4 hours before dinner… I responded with a what the fuck woman…
Now months later I’m reaping her vengeance… this is sick behavior right! Resentments.
I’m jumping ship fellas. I shouldn’t feel like I’m being used or held hostage over sex right? I get nothing for being in this marriage but receipts for vacations . How can someone stay mad at their husband or wife for something that wasn’t even their fault.
I’m at peace with What happens next: I see you guys having healthy relationships and it makes me realize how bad of a state my relationship is in.
I feel these These discussions saved me years of hell.
Well I can promise you that dinner is not the issue brother. It kind of sounds like you’ve got a plan already formulated in your mind as to what you feel your options are. All I can tell you is if you’re thinking like this…
And she’s not going to open up enough to tell you what’s really going on…
You just have to do what you feel is right man. If you did all you can do…I by that I mean…if you can look at yourself in the mirror and not feel shame, and you can lay your head on your pillow tonight and know that you have no regrets…then I hate it for you brother but it’s time to take another step.
She she she. That she woman. Damnit.
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HYes you are right my friend. I think that’s why I’ve waited 2 years. Can’t jsut throw in the towel because you have a few bad months. I think it’s healhier for a couple to separate when you get to a point where nothing works. Shit we might be better friends than lovers. Because damn do we suck at loving
