[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]ephrem wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]ephrem wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
Uh, well that’s rather arbitrary but ok.[/quote]
…yes, it is arbitrary, but i don’t know of any other way to come to real understanding of what is right and what is wrong if it’s not through trial and error. A normal, levelheaded person should be able to grasp the obvious, but in those cases where the line between right and wrong is diffuse, you can’t really know where you stand unless you made a choice…
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Right and wrong are not arbitrary. You are looking at behaviors as they partain to their effects on other people. But what does “right” actually mean? What does “wrong” actually mean? Not what does it look like when acted upon, but what does it actually mean…Their words we use, but understand little.[/quote]
…just like morality is relative, right and wrong are arbitrary. What is right and what is wrong is taught to us by our parents; it’s a concept designed to maintain a base level of civility. Killing other humans is wrong, except in war and self defense. Cannabalism is wrong, except when the flesh of already dead humans is the only thing to eat when you’re starving…
…so basically: what is right is what good for the tribe, and what is wrong is what has negative consequences for the tribe. “Tribe” in this case is family, work, country whatever…
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That is called utilitarianism. A good act is one which is beneficial to the most people despite what it does to the minority. Hitler was a utilitarian. He thought getting rid of a few undesirables would benefit the world at large. However, it is unlikely that anyone considers his actions “right” even if they would have been beneficial to greater society. So no morality is not relative. Things are good or bad, right or wrong, period. Cannabalism isn’t bad if you need to survive, but it is bad to kill someone just to eat them.
Let’s take an example we can all agree on, is there ever a circumstance where raping a baby could be a “good” act? If morality is relative, such a scenario is possible. But it is not, so IT is not. [/quote]
…i agree with you that when children are involved things become right and wrong instantly, there can be no discussion about that…
…we all do, or have done, things we know are wrong but justify that behaviour in some way. The mass murder of Jews by the nazi’s was wrong, but so was the carpet bombing of Dresden, yet that atrocity was justifiable somehow…
…i believe slavery is wrong, yet there was a time in history that slavery was perfectly fine, especially in biblical times. How do you justify that? When your divine moral yardstick says it’s a sin to kill another human being, but orders his believers to kill their enemies, how do you justify that?
…there is a wide spectrum where on one end there is wrong and on the other there is right. In the middle lies a huge grey area where things aren’t clear. It’s this grey area we have to deal with every day, and how we deal with this grey area is something we have to decide for ourselves…