2 vs 1 Road Rage Fight

Posturing, chin thrusting chest bumping, arm waving etc. is mostly all about social dominance and has jack to do with actual fighting (although it can lead there). I think Irish may have quoted someone who referred to it as the monkey dance, and I think that’s pretty accurate.

Animals generally try to avoid getting into real “I’m going to kill/cripple you” fights with there own species. It has no survival advantage as the “winner” will often be too severely injured to survive in the long run. Social dominance ritual combat allows them to fight over food, territory, status and potential mates without usually doing any meaningful harm. This should be obsolete for humans, but apparently it isn’t.

Unfortunately doing smart things like managing your distance, staying small and mobile, keeping your open hands up and between you and the other guy while remaining passive and non-confrontational and giving the other guy an out that will allow him to save face until if and when you decide it’s go time does not seem badass. Instead one must stand square to the guy, right in his face arms splayed, chest out, chin forward daring him to do something about it. For many, it’s hard on the ego not to engage in that whole dance. Also, in certain “street” circles the ability to back somebody down without resorting to real violence is a necessary survival skill. I suggest not associating with these circles.

Like Rich said, most people who do this crap don’t usually really want to fight in any serious way, at least not immediately. However there are definite exceptions to this and some guys will do the posturing thing to cloak their real intentions while picking there moment to do you real harm.

[quote]Whelanj wrote:
So your saying that Langston Hughes didn’t beet the crap out of five hoodlums and “earn the right to the streets of Harlem” as his autobiography clearly states? Are you calling the most powerful poetic voice of the Harlem Renaissance a liar? I mean I can understand doubting all the instances of of this sort of thing in the Bible, but do you really think it’s an urban legend that Bas Rutten was arrested in Sweden for beating up a group of bouncers? [/quote]

Yes, he’s a liar.

And a jerk.

[quote]Whelanj wrote:
So your saying that Langston Hughes didn’t beet the crap out of five hoodlums and “earn the right to the streets of Harlem” as his autobiography clearly states? Are you calling the most powerful poetic voice of the Harlem Renaissance a liar? I mean I can understand doubting all the instances of of this sort of thing in the Bible, but do you really think it’s an urban legend that Bas Rutten was arrested in Sweden for beating up a group of bouncers? [/quote]

Hey man can you explain what you are talking about please? Seems like you’ve just come and said this out of nowhere?

Why are you referring to the Bible and Bas Rutten?

Your post does not make sense.

To comment on pink shirt guy, this story surfaced on the front page of Yahoo a few days ago and apparently he won his last road rage fight (the cops were looking for him when he failed to show up in court for that). According to the guy he beat up in his last road rage brawl, he claims to be on a secret mission from the FBI to save millions of American lives. So he sort of has combat experience? Lol :stuck_out_tongue:

[quote]Heroic Wolf wrote:
To comment on pink shirt guy, this story surfaced on the front page of Yahoo a few days ago and apparently he won his last road rage fight (the cops were looking for him when he failed to show up in court for that). According to the guy he beat up in his last road rage brawl, he claims to be on a secret mission from the FBI to save millions of American lives. So he sort of has combat experience? Lol :P[/quote]

This craziness deserves a link so we can read for ourselves.

[quote]on edge wrote:

[quote]Heroic Wolf wrote:
To comment on pink shirt guy, this story surfaced on the front page of Yahoo a few days ago and apparently he won his last road rage fight (the cops were looking for him when he failed to show up in court for that). According to the guy he beat up in his last road rage brawl, he claims to be on a secret mission from the FBI to save millions of American lives. So he sort of has combat experience? Lol :P[/quote]

This craziness deserves a link so we can read for ourselves.[/quote]

x2 though I’m quite tempted to believe this. I remember reading in Wim’s blog that it wasn’t pink shirt’s first road rage fight.

By the way, it’s fucking cool that this thread has been stickied.

[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:

[quote]Big_Boss wrote:

Here’s another vid…since body language and posturing has been brought up. Also…leads into points about space…and distance. [/quote]

There was also a post on Wim’s blog about this as well. He dissects the situation pretty well.

http://www.wimsblog.com/2012/06/how-to-avoid-getting-knocked-out-in-two-moves-in-a-street-fight/[/quote]

Excellent stuff and advise from the blog again. Thanks for sharing.

This subforum is amazing. This thread is full (full!) of excellent information, insight, and experience. It is terribly refreshing to hear frank talk from people who know what they’re talking about on the subject of violence. Thanks very much to all who’ve shared/contributed. :slight_smile:

[quote]idaho wrote:
Robert A.
I can give a couple of examples of trying to pull injured officers from a fight, but, cannot from a civilian standpoint, because all my adult life, I have either been military or LEO. However, I have been personally sued for excessive force on both those occasions and for the individuals on this board who have no experience with the criminal justice system , please pay heed.

Some background: Spent my youth growing up state/ foster homes, learned very quickly the meaning of protecting your food, especially your cake. Got into TMA for an outlet and protection, graduated to boxing/ Muay Thai / Kali/ whatever I could to keep my skinny ass from getting stomped. Military to LEO.

Before going with the Feds, I was a street cop for 10 years in a major southern city, assigned to regular patrol/ vice/ narcotics/ swat.

Case # 1. I was assigned to SWAT at the time and on Friday and Saturday nights they would put two of us in an unmarked car to act as back-up to regular patrol units in high crime areas. The powers that be thought because we had better weapons in the trunk, we could ?intimidate? the bad guys to be more docile?I know funny?

We were floating an area of the city that had nothing but liquor stores, pawn shops, and strip bars. Always a good combination for testosterone overload and drunken women, perfect fight conditions. Around 2330 hours a fight call came in from a large ?Gentlemen?s Club? and two regular patrol units responded. We were a couple of miles away from the club, but, we cleared on the call and told radio we were about 5 minutes out.

The two regular patrol units arrived, went inside, and stepped into one of the worst bar fights, I have ever been involved in. It seems the local chapter of the Outlaws had tried to ?evict? a bunch of rednecks from their ?bar?. The first two officers put out a help call and when I went through the door, a dancer was screaming they were killing the cop. This is one of those places that has a narrow corridor, that turns three or four times before you actually get to the bar/ stage.

The place was packed with screaming idiots and my partner and I had to start screaming, shoving, kicking guys out of the way. Finally got to the center of the floor and this large guy was actually holding this light officer OFF THE FLOOR and shaking him like a rag doll. I finally got to him and kicked him as hard as I could behind the knee. Never fazed him , just looked and screamed ?motherfucker, I am going to kill you? . ok, mmmmm, shit getting deep.

I was carrying a 5 cell Kell-Light and I brought that thing around in a overhand strike and caught him between the right cheekbone and skull. To my good fortune , he folded up and dropped the officer. The troops got there and 18 people went to jail and 3 officers to the hospital. One of the officers was in the recovery for a week with cracked ribs and a broken nose.

Contrary to what civilians think, you cannot shoot people for fighting you. Back to my guy. When I fucked up and hit him in the head with the steel flashlight, unfortunately, it took 37 stitches to close him.

I was cleared by Internal Affairs but, I was personally sued for ?excessive force? and of course the city was sued, because they have the money. 18 months after the incident, I was still dealing with the attorneys / city attorneys/ department dickheads who weren?t there and thought I was ?too violent?. The city paid that asshole $250,000.00 and busted me to Sergeant. Now, if you are a civilian and get sued for ?excessive force? or whatever, who is going to pay but you? Intervening in a road rage fight/ domestic disturbance/ bar fight…etc?.Think long and hard about your financial and physical health.

Case#2.
I started to write about this on the 6 vs 1 thread. Now, I have been involved in the fighting arts since I was about 13 years old. Spent several years in Golden Gloves, long enough to know that I would never be world champion, fought several amateur MT matches, etc?so , I know what its like to hit and get hit, never felt that there was anyone on the street going to ?take me? LOL?How stupid can you be? That badge makes us all Superman.

I was working a project car by myself and received a stabbing call in one of the housing projects. My back up cleared and I got there first. As I was looking for the apartment number, a door opened and a female covered in blood fell into the narrow hallway. I went to her and saw her right side had been slashed open. I called for an ambulance and had her lay on the floor and press in on the cut.

About this time, a short, stocky male tries to step out the apartment, I said ?stop, stay there? show me you hands? He stopped, held his hands up and looked at me. I stood up because I didn?t like the way his eyes looked and just lowered his head and charged me like a bull. I had nowhere to go in the narrow hall way. He slammed into me, drove me into the wall, knocked the shit out of me. Instinct made me grab my service weapon, because, it is drilled into you that you carry your death with you, every day on duty.

He tried to tear my hand away from the gun, all the time, grunting and butting his head against my chest and head. The fight / flight reflex kicked in, and I rammed him into the other side of the wall. My right hand was on the thumb break of the holster, and I was hitting him with left hooks and uppercuts as hard as I could. Didn?t matter, never hurt him, I got some space and got my left hand around his head, pulled it down, kneed him several times?nothing?..nothing was working.

He still was trying to get my gun and for the first time in my LEO career, I thought I was going to die, because, when I know I am in deep shit, I get a cold feeling in my stomach, happened in the sandbox. Funny, after that passed through my mind, I just went crazy, forgetting all my training in everything, and just started winging punches, kicks, elbows, knees, whatever I could. He just kept grunting, twisting me around in a circle, trying to get that gun.

Now, the fight and this was a true fight, not a match with a referee, lasted about 1.5. minutes, before the troops got there and pulled him off of me. In that 1.5 minutes, I broke my left hand on his head, chipped a piece of bone off my right knee the size of a dime and had my nose broke and 3 ribs cracked?.1.5.minutes?.1 VS 1.

7 days later, I went to a preliminary hearing, they wheeled him in a wheel chair, seems during the fight, I broke 6 of his ribs, cracked his tibia, broke both cheek bones. Could not tell at the time, that?s for sure. Because he was the stabbing perp and the fight with me, they did a toxicology. He was wired to the gills on a combination of crack and PCP. Couldn?t feel a thing.

Once again I was sued for using excessive force in making a lawful arrest. Took about 13 months, but, it was dismissed. Good thing, because the city hadn?t forgot the first time?.

Now, there is going to be people who read this and say, ? guy sucks at fighting? Hell, Overeem would have put that guy out with one punch?maybe?but, he wasn?t there and I was. I think one of the big misconceptions in general, is that stylized training will always work in a real fight?no, it will not. Not when you encounter guys hopped up on drugs, alcohol, hate?.whatever. The whole fight dynamic changes. It?s a real life and death situation.

Since that time, I have been involved in several lethal force encounters, where after it was over, the shaking was off the wall, but, nothing sticks with me like that fight, because, at the time, I thought , I was real a badass. Now, when I don?t feel like training, I remember that fight and go train. Train hard and train often. Avoid street fights like the plague. Carry a .45ACP, where legal.

The criminal justice system doesn?t care about your motives or ?what is right?. Don?t put your life and your future in hands of some local prosecutor looking to make a name for themselves. Don?t EVER trust a jury to do the ?right thing?. There is no ?justice? in a courtroom, only a winner and a loser. Sorry for the long post. [/quote]

Amazing post. Thanks for sharing.

I am glad that I took the time to read this whole thread from start to finish. I actually wish I had read it sooner, as I would have liked to participate in it at the time that it was so active.

I must state that I totally agree with so many of the points brought up here, especially by Big Boss and Fightin Irish. It’s great to see a thread that actually delved into the realities of violence on the street, without any of the “bro crowd” chiming in. It’s unfortunate that it takes showing people a simple video like this to get them to get a dose of reality.

I particularly appreciated Idaho’s posts. I have, much like him, been either in the Army or working as a LEO my entire adult life. 21 years later (and significantly wiser now) I am still a student of violence. I don’t want to rehash any of the great lessons that he and others have added to this thread, but if I may, I would like to give some advice based on my own experiences.

First, I have found that not only should you NEVER underestimate your opponent, but that you really should OVER estimate him (or her)…ESPECIALLY the small ones. Every truly unpleasant physical altercation I have had was with a smaller framed person. I don’t know if it’s because they have something to prove, or if it’s just a necessary adaptation for survival, but smaller guys throw down hard…and fast. They rarely require much provocation, perceived or otherwise.

Second, I have tremendous respect for both grappling arts and striking arts. That being said, and based on my experience, ground fighters tend to underestimate the amount of damage they can do to themselves by taking a fight to the ground on the street. I am certainly not saying to disregard grappling if you train…it’s essential to at least be comfortable on the ground. But, I have rolled on concrete, blacktop and other unforgiving surfaces both in training and in real life…and I wished I hadn’t afterwards. What I have learned to do is use that to my advantage. The ground itself gets used as a weapon now. If the only place you roll is on a mat, you are doing yourself a tremendous disservice. Same if you don’t train to access your weapon systems on the ground.

Third, make the effort to know what YOUR particular state laws are regarding self defense, defense of third parties, legal blade limits, concealed carry, etc. Do the research yourself. NEVER rely on what you heard from another person. Stay within those limits, arm yourself conservatively and ACT conservatively. Even in my position as a LEO in a large city, I am only going to intervene (if off-duty) in the most extreme of violent felonies. I am duty bound to do so…many of you are not.

In any case, I was very glad to find this thread. I sincerely hope it continues.

damn it!

all videos are down. =(

Where can I watch this video? All embedded urls are down.

Amazing reading, thanks very much to those sharing their experiences.

Ok, I guess everyone at this board would agree that fighting on the street is to be avoided at all costs. If you absolutely have to, though, at least follow those simple guidelines and do it properly. Guess that’ll give you a good chance of surviving an encounter, huh?

(Ah, yes, before anyone asks… of course it’s a joke.)

FirestormWarrior,

               LOL..just saw this addition...