[quote]buckeye girl wrote:
Maybe I’m just really fucking lucky, but I’ve gotten nothing but encouragement from others at my gym…despite the fact that I can’t squat 1/3 of what our big guys do. And thats how it should be. I just don’t see what anyone gains by calling others weak and pathetic.[/quote]
I think that happens for the same reason some people don’t compete - they want to maintain the self-delusion that they are better than others.
Something that gets my goat is when people think you have to be able to bench 2xbw or squat 3xbw to compete in powerlifting. Unless you’re going for “elite” you’re really just competing for your own reasons; to break your own PB, to keep in shape, for fun etc