Waylander… I can be a bit like you… people can easily piss me off sometimes and I have no problem whatsoever than to just put them in their place (and I’m good at it too!). The difference here is that you came here for help, same as me (I’m a complete noob). When I first posted, alot of people tried to tell me, though rather politely, that I shouldn’t be doing this or shouldn’t be doing that, that I’m a pussy for not wanting to inject, etc. etc. I could have very easily reacted like you (which I would potentially do had the situation been different) and told them to STFU as you say. The problem is, I have a question, and they have the answer… just like you. When someone has something you want (a solution to your problem) you gotta be nice, even if you want to strangle them, so that you can get what you want (information).
You had a BIG problem, some people were willing to help, others wanted to break your balls. But you have to be nice to EVERYONE (no matter what!) to get accepted in this community because there is a great wealth of information here… ESPECIALLY since you’re now starting aas and probably will take more down the road. Why burn your bridges? You can’t say, “I don’t care if some people don’t like me”. Well, here, you HAVE to make sure everyone likes you to get accepted and get what you want.
Anyway, I hope you don’t blow up at me on this. It’s just my 2 cents. To be honest, I was alot like you when I was younger (I’m 34 now) and I’ve learned alot now that I’m older. I know all kinds of ‘older’ people will tell you that… and I HATED hearing that when I young… but, fuck, they were so right. You’ll see! ;o)
You had a BIG problem, some people were willing to help, others wanted to break your balls. But you have to be nice to EVERYONE (no matter what!) to get accepted in this community because there is a great wealth of information here… ESPECIALLY since you’re now starting aas and probably will take more down the road. Why burn your bridges? You can’t say, “I don’t care if some people don’t like me”. Well, here, you HAVE to make sure everyone likes you to get accepted and get what you want.
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I don’t know, it seems like I’m pretty unpopular with a few people lately, but it doesn’t seem to be affecting me much
Yeah, you’re right, Cortes… you should see all the PM’s I get about you :oP Seriously though I read quite a few of your posts and haven’t seen anything remotely close. Maybe it’s the big sword and all ;o)
well see vin I was kind to everyone at first until hangiron started saying stupid shit. The first 8 posts were all"go to a doctor or your dumb". In respone to those I was cordial, and said I would see a doc the next day. Howvever the problems started with hangiron, I already got the answer to my question many times over and now people were just posting in this thread to insult me, thats when I got mad. I have no problem taking criticism when its given with advice but when like the 16th poster in this thread says “go see a doctor, you’re the reasons bodybuilders and steroids have a bad name.” Im gonna flip out. I kept my cool for a while when I could have started arguing with people, but stuff like that I wont let fly.
So, you got your answer, but then people started pissing you off, so you flipped out. But now, what will happen when you need another answer? Next time, just keep your cool no matter what and you’ll have a reliable place to get all your answers whenever you want. If you really want to tell someone off big time, that’s cool, but at least do it in a PM instead of publicly like that. Then everyone will like you and will always be willing to help you no matter what.
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So, you got your answer, but then people started pissing you off, so you flipped out. But now, what will happen when you need another answer? Next time, just keep your cool no matter what and you’ll have a reliable place to get all your answers whenever you want. If you really want to tell someone off big time, that’s cool, but at least do it in a PM instead of publicly like that. Then everyone will like you and will always be willing to help you no matter what.
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Did you really just tell this kid to send threats via PM? WTF is wrong with you man?
i think he was meaning more along the lines of if you have a beef with someone dont carry it out in the open, discuss it via PM as the two persons can work it out without 18 other people joining in
Hey vin, go read some of the stuff that was said to me plz. No one can keep their cool after some of that. Especially after my arm is better and I’m at home lol, them commenting is just irrelevant
I didn’t mean sending threats by PM, that would be completely out of line. I just meant to keep your beefs with someone in private vs in public.
Waylander, sometimes in life you have to keep your cool no matter what. You’re young, it’s not your fault… we were all there. In time you’ll learn that what I’m telling you is the truth.
Even with me, I’m being nothing but nice and polite to you, no? I’m looking out for your best interests. But you’re still coming back telling me that my comments are irrelevant. Instead of getting more aas, get some weed, and chill! ;o)
If I were you, even though some of the other people in the forum were a bit out of line, I would still apologize to everyone for blowing up and let the dust settle. Be the bigger man (which is exactly what you’re trying hard to be!). If you can’t understand that, I have nothing else to offer you in regards to advice. I’ve said everything there is to say and I think I speak for everyone.
I’d do what I said above and then close up this thread and put it behind you. The decision is yours.
no no no, I’m not telling you that your comments are irrelevant, I was saying the people who just pop in to talk shit and leave, thats irrelevent. I appreciate what you’re trying to do for me, really I do. And at some point during this thread I did offer a sort of apology and said that I have been hothead and blow up sometimes. I’m completely cool being polite until someone decides to call me a name or something.
haha dozens of people gave you the same, and the correct advice, you listened to it, but didnt obey promptly enough, and there goes a month of training. I must have missed something, but that IS NOT a good results from this situation - you should have been back training a couple days later if you had not been so lazy. YES, you are giving bodybuilders a bad and lazy reputation. fortunately few non-bodybuilders will know about it.
NOW, please calm down when someone criticized your blatant faults and learn. the attitude is not only annoying but futile. I think your just pissed at yourself for being a dumbass teenager and thinking you always know best. (I am a teenager as well, but I cant image waiting more than 2 minutes before going to the trainer/doctor/hospital if something like that happened to me - I might even call 911). My last words to you, any more would not be worth it…
