[quote]SkyzykS wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
You guys are way to emotional when it comes to risks and rewards.
There was a deal and both sides knew what they were going into.
I would have no problems whatsoever letting the bank take the fall, because that was the deal and the bank knew beforehand and risked it anyway.
Why should a small mortgage owner bail out the bank when it comes to his mortgage?
Even a mortgage owner who walks away ultimately keeps his contract and that is all what counts in the end.
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Maybe some are emotional about risk/reward, I am not though. If anything, I’m about as cold and calculated as a person could be.
What pisses me off is to see people whining about it and shirking responsibility. They weren’t complaining when they were living in houses that they couldn’t afford, driving vehicles that they shouldn’t have had, and for all intents and purposes- stealing a lifestyle that they weren’t able to earn.
A friend of mine is a bank manager. Three years ago he was offering me a ARM loan. As we discussed this casually (out of office, no paperwork) I told him straight forward- That won’t work. I don’t have or need an advanced math or business degree to know that the numbers we were discussing wouldn’t add up, or that the costs of housing simply could not continue to rise as they had. Nor would the interest rate that was being offered, which when combined with the deferred interest on top of the original payment plus interest accrued for the time period of the deferral, AND the increase in interest on the principal(cause adjustable rates do adjust) all I would be doing was paying him to take my house 3 years from now. I called it as I saw it- spun sugar. Sweet fluff that I was not going to buy.
The counter he presented was this- Refinance! When the deferral period comes up, we’ll refinance at a lower rate and different terms!
Mine was- “Who in their right mind is going to refinance me when my debt to income ratio is going to be so far out of whack that I will be on the verge of default? Whats more is that the value of the property cannot hold. There is going to be a crash, and when it happens, the people who are buying now are going to have property that cost a hell of a lot more than it is worth.”
Then came the silence. His best response was “Come on into my office. I’ll put it all down on paper and we’ll work it out.”.
I never set the appointment. There is no sense in working something out on paper that doesn’t make any sense in the first place.
His whole presentation during this conversation we had was what I refer to as the basic money pitch. The problem we have currently is that Millions of people bought it. They didn’t exercise their own diligence in checking to see how the numbers work out in the long run. They wanted stuff, and they wanted it “Now”.
I see the responsibility as 50/50. Banks do what banks do. It’s no surprise to me that it is historically known as one of the most dubious professions.
That doesn’t mean that the people who bought the bullshit, hook, line and sinker bear no responsibility.
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I understand your feelings and I see those people the same way you do.
However, they live in a society that coddles them from cradle to grave. Not the really poor in America but those who own most of these houses, the middle class. Those coddled people make coddled decisions.
I think some people think I am not serious when I claim that the free market creates social capital, a form of disciplin and mores that goes far beyond the effects of what religion religion and family can do, because it hurts like hell when you lose your life savings.
So ideally this crisis will teach some Americans something about life and how to deal with money that their grandchildren will still profit from.
Or they will get bailed out too and they will remain sheeple until the whole house comes down.