[quote]Hellfrost wrote:
[quote]FattyFat wrote:
[quote]D Public wrote:
punches fatty for his insights
what i meant by entitlement is that Im willing to take what I believe is mine through personal means…I think the majority believe that things should be handed to them simply because they are part of a society and that they are entitled by decree of law…What I feel entilted to will be earned…
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I have a problem whenever the word ‘belief’ enters situations in need of conflict resolution.
So, hypothetically speaking: I like to stick my pecker up your wife’s ass. Being way stronger and muscular than you would entitle me to do so (after caving in your skull, of course).
[quote]D Public wrote:
As far as getting in trouble for warning people…i’ll give a minor example…I cant go up to a guy in the gym and tell him to get off the seated row machine when i need it… when he clearly isn’t putting any effort in his sets…I would eventually get kicked out of the gym for being aggressive with people…
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A good example, but I see a few problems with your interpretation, since the data you’ve given are a bit hazy and fuzzy.
What do you refer to by claiming he isn’t putting enough effort into his sets?
Let me be clear: I won’t have someone sit on a machine pausing his ass off while using his cell. I’d demand to let me work in, at the very minimum. That’s what I usually do. I’ve never been denied, yet.
But if he weren’t rowing away with an intensity you deem as being enough, but not pausing his ass off, either, you’d have no claim, no entitlement at all. Why should you? Would you dictate how other people should live their lifes? Then we’d be back to square one with me sodomizing your woman whenever the mood stroke me.
Again, to be clear: if you’d try to drag me off a rowing machine just for the fact that my way of training wouldn’t be deemed hard enough for your standards, I’d manhandle you face-first into the toilet. If you’d approach me about letting your work in beside me, I might let you (provided you’d be strong enough to keep up without hindering my training).
Don’t get this the wrong way: aggression where it’s needed. But you come over as a tad frustrated. Have you actually tried telling people what you think of them after they’ve angered you in some way?
Politeness doesn’t have to indicate weakness. Just sprinkle it with a tad of determination and aggressiveness, if need be. I think I’ve outlined that I wouldn’t shy off of getting physical if the need arose.
There are usually a few tools suitable for any given situation. Most people I know only have a hammer.
Maybe it’s time to extend your toolbox, man.
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When people start lifting, their character and confidence improves, they feel better about themselves and are stronger in general. Unfortunately they get so arrogant that their head is too far stuck up their ass to realize it. They think I can kick this guy’s ass, why doesn’t society let me do it? They are holding me back! they are trying to make me a pussy! If I want to rip a stop sign off the ground and shove it in this guys face for stretching in the squat rack then by god I will!
They are like that super nerdy kid in school who knew all the answers in class but would never help anyone, and if they did they did it with the biggest attitude, like they were doing the world a favor.
Yes, I use to have a problem sometimes with aggression and use to break things in my house, but I have come to realize that it’s easy to break things and throw a tantrum. But it takes a bigger man to control his emotions and find a better solution to his problems.
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Hi, I’m Donovan. I just want to point something out. You seem to be confusing ‘aggression’ with ‘violence’. Those two are not the same thing. Did you say that English is not your first language? How much sense does it make to argue about meanings of words with those who know no other language? Just a thought.
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