[quote]Hellfrost wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]Hellfrost wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]Hellfrost wrote:
Looks like everyone here knows exactly how to be a MAN!
What the hell is up with this bullshit where you have to be aggressive to get things done? You are not being chased by an 800 pound fucking saber-tooth… your posting on T-Nation on your comfortable chair with four walls and a roof. You are right, we need more aggressive people… we need more aggressive fathers beating their wives, more aggressive surgeons cutting you open and more aggressive dentists ripping off your wisdom teeth with their bare hands because some fat ladies made fun of their eating. [/quote]
You seem confused. Why does being aggressive translate into something negative for you? This entire country would not have been founded without some very aggressive people working to make that happen.
Hell, most of the inventions that now make your life so easy were created by REBELS and freethinkers…exactly what you seem to now hate.
Explain why being aggressive relates to destruction and pain for you.
I treat patients all day long and no patient is getting wisdom teeth “ripped out”.
You seem very feminine and afraid. Why is that?[/quote]
I think we need to define what aggression means.
“In psychology, as well as other social and behavioral sciences, aggression (also called combativeness) refers to behavior between members of the same species that is intended to cause pain or harm.”
Who are you planning to cause pain or harm to Professor X?
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Gee, the definition from Webster also includes:
[quote]1 : a forceful action or procedure (as an unprovoked attack) especially when intended to dominate or master[/quote]…which means you sure are being selective…like that is a surprise.
I mean, people like you are mostly just “passive aggressive” anyway, you just don['t like doing the dirty work yourself…much like your continuous action to make it seem as if I don’t know how to act professionally after about 8 years of practice in my career.
It took quite a lot of “forceful action and procedure” as well as attention to detail to even get to this point in my life at an age that most people DON’T. Most people are not doctors while still in their 20’s and most have not been officers and in positions over people several years older than them before the age of 30. If you think someone can pull that off while acting like an insane lunatic, you are greatly mistaken.
Again, you seem feminine and afraid. Why is that?
I am a very aggressive person. I see what I want and I go after it until I get it. Most people are NOT that way anymore. They want to avoid hard work and avoid paying their dues. They want to be pampered and respected without earning any of it.
Once again, why does being aggressive translate into harm and pain for someone like you?[/quote]
I like how you are calling out my credibility by calling me feminine and “avoid doing the dirty work”. I do not have the same experience as you due to you being older then me. However you have been lucky to be born in a country where you have been safe all your life, no need to have gotten up in arms to protect what you love.
You think aggression leads to innovation, perhaps focused aggression can, but brutal violent aggression serves nothing this day and age.
My government left my country and stole all of it’s people’s investments. There was no military, police, or any form of control for over 6 months. We broke the military arsenals and stole everything… there was a loaded tank sitting in front of my house. We as the people rose and took control of what our government could not. But then people started getting aggressive and violent, if you walked down the street you could have been shot in the head and no one would have done anything about it.
I was fortunate enough to come to this country, however I have done more then enough work to put your medical degree to shame. The Ferrari to my left was earned with real blood. I had to see someone beat to death in front of me while someone held a loaded gun to my face this summer.
This is not the same thing as you talking about a few people who can’t lift weights in the gym and calling them pussies and how your society is becoming feminine. Call me a pussy, weak, and feminine, but you don’t know real aggression until your life hangs in the balance. [/quote]
wow VERY motivating.
i agree masculinity is not the same as violence.
although sometime violence is necessary to be make it on top.