[quote]kardon wrote:
[quote]dylan10507 wrote:
Women are still feminine it’s men who are weak because you need to BECOME a man.
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You’re going to have to define feminine. Personally, I thought girls should have to BECOME a woman, too. I define feminine as the effects of high estrogen pregesterone and low testosterone. The reason is simple adaptation when required your body produces more testosterone or more estrogen our society simply is easier living so less testosterone is produced. And honestly you just don’t women just become women men need to do work our society simply is for the most part the natural habitat of women and not men live as a boy in the habitat of men you become a man live as a girl in the habitiat of women you become a woman live as a boy in the habitat of women … you stay a boy.
It’s simple It is definetly good for women to have some of the qualities of men but it is acceptable if she doesn’t and is weak if a man doesn’t it is not. We know this it is in our dna.
It’s simple evolution. woman + strong man= sabertooth tiger gets killed and you have food, woman+weak man= fancy feline for sabertooth tigers
You mean hide your affections so you don’t lose the upper hand? Weak women do this too.
Men are the ones who need the balls to be the one to be the aggressor it’s nature.
I believe women should do this too. Don’t get me wrong, I’m ALL for equality between men and women. My problem is these dipshit men you’re describing also fit the description of dipshit women. It’s not just a gender issue, it’s a cultural issue. Mainstream culture, at least here in the States (I can’t speak for other cultures since I have yet to visit other countries), promotes being a dipshit regardless of gender. Most people just sit on their asses waiting for life to give them what they want instead of taking responsibility for their own destiny. If they try and fail, it’s their own fault. If they never try, they never fail. Then they’re still winners.
Very good interesting points.
It’s kind of like this: you want to put food on the table, and you could either hunt some rabbits or slay a dragon for your food. Either way, you’ll put food on the table, but it is the one who has the balls to face the dragon that will know true glory. Yes, facing that dragon is not a guaranteed success like it is with hunting rabbits. And you may very well fail. However, failure is a part of life. Everyone at some point has failed at something. To not do something for fear of failing is not living at all. Prepare yourself the best you can and face that fucking dragon. Win or lose, at least you’ll never spend the rest of your life wondering “what if?”[/quote]
My EXACT life philosophy. ABSOLUTELY agree with you. Especially the last sentence. I actually think about that quite often since I was 15 I thought what if I just go to college have a family live a desk job and am fourtee? I’d die for just a CHANCE even if it’s just one percent to go all out and completly go for the life I want. So thats what I am doing.
You know alot of what you posted like going all out for a good life can and does apply to men and women as you have shown. The main thing I beleive where it separates is in RELATIONSHIPS between men and women. The man by nature has his role (protector, loving leader the one who starts it etc.) and the woman has hers as well.
Most men want a girl to RESPECT him and look up to him and think he is great amazing and competent and successful etc. Most women want to be desired and loved I.e. they love when you love there laugh there eyes and every inch of there body and the way she moves and her smile etc. It is a different type of love.
Also they love the desire for her and choosing her and just teling her you want her etc. (sweeping off the feet) and most men would love to do this and neither wants it the other way around. It’s simple all species have there way of mating this is ours.
Still what guys like prof x and others and my other post said about SPECIFICALLY anti male strength, aggression and general misanthropy being acceptable still is true.
But again this is just pointing out a few things, Right now our society is almost as good as a society can get this is just one little problem and it’s just “nudges” you can still live and thrive as a strong masculine man if you simple shun a few areas of our society.
Edit; another thought confidence is good in both sexes is good but is different. Attractive confident girls expect you to be attracted to them and take everything as a complement since they know they are attractive and interested. Also they will not get nervouse, only attracted when you are aggressive and direct in going for them. Confidence in men is confidence in takeing action and going for what you want and getting it.