[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
Wow, this thread is like a 10 car pile up; I just can’t stop looking at the carnage!
To the guys who support the OP, most of us who posted in “protest” were not denying the fact that it is childish to post. I’ve accepted that it is for attention and a little pick me up. So sue me. Do you drink to take the edge off? Does that make you an alcoholic or do you realize that what you are doing is probably not the most constructive thing in the world, but it feels good? [/quote]
I can’t believe I’m getting sucked into this but your post in defense of your behavior deserves a response. Those of us that object, see it for what it is. What do you add by admitting it’s “look at me”? It’s needy, and screams of insecurity and pathology. From what I can tell, you appear to be an attractive lady. Beauty is cheap. Have some damn dignity. If you need to post pics on the internet for a “pick me up”, I’m sorry miss, but you have issues. Don’t expect me either celebrate or feed your issues.
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
Some of you can view those pics as needy, and that’s fine. However, I personally don’t see how posting a few anonymous pics is much different from wearing tight clothes, getting shit faced at a bar and making out with another girl to get some attention (and god knows you assholes fall for this ploy every fucking time). At least here I don’t have to risk getting an STD. [/quote]
All the above is equally distasteful. Men and women are equally guilty of “peacocking”. It screams insecurity. Whether or not you can contract an STD here is irrelevant. It’s a matter of dignity.
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
Are you angry with the guys who reply positively to pics posted? If you go to a titty bar you tip the dancer, right? I know this has been said a million times already, but if you don’t think it is right to tip her, then don’t go into the fucking club. Compliments keep the thread moving. If you check out the thread and don’t comment, that’s fine but don’t give the guys who do any shit because without them there is no thread. It is fun and flirty. Stop taking it so damn seriously. [/quote]
In all honest, I have no anger about this issue at all. The only anger I can detect is from those that want to flame the OP. I just think guys “begging” for pictures is transparent and corny. I rather feed someone earnestly in need of a compliment or input that waste food feeding your needy pathology to be noticed. I don’t go to titty bars for much the same reason. I wouldn’t dream of paying a woman to sit on my lap. I don’t think anyone is taking any of this seriously, and I don’t think there is an object to other men “commenting”. It’s the begging that is comical.
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
OK, there are 4 T-Vixen threads (I don’t know how long it has been going on) and about 15,000 other posts about guys drooling over girls, posting pics of asses, celebrities, complaining how much girls suck, complaining that girls don’t suck enough, complaining that women don’t appreciate you, complaining that women are out of control, complaining girls are stuck up. Every other post in SAMA is some guy bitching like a prom queen with her underwear inside out. [/quote]
All the above is a far cry from you screaming “notice me” to a bunch of anonymous internet “friends”. Like I said before, have some dignity. You appear to be a good looking girl. Now work on “you” - obviously you’re missing something if you need attention on the internet.
Those are the posts that make me question what kind of men post on this site, not a couple of guys who can innocently engage in a little sexual banter to pass the time.
You want to call me needy because I enjoy getting compliments from strangers on the internet, that is fine. Perhaps the OP started this thread because he has a need to feel superior to strangers on the internet. Today’s society has everyone so fucked up in the head that I don’t think there is a single “sane” person left in the world.
We all have needs, desires, addictions and to think you are better than someone else because yours are different is not just arrogant, but ignorant. In the immortal words of Barry Bonds, “When your closet is clean, you can come clean somebody else’s”.
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You filtering this thru your personal pathos to make the OP out as needing to feel “superior” is actually just a reflection of your poor self esteem. We have alread established that the likes of you are “needy” and you admitted it. Where’s the argument? The internet is full of images. I don’t see a need to beg the likes of you to supply one. That the likes of me does not choose to participate in feeding your pathos, does not imply I (or anyone else that understands the argument) am attempting to be superior, or that I’m angry. Your seeing yourself as “inferior” in some manner, does not automatically make our objections to your attention whoring as being “superior”. We all have our pathos, it’s just that some of us try not to act them out publically.
Lighten up. I don’t ‘need’ any of it.