[quote]ALDurr wrote:
Hack Wilson wrote:
well, al. most of what i wrote was ‘over-the-top’ sarcasm meant to over-emphasize a point of view: That the ‘rich’ are sometimes not so rich and the poor are sometimes not really trying to be any thing other than poor because our government does not do a good enough job of incentivizing hard work, savings, etc.
This is what I thought you were saying and I do agree with you on that. Had you said this instead of the H2 “New York Post” style of posting, I wouldn’t even have said anything to you.
I’ll say this and you can disagree if you like. I am the director of a human services agency. i’ve been in human services for about 12 years now. i’ve been in IV-D (child support) and TANF (welfare) and medicaid. in all these years i have not encountered very many poor people who are willing to work hard in order to NOT be poor.
Maybe its because they don’t know how not to be poor. No one has shown them they way to not be poor, so they repeat the cycle. You can’t blame someone for not understanding something that they have never been exposed to and have never seen in action.
a great deal of the people on assistance (of varying kinds) are criminals, drug users, alcholics, etc. these people are not intereted in producing or succeeding. they are interested in the checks they get every month. so don’t tell me how i don’t care and how you pity my attitude. i have done more to help people get off of assistance and get into the real world than you or anyone on this fucking board!
Oh please, you righteous indignation is just more of your drama queen bullshit! Until now, no one knew what the fuck you did for a living! All anyone knew on here about you is that you apparently make a good amount of money, you like to brag about yourself, you like to feel superior at others’ expense and you are caustic and confrontational! This is the forum persona that you have presented thus far! No one has said you don’t care and no one has any pity for your attitude! You’ve been showing your ass ever since your first post in this forum! So if someone gets the impression that you are an asshole, it’s your own fault! Get over yourself already!
i also do more to make sure that these people get their money, money that many of them will use on drugs and booze. a GREAT many of them. and then they’ll cry poor or claim that they’ve been targeted when their kids get taken away and put in foster care. i see it every day of my life.
liberals like to have an ideal of the ‘noble’ poor. mostly, that is NOT REAL, al. sorry.
So I guess you feel real good about yourself helping the poor peasants while looking down your nose at them? You think you are the only one that has been around this environment? 12 years? That’s it? Please, spare me! Some of us actually grew up in this environment and we know more about the ‘noble’ poor than you realize! Some of us actually were the ‘noble’ poor and we managed to work our way out without the help of asshole, jerkoff elitists like you looking down their noses at us! Some of us that worked our way out actually go back and help those that are still there! The difference is that we don’t do it for the paycheck like you do and we don’t look at them as less than human!
If it looks like I’m questioning your motives, well, so far your “shit on them” attitude hasn’t indicated any different! Deal with it![/quote]
Al, not to butt in, but I believe that you may be also making generalizations that are not accurate. While it is stupid to think all people on assistance are drug users, criminals, etc, it is also not accurate to believe that they all just don’t know how to not be poor. I believe that both of these examples represent very few of those on assistance.
I believe the majority know what to do to not be poor, but they lack the motivation to improve their situation. One of the major problems I believe is the entitlement attitude that is prevalent in the US. The government has brainwashed people to believe that they are entitled to money, housing, etc. If people truly understood that they are entitled to nothing, then you would see many on assistance suddenly showing that they know how to not be poor.
We have just made it too easy and profitable to not get a job and not produce. As long as we continue to reward failure and dependence we will have this problem.
I’m not saying people who truly need help should not receive it. I’m saying that this help should not foster dependence, it should support independence.