I lived and grew up in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. Then I spent seven years in parts of SoCal(Oceanside, Fallbrook, San Diego, San Fernando, Santa Clarita). I missed the four seasons and snow and greenery. Plus I missed the Packers, Brewers, beers and brats.
I’ve been back in Wisconsin for a little over a year now and I’m really debating with myself about moving back to California. I miss the beaches and the climate. I’m bored here in Milwaukee.
I was happy to see my first winter and snowfall in over 7 years, but it wasn’t all that great. After the snow, it was just cold for like three months. Nothing exciting, just cold. I like the football; Packer and Badger fever, but I still miss SoCal. Besides, there were a couple Packer bars in North San Diego County.
In California I hated the traffic and how expensive housing was. I guess that’s the only positives about me staying here in the Midwest: very light traffic and cheap housing.
Just for comparison’s sake; I now have a one-bedroom apartment in downtown Milwaukee for $425 a month. In Santa Clarita I had a three-bedroom for $1700 and a two-bedroom for $1400. Before I lived in my current apartment, I had a two-bedroom in a Milwaukee suburb(Wauwatosa), with a backyard and garage for $600. In Fallbrook(northern San Diego County) I had one-bedroom for $675 and a two-bedroom for $800, but I’m sure those have gone up by now. It really is a huge difference.
But I still sit and think and wonder if it would be worth it to move back. I really do miss SoCal and most everything that comes with it. I love Milwaukee, but after seven years in the west, I feel too “left coast” to be comfortable here.
One other topic I want to comment on is girls. Yeah, there are a lot of hot girls in Cali. But most of them are sort of the same. They are all the same stereotypical Southern California beach bunny. Especially the California natives. That’s not to say that there are other types of girls, but a large percentage of the population falls into the stereotype. So much so that it became a turn-off to me. Now, with that being said, I kind of miss the “California Girl”.
I don’t know what I’m getting at and I don’t know if I’m helping at all. I just know that there is probably good and bad no matter where you live. I can’t even decide myself where I want to live. Should I go back?
I’m lost,
Toddy