[quote]lothario1132 wrote:
michael2507 wrote:
Regarding the patriotism issue: Personally, I consider the notion of being “proud” of my country (or my heritage as a matter of fact) somewhat awkward too. Liking or loving my country for one reason or the other seems more “natural” to me. “Natural” in terms of not creating a superficial sense of community where it doesn’t exist, at least not to that extent. That being said, I guess in most cases, people using one of the above mentioned phrases are trying to say the same thing or at least something similar.
Okay, seeing ya there. Let’s try this:
Are you proud of being a man? Doing manly things, furtively checking out some girl’s rack, the smell of sawdust and freshly mown grass, a cigar while watching the game on ESPN at a sports bar where the waitresses are beautiful, and REQUIRED to wear skintight clothing…
We had no choice in being men, and yet we revel in these things. There is no According to Hoyle “reason” for us to be this way, we just are. Surely you don’t feel weird about this, right? There isn’t anything artificial or contrived about taking satisfaction in fixing a broken chair (or doing anything involving a power saw and some sand paper for that matter), is there? This is just “guy stuff”.
Same thing with being an American. It’s okay to be proud of being an American for no other reason than you are one, if you want. Just don’t make the mistake of thinking that belonging to a group and enjoying it makes you better than someone else for no other reason. It’s like being a MENSA member doesn’t automatically make you the smartest person in the room. Win some chess games first… then talk shit. :)[/quote]
Good points. However, am I proud of being a man? No. Neither proud nor ashamed. I’m proud of meeting my standards or at least striving to do so, as well as holding certain values in high regard, though. Many of these standards and values may be shared by most of us on these boards, yet definitely not by the “average” man (being a mere mortal must suck, huh?)…
I agree, there isn’t anything artificial or contrived about taking satisfaction in fixing a broken chair. On the other hand, I would find it rather awkward trying to construe some sort of common entity called “man” based on the above mentioned requirement (and others of course) from which I derive my identity, at least part of it.
In the end, I guess it all boils down to wordings and definitions, and as long as one consciously adopts such a stance, there is no harm done. As it has been pointed out previously, the repercussions of an unconscious and undifferentiated approach in this context are another story and well documented by the history books…