[quote]FlatsFarmer wrote:
Also Brick, I hope my poorly chosen words didn’t come off as disrespect for you or your Religion or anything like that in any way. [/quote]
You have not disrespected me at all and your posts seem harmless to me.
I consider myself Jewish ethnically, not religiously. I have been an atheist since age eight or so. I’m also not a Jew who gives other Jews a pass simply because they’re Jewish, nor do I consider Jewish persecution to be unique considering others groups have been persecuted.
I do not feel comfortable “letting it all out” on a message board considering we live in a political-correctness-crazed country and heaven forbid you offend a group’s feelings, including my own.
But I’ll say this: I believe those making excuses for twelve year olds have never been victimized by violent twelve year olds or teenagers nor have they had it happen to their kids.
You see, there are people who are born losers, despite coming from loser parents or winner parents. Big cities tend to produce a never ending supply of devious and violent people, even many that were born into normal middle-class families and towns with low crime rates.
I have had few violent altercations but the first time I was ganged up upon was at age twelve by three other twelve year olds. Luckily it was broken up, but if these three kids had their way, I could have been very badly hurt. They also harassed me in school for several days after, but nothing severe came out of it past that. Do you think my parents gave a flying f— about what town these kids came from, or whether they had a mommy and daddy? Nope, they didn’t. Just as I am not going to give a flying f— about that stuff if some twelve year old physically or sexually harasses my future kids.
You see, many of us didn’t need a role model, or “community leader” to abstain from physically harming others, robbing them, dealing and doing drugs, or being delinquent from school. We just INSTINCTIVELY knew to follow rules. I grew up without a dad for most of my, and when he was present physically, he was “out to lunch”, a completely negligent husband and father. Yet I still knew there are these things in life called RULES, whether they are written or spoken or not. And when you don’t follow the rules, bad things happen.
The last time I had a scary altercation was in high school in a confrontation with three (what a lucky number and fair play) other teenagers. Now this was scarier for me than the first altercation. I was walking home on a cold winter day and things were dead outside. I forgot what I was doing around school late, maybe about 4:00 PM, but I was by myself. One kid walks towards me (I didn’t see who was waiting further down the street, and this was obviously a way to trick me from seeing that I was outnumbered) and as he is past me, asks, “Hey, can I get a dollar?” I turned back and replied “Nah.” As I turn my head and walk about one step forward I am surround by three people, all bigger and taller than me, who ask for my money. I was a skinny, 5’10", fifteen year old, from a peaceful background and was as unfamiliar with violence and fighting as much as one can be unfamiliar. That’s actually quite a scary situation considering if I dare even tried to fight back, who knows how bad of a beating or humiliated I could have been. It turns out that these three kids did not go to my high school and actually were on a rampage for about a week or two, robbing and beating up kids around the town and even hit a bus driver, a serious offense. I’d say, looking back on it, they were seventeen to nineteen years old.
Oh, by the way, a little detail about all three victimizers I speak of here: they were all black and most likely came from towns around Queens that lacked daddies, and all their victims were white or Jewish. Do you think the victims’ parents gave a rat’s ass about a lack of daddies or were they infuriated about what happened to their kids while they are in school or going to and from school, you know, where they are supposed to get a damn education, and above all be safe?!
I ask anyone how they’d feel if their kids were victimized by twelve year olds and if they’re going to make excuses for what were to happen to them?
Actually what I describe here is a bit mild compared to what did go on in the five boroughs in the 70’s, 80’s and 90’s. There used to be a gang called the Decepticons (and some of our beloved NYC rappers were in it). You can google or You Tube them to get some NYC education. Some were as young as fourteen, you know, not so much older than twelve. Weapons of choice were ice picks, box cutters, hammers, anything to disfigure, disable, or scare the living daylights out of innocent people. Activities of choice included mass shoplifting (they cleared out quite a few ritzy department stores), robbery, and assault. If word got around that “Decepts are coming”, people were scared and some schools would have security on high alert. They managed to rob LL Cool J back in the day.
There were dozens and dozens, maybe hundreds, of such crews back in the day, and luckily I went to school when their heyday was winding down. Another group would hang at a certain spot in the city and if they so happen to like what you were wearing, you were giving it to them… or going down! Another group would hang out in the financial district on payday (I wonder why). Oh, and they were also not adult mafiosi, but teenagers.
Any plausible excuses for this shit? Would you excuse it if your kid or woman was a victim simply because these people were somehow too young or too stupid to know that you don’t slice people’s faces open for kicks or because you like their brand name jacket or because you want some money to lazy to be worked for, or that they lacked a daddy?
I speak with no hate of any people here by the way, but just provide what went on and what goes on, albeit less in NYC these days. It is a friendly challenge to some here though.