Heres the situation this girl and myself have been talking for a few weeks and its looking all good in terms of us hooking up, we saw each other everyday and talked all the time, now today she tells me she doesn’t want to get in a realtionship with me because she still likes her exboyfriend and wants to try to work things out with him. Usually I’d be like aight then its all good, but theres something different about this girl, I mean I really like her, so how do you guys cope with something like that?
Not that I mean to disparage your obvious emotional pain here - but Jesus H. Christ you were only talking to her!! What, she owes you her pussy and her hand in marriage because she talked to you for a few weeks?! Puhleease! If you dig her and she digs you - BOOYAAH - you hook up! If you dig her and she doesn’t dig you - BOOHOO?! - you don’t hook up! If she’s all that and your proverbial bag o’ chips, then woo her, for chrissake. If she doesn’t respond to your wooing, then fuck her. Plenty o’ fish in the sea.
Walk away man. No, I take it back. RUN AWAY. Don’t let anybody try to tell you to “woo her.” Big, big mistake. She’s no different than any other woman. She’ll drag you thru hell and back with her feelings for her ex. RUN!
Well, I gotta say you have a way with words!
te he heee…and I’m holding back… Just think how fun I can be when I’m slightly intoxicated and feeding off the energy of a crowd.
Get out. Yeah, Karma’s kind of blunt, but she gives you a womans perspective straight on. This girl may have enjoyed talking to you, but she’s not interested in you as a boyfriend, now or ever. If she did think of you in those terms, she wouldn’t even be thinking about her ex, or she wouldn’t have even started talking to you. Look, it’s pretty simple. All you’re going to be doing is hanging around, waiting for things to go bad in their relationship. Kind of goulish. In the meantime, she’s happy, he’s happy, and you think life sucks. Leave. Get out, go find someone who does want you as a boyfriend.
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Forget her name and number. She’s not worth it. Stupid excuses, stupid reasons. Have you ever seen Seinfeld? The one where George says, “Don’t give me the ‘It’s me, not you.’ I invented the ‘It’s me, not you,’ baby!” Learn from that one. Or as Kramer has said, “You have to listen to the little man inside you.”
“My little man’s an idiot!!”
If you need someone to talk to get a dog. Move on.