After reading what you guys said and talking to my very cool mentor (hehe), I made the decision to confront the girl, Jamie. I wrote her an e-mail because I tend to process my thoughts better that way and I’m less likely to use profane language, which seemed like a big bozo no-no (my new favorite phrase) under the circumstances. The highlights are that I told her that she was jerking me around and I needed to know if she wanted to be with me, her ex-bf, some other guy, or no one at all. However, I made sure to tell her that I’d treat her better than the asshole ex or any other dude she might meet, for that matter. Finally, I asked her to be straight with me because I’m not interested in being her gay little friend. Succinctly put. Her response? I got a voice mail from her yesterday that was bullshit: “I’ve been busy. I did get your e-mail. I want to talk to you about my feelings.” She hasn’t done that, though (surprise). Whatever. “Wasting My Time” by Default is my new music selection. Quite appropriate. If you’d like her number in order to leave her a nasty message because she’s not down with CMC, I won’t give it to you. But it’s a nice thought.
Can we at least have her email address?
Geez, all tease, no please.
That’s great!! I did a similar thing recently. Left a message telling her that I wanted to see her, but I wasn’t going to waste my time with her voice mail. “You know my number, if you want to see me again, use it. If not, have a nice life.” Felt good to get that out.
Run to the Hills…run for your life!!! Drop her ass. It will be fun. Find a better chic. I’m tired. Night. 
She clearly doesnt deserve much of your respect, to ignore your calls.
If you’re into a girl, are you going to ignore her call/email for a week? See my point?
She’s giving you the turn-around. Cut your losses.
Or how about…you stop by the door of her place, take out your cell phone, dial her number, and say:
“Can you hear me now bitch”…
Very funny and rather appropriate if you ask me.
There are much better women in this world, she just isn’t the one for you. Like the others have said…if she was interested she would have called back sooner and would be making time to see you. She obviously isn’t mature enough to just be honest with you.
You deserve better.
Now enjoy your weekend!!